Brandon shares a story of their first night out on this New York trip, and some bonus clips from their conversation with Durand on male intimacy. 

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Singer-songwriter Durand Bernarr joins the show to discuss what intimacy means for men, specifically between male friendships. But first, Brandon and Durand dive into some particularly spicy messy mail about sleepovers and dating. 

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Brandon shares a story about a previous connection, and they and Sophia discuss the gift / curse of the times we live in.

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Actor and advocate Sophia Bush brings captivating takes on accepting all facets of your emotions, breaking down gender identity and raising awareness about mental health. Plus, she and Brandon attempt to play a messy game that turns into a discussion on self-reflection. 

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World-renowned writer, actor and producer Lena Waithe is back on the show to dive into her place of worship, parenting and allowing oneself to grow. Plus, some moments of wisdom and guidance for meditation. But first — Can Lena name the movie these famous quotes are from? 

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A life-long friendship is hard to find, but so special when you do. 

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Brandon welcomes comedian, actor and bestie Devere Rogers, who comes in hot with a messy take treading in dangerous territory: Brandy and Monica concert tickets—are we being priced out of nostalgia? The love letter to the R&B queens turns into a discussion about the way legacy, value, and accessibility intersect in pop culture. Then a listener wants to know where the line is drawn between liberation and overindulgence, and another needs advice for complimenting their filthy rich lover. Finally, Devere and Brandon make one last mess with a listener stuck in that unsettled place—a relationship that checks every box but still doesn’t feel right.

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New York versus LA d*ck.Where do you all stand on the debate? 

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Brandon sits down with Erica Chidi, writer, producer and health educator, to talk secret trysts, and the thrill of keeping one bedroom a clean, always-ready zone for erotic fun. They dive into Erica’s four-pronged framework for keeping the urgency of intimacy ablaze: letting go of the extra partner in bed, reset your environment, manage pain, and set goals in the bedroom. On this episode, talking it through is the kink, baby!

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In this delightfully messy episode of Tell Me Something Messy, Brandon and Abbi Jacobson —actor, writer, producer, and co-creator of Broad City and A League of Their Own—(yes, that Abbi) tumble into the Messy Living Room to talk about art, impermanence, and why chasing a single “masterpiece” is overrated. Abbi confesses that not every work has to be your magnum opus, and that there’s health, joy, and a little freedom in making art just for art’s sake. The two also dive into what’s new: Abbi’s latest producing projects and acts of love including Prelude, that last time she partied-partied, and that little mortality thing that keeps creeping up.

They discuss how creating without pressure can be a radical act of presence and dive into your Messy Mail. 

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