The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers: Dating, Relationship, Masculinity & Intimacy Guidance For Men

In this week's mini-episode, I answer a question that many of my coaching clients as me, "What do you do to make your relationship thrive?"

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49 🔥What other men said after being on the programme: 👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me" 👉🏽 "The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn't tapped into before" 👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself" 👉🏽 "It's been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life" 👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want." The waitlist link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

In this week's podcast episode, I am joined by one of my clients and friends, Samuel Adams.

Samuel was born at 23 weeks, lives with cerebral palsy, was bullied all through school because of his disability, and spent 4 years looking for a job after university due to disability prejudice but even through all that hardship and adversity, he is one of the most determined, focused, positive and loving people I have ever met.

Samuel is a coach very much focused on helping individuals to see the possibility that they have within them, that they maybe haven't been shown before or haven't been allowed to see within themselves. He shines light on what moves those blocks of damaging thinking and shows what's out there, which is anything that's possible for people.

So many of us are being held back by our assumptions about life, the thoughts that we think holding us outside of us. Samuel has a real talent for guiding and helping people move past that into a new paradigm of a land of possibilities.

Key topics include:

⭐️ Living With A Disability

⭐️ Teenage Period, Going to School and Dealing with Bullying

⭐️ The Power of Gratitude

⭐️ The Support And Encouragement Coming From Our Parents

⭐️ Unconditional Love And Having Someone to Keep You In Check

⭐️ Facing Loss The of a Parent

⭐️ Looking For a Job and Handling Failure & Rejection

⭐️ The Power of Belief and The Attitude of Not Giving Up

⭐️ Limiting Thinking and Moving Past It

⭐️ Commitment To Create The Life You Want

⭐️ How Coaching Can Change The Coach

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 "The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn't tapped into before"

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It's been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

The registration link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

Connect With Samuel Adams:

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/samueladamsspeaks/

In this week's mini-episode, I talk about sex toys and what it means about someone that has them. I see a lot of stigma and judgement that is placed on people for having and enjoying sex toys. But I also see and hear of a lot of fear from partners of people with sex toys. And in the episode, I explore all of these topics.

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49 🔥What other men said after being on the programme: 👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me" 👉🏽 "The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn't tapped into before" 👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself" 👉🏽 "It's been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life" 👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want." The waitlist link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

In this week's podcast episode, I am joined by my partner and lover, Asa to talk about how to make an anxious/avoidant relationship thrive.

Asa Baav is a dating, intimacy and relationship coach initiating high-achieving women to reclaim their power, awaken their authentic selves and attract and grow conscious relationships

She started to do her coaching work about seven years ago when she came to a point in her life where she had a full-on breakdown. After over-applying herself in everything and being completely disconnected from her body and emotions, she was forced into some important reflection time. She had a very successful career, yet in her love life, she was constantly attracting unavailable men, self-sabotaging healthy relationships and finding herself being attracted only to men who treated her really poorly.

And together, we are partners, lovers and couples coaches, guiding couples out of arguments, disconnection, misunderstandings and broken communication into deeper and deeper compassion and understanding of each other and reigniting the passion for each other and new levels of love.

Key topics include:

⭐️ Attachment Styles Theory

⭐️ What the Avoidant Attachment Style Looks like, characteristics and traits

⭐️ What the Anxious Attachment Style Looks like, characteristics and traits

⭐️ How Can You Create a Successful Relationship When You Are Anxious/Avoidant

⭐️ Strategies to Connect Deeply to Ask For What We Need and Understand the Other

⭐️ The Fear of Rejection

⭐️ How We've Seen the Avoidant/Anxious Traits Come Up in Our Own Relationship

⭐️ Respecting the Need Of Space For Avoidant, and Reassurance for Anxious

⭐️ Feeling our Emotions, Connecting to Our Needs, and Speaking Them Out

⭐️ Handling Uncertainty & Having Your Own Comforts

⭐️The Obvious Issues & Traps We've Seen in Us & Our Clients as Avoidant/Anxious

⭐️ Healing Our Attachment Styles Inside the Relationship

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

The registration link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

Connect With Asa Baav:

IG: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/

Website: https://www.asabaav.com/

Unapologetic - Women's Programme: https://www.asabaav.com/unapologetic/

1-2-1 Coaching: https://form.typeform.com/to/UPzNLHJC

Couples Coaching with Asa & David: Apply Here https://form.typeform.com/to/A3HYIhXB

In this week's mini-episode, I tackle a question that I feel we often struggle with. The question of sex on the first date and, in particular, what does it mean about the woman.

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49 🔥What other men said after being on the programme: 👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me" 👉🏽 "The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn't tapped into before" 👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself" 👉🏽 "It's been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life" 👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want." The waitlist link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

In this week's episode, I get to talk to a man that I have looked up to, followed and studied with, John Wineland.

John Wineland is an author, teacher and speaker who has been guiding both men and women in the realms of life purpose, relational communication, spiritual intimacy, sexual intimacy and embodiment.

John brings a multi-faceted approach, which is both energetic and highly practical, to his workshops and experiential coaching sessions. John's embodiment-driven teaching draws from not only over 30 years experience of his own Buddhist meditative practice, but from 13 years of intensive study and practice in Yogic Intimacy. Drawing from the deep lineages of Vajrayana, Tantra, Kundalini yoga, Taoist and Iron Shirt Qigong traditions, John seeks to create a profound experience for men and women longing to express their deepest desires with open, fierce and loving hearts.

