The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers: Dating, Relationship, Masculinity & Intimacy Guidance For Men

Main points: Connection, real attractiveness, dating, communication

In this week's mini-episodes, I get into the areas that so many men are lacking in when it comes to the dating world and how to tackle and solve those issues.

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

Jan-Feb Dating Programme: [email protected]

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Creating the Spark for Men 20th Nov: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/creating-the-spark-for-men-tickets-732713384457

Talking points: Psychedelics, Psychedelic Integration, men & Psychedelics, Why Psychedelics, micro dosing

Alex is an Ex Medical Dr turned Medicine Woman & mentor to visionary leaders on the Path of awakening.

Leaving Emergency Medicine in 2017 she trained in Transformational Coaching, Shamanism, Tantra, Shadow work and much more.

She now delights in merging traditional healing tools with leading edge metacognitive maps & psych♡delic expansion to support her clients to unlock their true potential in service to global systems change. She passionately believes that through the elevated thinking of our Leaders by combining wisdom lineages with Plant Medicine & high level accountability, we can shift the needle towards a joyful, life giving future for all.

Key topics include:

⭐️ Shifting Worldview Through the Use of Plant Medicine

⭐️ Deconstructing the Psyche and Putting It Back Together

⭐️ Limited Perspectives & The World Beyond Right and Wrong

⭐️ Integrating a Psychedelic Experience Into the Everyday Consciousness

⭐️ Making Sense of a Psychedelic Experience

⭐️ Reasons behind the Uptrend of Psychedelic Use

⭐️ Going Through a Transformational Ayahuasca Ceremony

⭐️ Group Mushroom Trips

⭐️ The Reality of Shared Consciousness & Near Death Experiences

⭐️ Benefits of Microdosing Mushrooms

⭐️ Establishing New Habits After a Psychedelic Experience

⭐️ Safe Usage for People Doing Psychedelics on Their Own

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

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Creating the Spark for Men 20th Nov: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/creating-the-spark-for-men-tickets-732713384457

Connect With Alex Pardhy:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alchemy_with_alex

My Integration Prompts - https://www.alchemywithalex.com/offers/zd2Aiuov

Alex's Email list - https://www.alchemywithalex.com/signup

Book about Integration - https://www.waterstones.com/book/psychedelic-integration/marc-aixal/jose-carlos-bouso/9780907791393

Main Topics: Absent Fathers, Healthy Fatherhood, Couples Communication, Men, Father Wound

My guest is Jenni Cawley, a Relational Psychotherapist & Father Coach. She is Transforming Fatherhood by helping fathers break cycles, build bonds and create legacy.

Key topics include:

⭐️ The Issue with Absent Fathers and The Generational Fatherlessness

⭐️ The Importance of the Role of the Father in the Family

⭐️ Creating a Defined Fatherhood Role

⭐️ The Importance of Communication between the Mother & The Father

⭐️ Postnatal Depression in Men

⭐️ The Journey from Men to Father

⭐️ The Lack of Space for Men to Express the Struggles of Fatherhood

⭐️ The Impact on Boys Who's Fathers Were Absent

⭐️ The Important Lessons that the Father Can Teach Child

⭐️ The Father Wound

⭐️ How to Reparent The Inner Child

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

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Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

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Connect With Jenni Cawley:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennifercawleytherapy

Website: www.jennifercawley.co.uk

Linked In: www.linkedin.com/in/jennifercawleytherapy

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

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Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

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⚡️ Creating the Spark for Men - Teaching you how to spark authentic attraction on any date 🧨

TICKETS HERE

In the workshop, you will learn:

🔑 Why the way you currently talk to women TURNS THEM OFF

🔑 How men are taught out of the skills required to create deep & authentic relationships and what to do to learn these vital skills

🔑 How to NEVER run out of fun, engaging and interesting things to talk about

🔑 How to avoid the friend zone

🔑 Why emotions are the key to authentic connection

TICKETS HERE

Topics: Leadership, Masculinity, Self-Leadership, Healthy Masculinity, Men, Emotions

Jack is a Leadership Coach, Guide and Ceremonialist. He focuses on enabling people to develop a deeper understanding of self so that they can heal past trauma, lead authentically and transform the way they relate to others. Over the last decade he led people and culture at some of the worlds fastest growing tech companies like Monzo, Just Eat and MoonPay. He is a leader within Sacred Sons and has worked with thousands of men to date. Jack founded Human Work, a community project in Ibiza which supports adults to heal and grow, while also running modern day rites of passage for young people.

