Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

The Dangers of Becoming Lovers Before Friends


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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • Building a lasting relationship requires establishing an authentic and emotional connection with a man.
  • What happens when you rush in and push the love part without first establishing a deep friendship? 
  • Great sex alone will not deepen the emotional connection with a man; it is the emotional bond that leads to better intimacy.
  • Rushing into a physical relationship without a solid foundation of friendship leaves no basis for a lasting connection.
  • How Lisa and Benjamin built a foundation of trust, compassion, and respect, allowing them to be the Guardians of Each Other's Souls. 
  • It's crucial to prioritize emotional compatibility over immediate physical intimacy and invest time in discovering true emotional connection.
  • Slowing down allows you to recognize the absence of an emotional connection and make informed decisions.
  • Emphasizing the significance of taking time, building a genuine connection, and understanding intentions and compatibility before engaging in physical intimacy promotes self-discovery, boundary-setting, and the establishment of respect and admiration.
  • Working with Lisa can help you understand what you really want and bring that to a beautiful relationship. 

Continue On Your Journey: 

Lisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With Lisa

Email the podcast at: [email protected] 

Quotes: 

  •  "Sex won't lead to an emotional connection. The emotional connection may lead to better sex, but great sex will not lead to a deeper emotional connection with a man." - Lisa 
  • When you become lovers before you're even friends, there's no foundation for lasting love." - Lisa 
  • "If you really want to have a truly intimate, loving, lasting relationship, you're going to have to wade through those very uncomfortable dates." - Lisa 
  • "It's about not having sex or jumping into bed, but really finding out if you are emotionally compatible first." - Lisa 

Continue On Your Journey: 

Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa

Email the podcast at: [email protected]

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