The Principal's Handbook

The Comparison Detox for Principals


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Are you constantly comparing yourself to other school principals and feeling like you're not measuring up?

In this episode of The Principal's Handbook we explore:

  • Why our brains naturally default to negative comparisons and how this impacts school leadership
  • The hidden costs of comparison - from rushed decision-making to decreased staff morale
  • Practical strategies for breaking free from the "perfect principal" narrative and focusing on your school's unique journey

Learn powerful insights and actionable tips to help you shift from comparison to confidence in your leadership role.

5 Power Phrases for Detoxing Comparison


"My leadership journey is uniquely mine - I trust my experience, instincts, and the deep knowledge I have of my school community. Every decision I make is informed by this invaluable perspective."


"I am exactly where I need to be in my growth as a leader. The challenges I face today are building the wisdom and resilience I'll need tomorrow. Each step, even the difficult ones, has purpose."


"My school's story is beautifully complex and cannot be reduced to simple comparisons. The relationships I build, the small victories we achieve, and the daily impact we make matter more than any external measure."


"I choose to focus on my school's progress rather than comparing it to others. Every improvement, no matter how small, is moving us forward on our unique path to excellence."

"I lead with authenticity and purpose. My worth as a leader isn't measured by social media highlights or others' perceived successes, but by the genuine difference I make in my school community every day."

*FREE DOWNLOADS*
Decisive Leadership- Free Workshop
The Principal's Email Detox
Principal Checklist to Disconnect From School

*RESOURCES FOR PRINCIPALS*
Transform Your Time: 60 Day Action Plan for Principals
Leadership by Design: The Principal's Custom Habit System

*SOCIAL MEDIA*
Barb Flowers, Ph.D- Linkedin
DrBarbFlowers- Instagram

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