I am BACK! 

WOW. America was a rollercoaster.

There was a lot we went through and I mean a lot and as always I want to keep it real and share truth with you.

This episode is a raw and real behind the scenes of what REALLY went down in the USA 

I appreciate you being here and I hope this experience support you if you are moving through something hard right now 

I want to remind you that you CAN do this because you already are. 

Enjoy x E

We need to talk about flakiness.

I know that people don't necessarily not trying to be flaky. However, there's some "flakage" going on in our world, and I want to help.

If you're someone who's like, "Yeah, I'm in," but then you cancel last minute, this episode is for you.

I'm diving deep into what flakiness is really about—commitment issues, self-sabotage, and the fear of saying no.

I used to be super flaky. I couldn't commit to anything. This behaviour can mess with your reputation and credibility.

If you're trying to build a big business, be a person of influence, or just be a good friend, being flaky can ruin your trustworthiness.

In this episode, I'll share personal stories and practical tips on how to stop being flaky. You'll learn how to keep your word to yourself, which is the core of building confidence.

When you say you're going to do something, you need to follow through. This isn't just about being reliable to others—it's about trusting yourself.

So, if you're ready to ditch the flakiness and start showing up as the dependable, confident person you want to be, tune in.

Enjoy this episode, Queen x

How do you find the courage to have those difficult conversations that you know need to be had?

How do you push through the fear and anxiety that these moments bring?

That’s exactly what we’re talking about in today’s episode.

If you’ve ever felt the butterflies in your stomach, the flush of nerves, or the urge to avoid that tough talk, this episode is for you.

I’m diving deep into what it takes to face these moments head-on and why they’re so crucial for your growth and confidence.

The truth is, leveling up your life means embracing discomfort and stepping into your bravery.

You’re going to learn how to take a breath, centre yourself, and say what needs to be said.

Remember, the growth happens when you stretch yourself.

Enjoy this episode, Queen x

Wowsers, Erika Goes Back to America and damn...

ALL THE FEELS SIS!

In todays episode I am sharing my very raw and real emotions about going back home (I recorded this in the car the day before we flew out)

This trip is loaded.

There's a lot on the line with my mom and my emotions are going to go on a rollercoaster ride.

If you have ever experienced anything like this, my intention as always is that you feel seen.

I'll update you with part 2 of this BTS America trip when we get back and to be honest we may need a part 3,4 & 5!

x Erika

Have you felt a bit lost?

Unsure what you want to do or more importantly WHY you want to do it?

If you've been wishing you could tap into a great vision for yourself - THIS episode is for you.

Get a pen and paper as I will be sharing some powerful questions and points you need to consider.

Here's to your passion and enthusiasm returning and you stepping into a bigger vision for your life Queen

x E

If things are hard right now sis, play this.

I'll be doing a brand new series on the podcast called "Play me when" in order to help you move through the hard or scary times.

If you have any recommendations and want to hear some words of inspiration from me please send them to my team [email protected]

Enjoy Queen x E

THIS EPISODE IS ONE OF MY FAVOURITE INTERVIEWS EVER!

Today I am joined by the amazing Chris Do, Chris is an Emmy award-winning designer, director, CEO and Chief Strategist of Blind and the founder of The Futur—an online education platform with the mission of teaching 1 billion people how to make a living doing what they love.

🔥 This chat was so LIT and we covered so much as I had so many questions I wanted to ask him! I will definitely be getting hime back on as he has so much wisdom to share.

Chris encourages people to embrace their struggles and vulnerabilities, as these are what make us all relatable and interesting.

He challenges the culture of fakery on social media and promotes authenticity and self-acceptance. Chris knows the importance of taking ownership of one's life and not blaming others for our circumstances. In this episode Chris shares his personal journey of self-discovery and finding his purpose. Chris also talks about his parenting philosophy, which involves allowing his children to make their own decisions and be intrinsically motivated.

Lastly we discussed the power of storytelling and the need to be mindful when sharing your personal story online and the importance of storytelling and building a personal brand.

IF YOU DON'T ALREADY GO FOLLOW THIS MAN!

Where you can find more about Chris Do:

Website: https://thefutur.com/people/chris-do

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thechrisdo/

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thechrisdo/

Buy his book: https://thefutur.com/pocket-full-of-do

Chris on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChrisDo

Futur Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefutur

Lastly if you want to learn all the business gold he has to offer be sure to check out his PRO membership here: https://thefutur.com/pro-group

• 00:00:00 Welcome: Meeting the Vietnamese Futurist
• 00:04:09 The Swag That Hooked Me: First Impressions Matter
• 00:06:28 The Loud Introvert: Embracing Your Fractured Self
• 00:10:43 Confidence Is Trust: The Definition That Changes Everything
• 00:11:28 Self-Awareness Plus Self-Acceptance Equals Power
• 00:27:54 The Dark Night at 18: When Pain Becomes Purpose
• 00:38:01 Parenting Without Expectations: Letting Kids Be Perfect
• 00:16:40 The Shadow Self Workshop: Why People Cry at Branding Sessions
• 00:17:07 Pixar's Rule Number One: Struggle Over Success
• 00:55:08 The X-Factor Formula: Being Different Beats Being Better
• 00:57:48 The Hat, The Glasses, The Look: Building Your Visual Identity
• 01:06:26 Superman vs Batman: Who's the Real Person?
• 00:48:15 Telling Your Story Without Bleeding on Your Audience
• 00:23:52 The Man Who Cried on My Shoulder: Permission to Feel
• 01:09:34 Find Chris Do: The Future Pro Group and Beyond

Well, I didn't think I would be doing an episode about this but here we are.

Recently my 9 year old son has been having moments of anxiety and worry due to school work. It's been a learning curve but something my husband and I are totally equiped to handle.

I want to share our experience with you and the tools and techniques we've been trying in hopes that you feel seen and understood.

I also invite you to make sure that YOU are sorting out your anxiety, that YOU have the tools to work through the things that come up for you.

When we do the internal work, when we have rituals and practices that serve our mental health we can teach our children.

If you haven't already started working on yourself, this episode is a reminder for you to do so. As always I am here and happy to support you if I can

Check out the ways you can work with me here: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/work-with-me/

Book #2 is coming friend and it's allll about

BECOMING MAGNETIC!

This book drops JANUARY 2025 and I cannot wait for you to read it

Today I have a very special sneak peek just for you.

I hope you feel moved by these words I wrote.

Love you big x E

💸 Building Your Money Machine with Mel Abraham

How do you create financial stability and freedom, especially in uncertain times?

When the weight of financial stress and the complexities of wealth building feel overwhelming, where do you start?

That’s exactly what we’re diving into in today’s episode with the incredible Mel Abraham.

If you’ve been feeling the pressure of managing your finances while pursuing your big ambitions, this episode is for you.

Mel shares his journey of overcoming personal and financial challenges, including his battle with cancer, and how these experiences shaped his approach to building wealth.

We discuss the importance of creating a "money machine"—a system that allows your money to work harder for you than you do for it.

Tune in to learn:

• The concept of a "silent recession" and how to navigate financial stress in today's economy.
• The importance of separating your efforts to earn money from the actual earnings to achieve true financial freedom.
• Mel’s personal story of how a drawing from his six-year-old son changed his perspective on work-life balance.
• Practical steps to instill financial wisdom in your children from a young age.
• How to plan and prioritise your finances to live a life by design, not by demand.

Get ready to embrace vulnerability and authenticity in your financial journey.

Enjoy this episode, Queen x

P.S. 💜 If you want to learn more about building your money machine, you can get Mel’s book, released June 11th here.