There are 2 parts to getting an ex back - no contact and after no contact.  If you mess up once you're back in touch with your ex, you'll lower your chances of getting them back.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what you need to do once you hear from your ex.

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If your ex is an avoidant, there's a good chance you're anxious.  If you let your anxiety take over when you're trying to get your ex back, your chances of success are very low.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you absolutely must do if you want your avoidant ex back.

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Exes come back because they miss you and they realized what they lost when they broke up with you.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares how to motivate your ex to change their mind about the breakup and reach out.

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Believe it or not, even though your ex broke up with you, they do want to talk with you, even if weeks or months have gone by.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why your ex wants to talk, even if they haven't reached out yet.

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There's a quote that says, "Dumper: Laugh Now, Cry Later.  Dumpee:  Cry Now, Laugh Later.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why eventually your ex will feel worse and you will feel better.

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The no contact phase of a breakup is simple, but not easy. Where people make the most mistakes is AFTER no contact.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the 3 biggest mistakes that will ruin your chances of getting your ex back.

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Your mind is not your friend during no contact.  It wants a dopamine hit and will lie to you to get you to break no contact.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the biggest lies your mind tells you after a breakup.

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Is your ex in pain, even though they dumped you?  If so, what are some signs that they're suffering as much, if not more, than you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia talks about whether your ex is in pain and the signs to look for.

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Are you tempted to break no contact out of curiosity, just to see if your ex might still be interested?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you're asking to be rejected twice when you break no contact.

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What happens when your ex finally feels your loss after dumping you?  Will they immediately contact you and say they want you back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what to expect after you've been dumped and you go into no contact.

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