Key topics include:

⭐️ How a Middle of the Night Infomercial Started John's Journey to Do the Work

⭐️ The Value of Embodiment for Self-Development & Establishing Deep Presence

⭐️ How to Embody a Deeper and More Profound Masculinity

⭐️ What is a Fully Integrated Man

⭐️ 3 Pillars of Sacred Intimacy

⭐️ Why Men Only Seek Help When 'Shit Hits the Fan'

⭐️ The Skills That Men Need to Really 'Win' at Life, Relationships and Love

⭐️ What the Feminine Wants From the Masculine

⭐️ John's Thoughts on Andrew Tate and Pick-Up Artists

⭐️ The karmic healing we need for a healthy and happy relationship

⭐️ How generational trauma stops us from loving and receiving love

⭐️ Sacred Intimacy and How to Liberate Love Through Playfulness and Tussle

⭐️ The Primary Pain Point For the Masculine And the Feminine and How They Show Up in Our Relationships

⭐️ How to Find True Freedom

⭐️ John's Practice to Experience More Love From Your Partner

⭐️ Transmuting our Masculine Energy To Create More Depth in Our Lives

⭐️ The Benefits of Having the Capacity for Feeling, Groundedness, Stillness & Depth

⭐️ Defence Strategies We Use to Keep Us Safe from & Deep Emotions

⭐️ How to get rid of 70% of your arguments

⭐️ How to Evoke Love, Desire and Passion in Your Relationship

⭐️ A New Perspective on What is Masculinity Outside of the Patriarchy

⭐️ Deepening Our Vision of the World Beyond Winning Status, Money, and Relationships

⭐️ Teaching the Next Generation of Boys and Girls the Practices of Presence and Expression

⭐️Opening, Deepening & Sustaining the Flow of Love

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 "The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn't tapped into before"

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It's been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

The registration link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

Connect With John Wineland:

IG: https://www.instagram.com/john_wineland/

Website: https://www.johnwineland.com/

Book: https://www.johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

Virtual Workshop: https://www.johnwineland.com/streaming

In this week's mini-episode, I dive into a request that many men get from their woman, but have no idea what to do with, the request for move love.

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49 🔥What other men said after being on the programme: 👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me" 👉🏽 "The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn't tapped into before" 👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself" 👉🏽 "It's been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life" 👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want." The waitlist link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

In this week's episode, you get me. You get a raw, honest and from-the-heart episode about my journey as an avoidant and commitment-phobe man and everything that I have learnt and now coach my clients through.

Let me give you an introduction to me & my avoidance because it might not be that obvious.

You've seen me through the podcast, and my Instagram and you might think - "David is an open-hearted, sharing, vulnerable, emotional guy".

But I wasn't always this way. It was a long time where I didn't want to say how I felt, I'd avoided certain conflict situations, I've even refused to be in relationships for a while. I just wouldn't get into relationships even though I've met women who are truly amazing, and lovely and wanted depth, but I was just - "No, relationships that are worth it I want them to go away. I don't want commitment".

Key topics include:

⭐️ Dating & Relationships with Avoidant Men, Common Characteristics and Behaviors

⭐️ How an Avoidant Man Can Create Healthy Relationships and Friendships

⭐ Avoiding Expressing Fears, Needs, Worries. Down Playing Our Emotions

⭐️ Lack of Empathy for Us and Other People's Emotional Experiences

⭐️ Fault-Finding, Being Highly Critical of the People We Meet

⭐️ Fear of Being Dependent on Other People, and Handling Rejection

⭐️ Facing Our Loneliness & The Need of Alone Time

⭐️ The Behaviour of Cheating in an Relationship

⭐️ Avoiding To Take Responsibility for Our Whole Well Being

⭐️ The Push-Pull, Hot-Cold, Being Mysterious Dynamic

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 "The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn't tapped into before"

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It's been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

The registration link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

In this week's mini-episode, I am exploring self-leadership, which I see so many men lacking.

So many men come to me feeling lost, stuck and hopeless; with all of those, I see a low capacity for self-leadership. Once that is cultivated, their lives radically change for the better.

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49 🔥What other men said after being on the programme: 👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me" 👉🏽 "The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn't tapped into before" 👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself" 👉🏽 "It's been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life" 👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want." The waitlist link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

In this week's episode, I a join by friend and coach James Oliver to dive into the topics of male friendship and deshaming masculinity.

James Oliver is a coach helping people in all facets of life and, in particular, in relationships with others and themselves, in both the intimate and friendship aspect. He recently specialized and intentionally works full-time with men around those areas of life.

James' Journey brought him to the current point in his life where his purpose is to shed light and talk about many of the men's issues, like making genuine male friendships, male loneliness, deshaming masculinity and improving mental health.

Key topics include:

⭐️ Forming deep and meaningful male friendships

⭐️ Mental Health and Emotional & Physical Well-Being

⭐️ Social Disconnection in the Internet Ages & Male Loneliness

⭐️ The Importance of Vulnerability and Authentic Connections

⭐️ The Lack of Desire to Engage in Meaningful and In Person Conversations

⭐️ Curiosity As a Practice of Viewing the World

⭐️ Men's Circles, Communities and Events

⭐️ Accepting Friends As They Are and Letting Go of Expectations

⭐️ Releasing The Feelings of Shame & Anxiety About Being a Men

⭐️ Developing Self-Awareness Around Personal Triggers and Behavioral Patterns

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 "The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn't tapped into before"

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It's been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

The registration link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

Connect With James Oliver:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesoliver_menscoach/ & https://www.instagram.com/weareonebrotherhood/