What does it really mean to “sit with winners”?
In this episode of The Innovator’s Mindset Podcast, George Couros reflects on a viral message that claims “sit with winners, the conversation is different.” While the idea may sound motivating, it raises an important question: Who decides who the winners are?
Too often, society defines winners by popularity, status, or financial success. In schools, that mindset can unintentionally reinforce the same divisions students already experience, where some students feel valued while others feel excluded.
George challenges that definition and offers a different perspective. What if winning were defined by qualities that truly matter in learning communities: kindness, work ethic, curiosity, resilience, and how we treat other people?
Drawing from experiences as a teacher, coach, and school leader, he explores what this idea looks like in real classrooms and cafeterias. If students only sit with the most popular peers, what messages are we sending about belonging, empathy, and leadership?
This episode encourages educators and leaders to rethink the language we use around success and to consider how schools can foster environments where everyone has the opportunity to be seen as a “winner.”
You will hear reflections on:
• Why defining “winners” by status can create unhealthy divisions in schools
• How kindness, effort, and mindset reshape what success looks like
• What the “sit with winners” idea might look like in a high school cafeteria
• Why educators play a critical role in modeling inclusive leadership
• How conversations change when we value character over popularity
If we redefine what winning means, we also redefine the kind of culture we build in our schools and communities.
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