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On this episode of the Blueprint Podcast, Jason Smith explores the profound difference between being "triggered" and being "activated." Drawing from years of experience in law enforcement and a deep study of the human condition, Jason shares the concept of Chronic Resilience—the hard-earned wisdom that allows you to power through life's most difficult moments without falling back into old survival patterns.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re meandering through time, living the same day over and over, or struggling to get out of your own way in tense conversations, this episode is the architecture for your change.

What We Discuss:

• The Language of Agency: Why the word "triggered" feels permanent and how shifting to the concept of "Activation" gives you your power back.
• Chronic Resilience: Building the ability to thrive despite your coping mechanisms of avoidance or withdrawal.
• The Operational Standard: Moving away from being a casualty of the moment and toward showing up with intentionality and purpose.
• The S.O.U.R.C.E. Protocol: A first look at the tactical field kit designed to help you regain clarity in under sixty seconds.

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In this engaging conversation, Jason Smith and Kati Morton, LMFT explore the complexities of mental health, the power of language, and the importance of uncomfortable conversations. They discuss the impact of social media on perceptions of mental health, the rise of influencer therapists, and the journey of self-discovery through journaling. The dialogue emphasizes the need for self-validation, compassion, and understanding in relationships, while also addressing the effects of trauma and the illusion of control. Ultimately, the conversation encourages listeners to embrace their journey of becoming and to cultivate a deeper connection with themselves and others.

Connect with Kati and get her new book: https://katimorton.com/   

Takeaways

• Language shapes our understanding of mental health.
• Emotional activation is a more accurate term than being triggered.
• Uncomfortable conversations are essential for growth.
• Generational differences impact our perspectives.
• Social media can create echo chambers of thought.
• Influencer therapists may oversimplify complex issues.
• Journaling can facilitate self-discovery and growth.
• Self-validation is crucial for emotional health.
• Reframing relationships can empower individuals.
• Trauma can lead to dissociation and altered time perception.
• Compassion is key in understanding differing viewpoints.
• Values guide our relationships and decisions.
• The illusion of control can hinder personal growth.
• Intentional isolation can lead to self-discovery.
• Post-COVID, many struggle with time perception and trauma.

Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/

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In this conversation, Nick Pollard and Jason Smith explore the impact of AI on authenticity in content creation, the challenges faced in the coaching landscape, and the importance of in-person connections. They discuss the shift from social media to more meaningful interactions, the repetitive nature of content creation, and the need for integration over mere consumption of knowledge. The conversation emphasizes the value of storytelling, community feedback, and the evolution of personal branding in the coaching industry.

Connect with Nick: Nick's Website  

Takeaways

• AI is impacting the authenticity of content creation.
• Creativity is being outsourced to AI tools.
• The coaching landscape is becoming saturated and competitive.
• In-person connections are becoming more valuable than online interactions.
• Content creation can feel repetitive and uninspired.
• The personal growth industry is often seen as a cash grab.
• Integration of knowledge is more important than consumption.
• Workshops and in-person events may be the future of coaching.
• Storytelling is essential for building connections.
• Feedback from the community is crucial for growth.

Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/

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People are so eager to change others that they forget a critical question: Does the other person even want to change?

In this episode, Jason Smith explores the concept of "relational blindness" and why anxiously attached individuals get stuck trying to fix their partners instead of mastering their own inner world. We discuss the sobering reality of Sonder, the grief of letting go of someone's "potential," and why change always starts "By the One."

Key Topics:

• Why "fixing" others is a survival strategy for the anxiously attached.
• Learning to love people for who they are today, not who they could be.
• Shifting from a "survival state" to a state of flow and emotional freedom.
• How to reclaim your authority and clean up your side of the street.

Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/

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Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@Jbirdfit

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In this conversation, Barnet Bain discusses the themes of friendship, self-discovery, and the importance of authenticity in relationships. He reflects on his personal journey of realizing the need for deeper connections and the role of vulnerability and awareness in fostering meaningful friendships. The discussion emphasizes the significance of listening, honoring others, and the challenges of performance in social interactions. Barnet also highlights the necessity of creating safe spaces in friendships and the transformative power of being present with others. 

Takeaways

• Friendship requires active care and attention, much like a garden.
• Awareness of one's own judgments is crucial for personal growth.
• Honor in relationships means being willing to be changed by others.
• Civility and friendship are lacking in modern society.
• Vulnerability is essential for deep connections.
• Choosing friends involves understanding one's own values and history.
• Authenticity fosters genuine relationships and trust.

