A BPD classic struggle is to love the potential you see in them or who you want them to be and forgetting to see who they are. I've done this with dozens of people: friends, family, partners, even co-workers. I struggle to meet people where they're at and instead dream about how I can make them fit into my world the way I want because maybe then I'll be worthy of love? 

It never works. IT. NEVER. WORKS. 

Leslie and I break down the struggle to be in the present moment when falling for people. 

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