Trying to navigate the medical system when you’re trans is already a minefield, but it’s particularly hard when you’re a guy going to a gyno, or a woman getting a prostate check. 

Since reproductive care is so often segregated into ‘men's’ or 'women’s' health, it can be really tough getting the right care when you’re trans or gender-non-conforming.

This episode, hear Bridget Hustwaite from triple j's Good Nights chatting with transgender man Cori Smith and nonbinary person Jess Tilley, who both live with endometriosis.

After that, the experts join Nat in the studio to look at navigating the healthcare system as a gender diverse person, and what still needs to change to ensure everyone feels seen.

It's Bisexual Visibility Day but bi+ people in relationships that look straight can feel totally unseen.

Have you ever wanted to be tied up and suspended from the ceiling? 

As with most things, there’s a kink for that.

Shibari is the art of Japanese rope bondage, which is often paired with suspension — being hung from frames and swings.

Nat heads to Oz Kink Fest to check it out for herself, and chats with suspension expert Avalon about why it's becoming so popular.

How do you feel about marriage?

And do you feel differently about it to your parents, your family or your friends?

For many of us, especially those of us who have culturally diverse or religious families, the people around us might be starting to put the pressure on to find 'the one'.

Psychologist Alicia Franklin joins Nat to discuss how to cope when you're feeling the pressure from every angle.

If you’re the kind of person who’s always working, it might be hard to find time for love. 

And while ambition can be a huge turn on, it doesn’t mean you want to be your partner’s lowest priority.

Sex therapist Lauren White and expert in performance pressure Dan Caprar join Nat to talk about how burnout can affect your relationship, how to be an understanding partner, and how to find a work-love balance.

When was the last time you got tested?

With World Sexual Health Day just passed, it’s a timely reminder that you should be getting tested regularly for STIs. But if you’ve never done it before, it can be daunting knowing where to start. So we’re here to help!

Nat goes inside a sexual health clinic and takes a look at when to get a check, what happens during and how to get your results.

Guests:

Samantha Read, sexual health nurse, Family Planning Victoria

Dr Chris Fox, senior lecturer in sexual health, University of Sydney

Dr Clare Boerma, Associate Medical Director, Family Planning NSW

It might sound like an issue you won’t have to worry about until you’re older, but did you know there’s a bunch of young Australians living with incontinence?

In fact, there's about 60,000 of them. 

It’s something we don’t talk about nearly enough — even though we definitely should — because incontinence can really impact a person’s life.

This episode, we learn how to navigate love, sex and your own mental health when you're living with incontinence.

On triple j, we asked What's Up In Your World. And you told us — about 71 per cent of you watch porn.

And while the vast majority of you said porn had no impact on your relationship, 12 percent of you said it had a positive impact in some way. That's almost double the amount of you who said it had a negative one.

So sit back and relax, because you're about to learn how to use porn as a positive force in your sex life, how to watch it well, and have fun watching it with your partner.

We've just finished Porn Week on triple j, where we looked at what 15,000 of you told us about your porn habits in the What's Up In Your World survey.

So this episode, we’re picking apart your most searched genres. Why are you so into lesbian porn, amateur and threesomes — and does watching porn of it mean you want it IRL?

We get to the bottom of what your porn tastes say about you.

It’s hard to work out what you should do with the bits and pieces left over after a broken relationship.

But before you go trashing your ex’s old hoodie, or flogging their coffee maker online, STOP. Because it might just belong in a museum.

In this episode, Nat chats with the creators of the Museum of Broken Relationships, who came up with the idea of putting that break up stuff on display after their own relationship ended — a small idea that now houses thousands of items and stories from around the world.