Low Demand Parenting

The Hard Stuff: Parenting grief and shame


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In this honest and heartfelt conversation with clinical psychologist and author Dr. Emma Svanberg, known online as the "Mumologist," we explore the intersection of grief and parenting. Emma shares her journey from studying attachment theory to supporting parents in navigating the overwhelming pressures of modern parenting. Together, we unpack the grief that arises when reality doesn’t match our idealized parenting fantasies, the importance of slowing down, and the power of self-compassion.

 

Emma and Amanda discuss:

  • How parenting grief reshapes our identities.
  • Signs of unprocessed grief in parents, including resentment, disconnection, and autopilot living.
  • The myth of calm parenting and the pressure it places on parents.
  • Why self-compassion and community are essential for breaking cycles and creating change.
  • This episode is an invitation to honor the messy, beautiful, and deeply human work of parenting—and to give yourself grace along the way.

     

    Links Mentioned:

    • Emma’s book: Parenting for Humans
    • Find Emma Svanberg, also known as the "Mumologist," on Instagram.
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