The Hook Up

Everyone wants to feel like they belong and finding your peeps is hard enough. Imagine being gay in a small town, the only gay in the village, if you will.

Most porn has a predominantly male perspective, the makers are usually men, and a lot is made FOR men. But did you know there's an ethical alternative? Feminist porn!

It's expensive, it takes heaps of time and it hurts. Why do we put so much effort into maintaining body hair? And what can happen when you decide not to anymore?

Have you crossed that invisible line, and boned your bud? Do you push past the awkwardness and stay friends, or take things to the nek level, or has it ruined the mateship altogether? It's a tricky move!

Do you ever feel out of control with the way you watch porn? If it's damaging your relationships, or you're watching more hardcore porn that you're uncomfortable with, it's probably time to talk to someone about it.