The Hook Up

In a recent triple j surveyed of more than 10,000 people aged between 18-29, 11 per cent said they identify as bisexual. That figure is much higher than the broader Australian population, which according to the Australian Study of Health and Relationships, is 1.1 per cent of men and 2.2 per cent of women. We were joined by Dr Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli who's a writer, researcher, lecturer and consultant in the issues of sexuality and gender diversity at Deakin University and Ruby Susan, co-host of bisexuality show Triple Bi Pass on JOY 94.9 in Melbourne to explore the best of both worlds.

Is it ok to not go down on your partner after they've gone down on you? Some people hate going down on their partners, and others just don't feel comfortable receiving it. Sex Therapist Tanya Koens gives us the heads up on head etiquette. We also hear from a couple of callers who are having issues in that department.

How do you feel about being single? The idea of being alone might send you into a sweat, or you could be out there having the time of your life! Psychologist Danielle Maloney talks us through how to navigate singledom and Tom Ballard shares his experiences. We also hear from a listener who is so caught up in his work, he doesn't have time for a relationship - but still really wants one! We'll find out the best advice around that later.

Telling someone you've slept with you have an STI (and they might too!) can be a total nightmare. Even though it shouldn't be, it's embarrassing when maybe you don't know someone that well. Dr Chris Bourne from the NSW STI unit joins us with advice on the best way to tell someone you've got an STI.

Are you friends with your ex? Maybe you can't stand the sight of them. Psychologist Anne Hunter joins to coach us through it.