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About This Community:
The Blueprint Coaching™ Community was created for people rebuilding their lives — after heartbreak, loss, career shifts, or seasons that forced them to start over. It’s for anyone who wants stronger relationships, clearer direction, and a deeper sense of who they are.

If you found this podcast through my “Take a Walk With Me” videos, you already know what to expect: honest conversations, grounded insight, and the kind of straight talk that gets you moving again. Listeners often say this show gave them the clarity to change their relationships, rebuild their confidence, or see themselves in a completely new way.

This isn’t about quick fixes or surface motivation. It’s about letting go of the old blueprint that’s kept you stuck — and learning how to rebuild with purpose, confidence, and integrity.

If you’re ready to take that next step, start with The Self-Discovery Blueprint, The 21-Day Love and Abundance Challenge, or apply for 1:1 Coaching. Every program is built to help you do the real work — the kind that transforms who you are and how you live.

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In this conversation, Trevor Hansen discusses the complexities of attachment styles, particularly focusing on how individuals can earn a secure attachment style through emotional experiences and self-awareness. He emphasizes the importance of self-compassion in overcoming insecurities that often hinder relationships. 

Takeaways

• Insecurity often underlies many relationship challenges.
• Attachment styles can be learned or earned through emotional experiences.
• Self-compassion is crucial for healing attachment issues.
• Awareness alone does not lead to change; action is necessary.
• Setting boundaries is essential for self-respect in relationships.
• Anxious attachment can trigger avoidant behaviors in others.
• Effective communication is vital for relationship success.

Connect with Trevor:

• Website: https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theartofhealingbytrevor/
• Free! From Anxious to Secure Seminar: https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/from-anxious-to-secure
• The Secure Self Club (Go from Anxious to Secure in 120 days): https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/ssc

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About This Community:
The Blueprint Coaching™ Community was created for people rebuilding their lives — after heartbreak, loss, career shifts, or seasons that forced them to start over. It’s for anyone who wants stronger relationships, clearer direction, and a deeper sense of who they are.

If you found this podcast through my “Take a Walk With Me” videos, you already know what to expect: honest conversations, grounded insight, and the kind of straight talk that gets you moving again. Listeners often say this show gave them the clarity to change their relationships, rebuild their confidence, or see themselves in a completely new way.

This isn’t about quick fixes or surface motivation. It’s about letting go of the old blueprint that’s kept you stuck — and learning how to rebuild with purpose, confidence, and integrity.

Learn More Here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  

Connect & Stay Involved:

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In this conversation, Jason Smith discusses the dynamics of attachment styles in relationships, particularly how securely attached individuals can develop anxious tendencies when paired with avoidant partners. He emphasizes the role of social media in shaping perceptions and labels in dating, urging listeners to look beyond surface-level feelings and understand the deeper emotional contexts of their partners.

Takeaways

• Securely attached individuals can show signs of anxious attachment.
• Dating an avoidant partner can trigger insecurities.
• Social media influences how we label others in relationships.
• It's important to delve deeper into a partner's emotional state.
• Labels can oversimplify complex emotional dynamics.
• Curiosity about a partner's feelings is crucial.
• Understanding attachment styles can improve relationship dynamics.
• Emotional intelligence plays a key role in dating.
• Avoiding assumptions can lead to healthier relationships.
• Recognizing one's own attachment style is essential for growth.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Blueprint Podcast
00:05 Understanding Attachment Styles
00:41 Navigating Anxious and Avoidant Dynamics

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About This Community:
The Blueprint Coaching™ Community was created for people rebuilding their lives — after heartbreak, loss, career shifts, or seasons that forced them to start over. It’s for anyone who wants stronger relationships, clearer direction, and a deeper sense of who they are.

If you found this podcast through my “Take a Walk With Me” videos, you already know what to expect: honest conversations, grounded insight, and the kind of straight talk that gets you moving again. Listeners often say this show gave them the clarity to change their relationships, rebuild their confidence, or see themselves in a completely new way.

This isn’t about quick fixes or surface motivation. It’s about letting go of the old blueprint that’s kept you stuck — and learning how to rebuild with purpose, confidence, and integrity.

If you’re ready to take that next step, start with The Self-Discovery Blueprint, The 21-Day Love and Abundance Challenge, or apply for 1:1 Coaching. Every program is built to help you do the real work — the kind that transforms who you are and how you live.

Learn More Here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  

Connect & Stay Involved:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Jbirdfit 
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In this conversation, Jason Smith discusses the pivotal moment when individuals consider re-entering the dating scene. He emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and understanding one's goals, values, and standards in relationships, particularly in the context of modern dating.

