The Art of Love With Lucia

Are most guys really jerks or is there something else going on?  Why are guys so nice in the beginning and then turn into jerks?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers the question as to whether jerks really exist.

When you first start dating someone, how often should you text or call?  How often should you see them?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to make sure you're not over-doing it and turning the other person off.

When was the last time you felt anticipation?  Although most of the world may function on instant gratification, dating and relationships cannot and should not be rushed.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how anticipation can make a difference in your love life.

What should you do if you're dating someone who is "nice" but there is little to no chemistry?  Should you wait to see if things change or end it right away?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why "nice" is not always the best criteria for picking a mate.

Does the 3-day rule still work, or did it ever?  Should you wait to call someone when you get their number or is it okay to call within 24 hours?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks it down for you.

This week's email is from a guy who's interested in a woman on a dating site who seems to be out of his league.  He currently doesn't have a job or a car and wonders if there's any hope.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia advises him as to what he should do.

Are you impatient and restless about finding the love of your life?  Do you wish they were here already and wonder what's taking so long?  Find out how the story of a couple moving a mattress can be an inspiration while you're waiting.

Is it a good idea to ask your friends for advice on your love life?  What are the downfalls of getting help from someone who isn't a professional?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why friends often do more harm than good.

What's the best way to bond with a guy?  Does having long phone conversations or texting sessions lead to bonding?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what is the best way to bond with a guy.

Is a "friends with benefits" relationship a good idea or should you hold out for someone who wants a real relationship?  What are the benefits and who gets them?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks it down for you.