Key topics include:

⭐️ The Standard Model of Leadership for Men in the Corporate World

⭐️ The Importance of Developing Interpersonal Skills as a Leader

⭐️ The Problem With Prioritizing Revenue in Companies and Neglecting Culture

⭐️ The High Levels of Stress in the Corporate Environment

⭐️ Slowing Down & Creating a Head Space and Its Impact on Our Performance

⭐️ Self-Leadership

⭐️ Developing the Capacity and Range for all the Different Emotions We Feel

⭐️ The Ability to Share Our Emotions as an Important Part of Leadership

⭐️ Shifting the Focus from Competitive Zero-Sum Game to a Collaborative Win-Win

⭐️ Asking For Feedback and Being Open To Receive It

⭐️ Creating Safe Space For Open And Honest Conversations

Connect With Jack Villiers:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jack.villiers_/

Website: https://www.jackvilliers.com/

Human Work In Ibiza: https://www.jackvilliers.com/human-work

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

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Main topics: Business, Relationship Communication, Overworking, Responsibility, Creating a Better Relationship

In this week's episode, I got to sit down with a friend I deeply admire and look up to, Chris Brown.

Chris Brown helps business owners scale their businesses and guides them to the holistic and deep inner work they need.

Chris began working as a personal trainer back in 2009, together with a friend, he opened 26 boot camps across the UK. Later they separated and he went on to open his own gym, started mentoring other gym owners and found his passion for online sales, advertising and content creation. His core work currently is helping coaches, gym owners, business owners to grow and scale their company. In his work he's fusing a lot of the stuff that he has been doing around healing, men's work and leadership training, with deeper things like intimacy and relationships. This perspective came to him when three years ago he separated from his wife which sent him on a journey of inner work with therapy, breathwork and trauma release. What he realized was that like a lot of business owners the desire to prove oneself in the world, to win, dominate and be successful in business is quite an empty pursuit.

What he is now bringing more of the holistic inner work and deep presence into business growth. As an entrepreneur he knows that sometimes he can spend 14 - 15 hours a day focused on the business and bring the leftovers home to family. Chris is now helping others spot that pattern and support them in their journeys.

Key topics include:

⭐️ Redefine Success Beyond Financial Metrics and Linear Business Growth

⭐️ Balancing Business & Personal Life

⭐️ The Impact of Overworking on Relationships and Well-Being

⭐️ The Importance of Spending Quality Time with Our Family and Children

⭐️ The Downside of Putting Our Attention Where We Are Getting Praised

⭐️ The Ego and Getting Defensive in the Face of Criticism

⭐️ Fostering Awareness & Conscious Communication

⭐️ Keeping Up with The Changes Happening in the World

⭐️ Taking Responsibility for Our Own Actions & the Ways We Show Up in the World

⭐️ Getting Clear on out Pursuits to Bringing Balance and Harmony to Life

Connect With Chris Brown:

Chris' Instagram

Chris' Podcast

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Main points: online dating & judgement, values, being superficial, the paradox of choice and higher standards.

In this week's mini-episode, I answer a question that many men are thinking, "Are there any good women (or men)?".

In this week's episode, I am talking to a returning guest, Jason Graystone about what it takes to build wealth and create a life that you love. And Jason would know because it is exactly what he lives and has helped 1000's of people do.

Jason Graystone is an entrepreneur, investor, and host of the Always Free Podcast.