Takeaways

People often ask when they are ready to start dating again.
The contemplation phase is crucial for readiness.
Understanding your goals and values is essential.
Self-discovery plays a key role in dating.
The modern dating world requires a new version of yourself.
Reflecting on past experiences can guide future relationships.
It's important to know what you want in a partner.
Personal growth influences dating readiness.
Setting standards can lead to healthier relationships.
Embracing change is part of the dating journey.

Leave a Question for the podcast: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit 

Welcome to The Blueprint Coaching™ Coaching Community

This community is designed for individuals ready to break old patterns, build confidence, and create secure, empowered relationships with themselves and others. The foundation of true transformation starts with understanding your attachment style and how to use this knowledge to unlock your full potential.

Start Your Journey of Transformation: If you're ready to make lasting changes, improve your relationships, and cultivate the life you deserve, dive into the Self-Discovery Blueprint today. Take the first step towards more confidence, clarity, and connection. 

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In this engaging conversation, Jason Smith and Jessica explore the themes of attachment, healing, and the importance of relationships in personal growth. They discuss the significance of book covers, the journey of interoception, and the role of anchors in emotional healing. Jessica shares insights from her new book, 'Safe', emphasizing the need for vulnerability and trust in healing processes. The discussion also touches on the Wheel of Attachment, the importance of self-care for therapists, and the transformative power of personal pain into purpose. Overall, the conversation provides a rich exploration of how understanding our attachment styles and experiences can lead to deeper connections and healing.

Takeaways

• The cover of a book can convey deeper meanings.
• Trusting publishers can lead to successful book designs.
• Inner child healing is essential for personal growth.
• Attachment wounds influence adult relationships.
• Interoception helps in understanding bodily sensations.
• Finding an anchor is crucial for emotional healing.
• Healing occurs in relationships, not isolation.
• Vulnerability is a strength in healing processes.
• Self-care is vital for therapists and helpers.
• The Wheel of Attachment offers a nuanced view of relationships.

Connect with Jessica: Order her new book "Safe": https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/interview

Welcome to The Pivot Path™ Coaching Community

This community is designed for individuals ready to break old patterns, build confidence, and create secure, empowered relationships with themselves and others. The foundation of true transformation starts with understanding your attachment style and how to use this knowledge to unlock your full potential.

Start Your Journey of Transformation: If you're ready to make lasting changes, improve your relationships, and cultivate the life you deserve, dive into the Self-Discovery Blueprint today. Take the first step towards more confidence, clarity, and connection. Use code: Blueprint25 at checkout! Thanks for listening!

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Disclaimer: The content in this video is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise routine, or mental health care. Individual results may vary.

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In this conversation, Brianna Diorio and Jason Smith explore the themes of self-discovery, personal growth, and the complexities of relationships. They discuss the importance of self-reflection, the cost of inaction, and the power of perspective in overcoming challenges. The conversation emphasizes the need for authenticity, setting clear boundaries, and understanding one's values in relationships. They also touch on the impact of social media on self-perception and the significance of emotional intelligence in navigating personal connections. Ultimately, the discussion encourages listeners to take radical responsibility for their lives and choices, fostering a journey towards meaningful connections and personal fulfillment.

Takeaways

• Keep doing the reps of self-discovery.
• Self-reflection is crucial for personal growth.
• Inaction can be more costly than making the wrong decision.
• Your thoughts influence your feelings and actions.
• Authenticity is key in relationships.
• Social media can skew our perception of reality.
• Understand the importance of values in relationships.
• Set clear boundaries to protect your energy.
• Letting go is essential for growth.
• Emotional intelligence helps navigate relationships.

Connect with Brianna: https://www.briannadiorio.com/ 

Welcome to The Pivot Path™ Coaching Community

This community is designed for individuals ready to break old patterns, build confidence, and create secure, empowered relationships with themselves and others. The foundation of true transformation starts with understanding your attachment style and how to use this knowledge to unlock your full potential.

Start Your Journey of Transformation: If you're ready to make lasting changes, improve your relationships, and cultivate the life you deserve, dive into the Self-Discovery Blueprint today. Take the first step towards more confidence, clarity, and connection. Use code: Blueprint25 at checkout! Thanks for listening!

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Contact Me: For coaching inquiries, media requests, or video testimonials:
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Disclaimer: The content in this video is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise routine, or mental health care. Individual results may vary.

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