If you've been broken up with or had to break up with someone because they cheated or took you for granted, one of your first instincts will be to block or unfollow them. However, that's not the right move, if you want them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should NOT block or unfollow your ex right after a break up.

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What does a dumper goes through if they had to break up with their ex because they were being taken for granted?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what the dumper is thinking and feeling by reading and commenting on an email from one of her coaching clients who got her ex back after she broke up with him.

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Will no contact work if your ex broke up with you several times in the past and you always chased them to get them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals whether no contact will work if you've never used it on your ex during previous breakups.

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 Is your ex thinking about you after the break up? Is there any way to know if they're thinking about you or not? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 signs your ex is thinking about you.

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When someone breaks up with you, it's not always a real breakup. They may be doing it as a manipulation. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what a fake breakup is and how to know if your breakup is real or fake.

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Can you get your ex back after years apart?  Does no contact work on women?

Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers these questions from emails and comments of people who used the no contact rule successfully.

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Will no contact work after multiple break ups, if you weren't even in a relationship? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads an email from a woman who was finally able to get a commitment after using the no contact rule.

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If you're in no contact long enough, at some point you'll be tempted to break it.  How you handle that moment may mean the difference between getting your ex back or living in regret.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what will make you want to break no contact and when you'll most likely be tempted.

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If you're trying to get an ex back, you probably already know that you shouldn't ask your family and friends for advice, because they will always tell you to break no contact. There's also someone else you shouldn't take advice from after a breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one person you should not go to for help in getting your ex back, and who to listen to instead.

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Is your ex really over you if you don't hear from them, or are they just putting on an act, in the hopes you'll contact them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 12 signs your ex is only pretending to be over you. The more signs you see, the higher the chances that they are just "the great pretender", but actually miss you and maybe even want you back.

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