Since starting his first business at 22 years old, Jason's love for investing & business helped him become financially free by the time he was 30 by adopting a unique blend of wealth creation strategies allowing him to replace his active income.

Jason has since built multiple -7 figure businesses, spoken on some of the world's most reputable stages in the investing space as well as universities, schools, and some large corporations including the MET police.

Jason runs an industry-leading education program to help people achieve true financial freedom.

As an active fundraiser, Jason has helped to raise over £250,000 for various charities and is connected to some of the most well-known and celebrated entrepreneurs and leaders.

In 2018, he was recognised for his innovative work to trader development and

featured in Forbes Magazine alongside one of the world's leading trader psychologists and authors, Dr Brett Steenberger.

Jason enjoys nothing more than helping to empower others around money and wealth creation to design their best life.

Jason believes that everyone deserves to live an inspired life.

He says that "When we are free and able to focus on meaningful work, we become better human beings. The key to freedom is to find a balance between fulfilment, reward and inspiration.'

Key topics include:

⭐️ Changing Limiting Beliefs about Money

⭐️ Focusing on the Things We Enjoy in Life

⭐️ Fast Money Vs Slow Money

⭐️ The Value of Stability and Security

⭐️ The Importance of Figuring Out Our Values

⭐️ Developing the Capacity for Different Perspectives

⭐️ Identity Crisis

⭐️ Being Mentally Free and True to Oneself

⭐️ Entrepreneurship

⭐️ Breaking the Connection Between Time and Money

⭐️ Experiencing Resentment When Live Not In Accord with Out Values

⭐️ Emotional Mastery

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

Connect With Jason Graystone:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/j_graystone/

'Always Free' Podcast: https://www.alwaysfreepodcast.com

Main Site & Newsletter: http://www.jasongraystone.com

In this week's podcast, I am joined by Ailey Jolie, a psychotherapist who's work is rooted in Jungian depth psychology, relational somatics, intersectional feminism, anti-oppressive ideologies, and interpersonal neurobiology.

Ailey was born in Canada, where she grew up in the dancing, entertainment and modelling industries and later became Miss Canada. While she was in that environment, Ailey experienced a lot of sexualised violence, which led her to her personal psychotherapy and then to the work that she does today.

Ailey went to Harvard to study global mental health trauma recovery, where she met with deep thinkers who seemingly were much further along in their career. However, she noticed a deep somatic body sense of heaviness, pain and sorrow in these people who were helping the victims of horrendous trauma, and gender and sexual violence. Ailey was missing the play and the passion in this work, so she continued her search through the field of sex therapy and later really found her home in relational work. She resonated with Esther Perel's way of thinking that the quality of relationships really resembles the quality of our life. Ailey's whole journey of relationships with others, with her body, herself, and her sexuality, is reflected in her beautiful writing.

Key topics include:

⭐️ Is Therapy Designed for Men & the Lack of Direction for Practical Implication

⭐️ Teaching Healthy Masculine Values & the Need for Positive Role Models

⭐️ Toxic Cultural Traits & the Crisis of Masculinity

⭐️ The Inner Work that's Needed In Society Beyond Gender

⭐️ Gentleness & Sensitivity in Men and the Expectation for Stoicism

⭐️ Advice for Women on Sitting with Men's Feelings & Avoid Psychoanalysis

⭐️ What to Do When Our Partner Doesn't Do the Inner Work

⭐️ The Threat of Allowing Societal Notions to Get into the Relationship

⭐️ The Importance of Asking & Clearing for Ourselves How Do We Want to Be Treated

⭐️ First Give the Love to Ourselves Before Moving Into Relational Love

⭐️ The Benefit of Sitting With the Uncomfortable Feelings and Situations

⭐️ Chemistry and Compatibility

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

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Guest: Ailey Jolie

Instagram: www.instagram.com/aileyjolie

Website: www.aileyjolie.com

Carrying on from last week's mini-episode, I answer the question, "Is it ok for a 30-year-old to date a 16-year-old?"