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- 294. The strongest move in your marriage is going first | with Dr. Corey Allan
When something feels off in your relationship, it's natural to hope your partner will be the one to change first. But waiting often keeps couples stuck in the same painful patterns. Real transformation begins when someone has the courage to take the first step.
In this conversation, Alexandra Stockwell sits down with marriage therapist and host of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr. Corey Allan, to explore why taking responsibility for your own growth is one of the most powerful gifts you can give your marriage. Together, they unpack the difference between compromising and honoring your individuality, why our differences can strengthen rather than weaken a relationship, and how authenticity creates deeper intimacy.
If you've ever found yourself waiting for your spouse to apologize, communicate differently, or meet your needs before making a change yourself, this episode offers a refreshing perspective that can shift the entire dynamic of your relationship.
In this episode, you'll discover:
• Why "going first" is an act of strength, not surrender
• How focusing on yourself changes the entire relationship dynamic
• Why your differences don't have to become points of conflict
• The hidden cost of waiting for your partner to change first
• How authenticity creates more intimacy than people-pleasing ever can
Healthy marriages aren't built by keeping score. They're built by two people who are willing to grow, take responsibility, and choose connection, even when it feels vulnerable.
Connect with Dr. Corey Allan:
Website: https://marriagefullyalive.com/about/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/Books-Dr-Corey-Allan
Sexy Marriage Radio: https://smr.fm/about/
Alexandra and Corey’s previous conversation: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/108-sexy-marriage-radio-w-dr-corey-pam-allan/
28 min - 293. Turning Her On: What if better sex starts long before the bedroom?
Many couples believe the key to a more satisfying sex life is finding the right technique or creating the perfect mood. But often, the most meaningful intimacy begins with something much simpler: feeling deeply seen, understood, and emotionally connected.
In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell responds to a thoughtful listener's question about maintaining intimacy after nearly five decades of marriage. She explores why emotional curiosity, playful connection, and honest conversations about sex create the foundation for a vibrant intimate life, no matter how long you've been together.
Whether you've been married for five years or 50, this episode offers practical, compassionate guidance for nurturing the kind of connection that naturally leads to greater closeness, trust, and desire.
In this episode, you'll discover:
- Why emotional connection is often the missing ingredient in physical intimacy
- How asking meaningful questions can deepen your relationship every day
- The surprising role that playfulness and novelty have in sustaining desire
- Why talking about sex after intimacy can strengthen your connection
- How both partners can take responsibility for creating a fulfilling intimate life
Lasting intimacy isn't built by finding the perfect technique. It's created one conversation, one playful moment, and one intentional act of connection at a time.
23 min - 292. Can conflict actually bring you closer? | with Devon & Nico Hase
Most of us grow up believing that healthy relationships have very little conflict. But what if the goal isn't avoiding conflict at all? What if the real opportunity lies in how we repair, reconnect, and grow together afterward?
In this conversation, Alexandra Stockwell is joined by meditation teachers and authors Devon and Nico Hase to explore the beautiful, messy reality of long-term partnership. Together, they unpack why conflict styles differ, how mindfulness can transform the way couples navigate disagreements, and why embracing our humanity creates deeper intimacy than striving for perfection ever could.
Whether you're the first to seek repair, struggle with difficult conversations, or simply want to feel more connected to your partner, this episode offers compassionate wisdom and practical insights for building a relationship that can hold both the mess and the love.
In this episode, you'll discover:
- The three common conflict styles and how they shape your relationship
- Why repair matters more than avoiding disagreements• How mindfulness and deep listening create stronger connection during difficult moments
- What Buddhism can teach us about intimacy without expecting perfection
- Why healthy relationships make room for both conflict and joy
The strongest relationships aren't conflict-free. They're built by two people who are willing to keep showing up, listening deeply, and choosing connection again and again.
Connect with Devon & Nico Hase:
Website: https://www.devonandnicohase.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/devonandnicohase
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/devonandnicohase
27 min - 291. Do you have enough fun in your marriage?
When we think about creating a more intimate marriage, it's easy to focus on communication, conflict, or even sex. But what if one of the most powerful ways to strengthen your relationship is also one of the simplest?
In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell explores what she calls our modern-day "fun recession" and why so many couples have unintentionally stopped prioritizing joy together. Drawing from years of coaching couples, as well as her own marriage, she shares why laughter, novelty, and play aren't luxuries. They're essential ingredients for emotional closeness, trust, and lasting passion.
Whether your relationship feels busy, predictable, or simply overdue for more lighthearted moments, this episode offers a heartfelt invitation to reconnect through shared experiences that bring you both alive.
In this episode, you'll discover:
• Why fun is a powerful foundation for intimacy• How novelty and shared experiences strengthen emotional and physical connection• Simple ways to bring more laughter, play, and delight into everyday married life• Why creating joy together makes navigating life's challenges easier
When you choose fun, you're not avoiding the deeper work of marriage. You're creating the conditions that make deeper connection possible.
8 min - 290. What to Do When Your Partner Won't Do the Work
When you’re the only one invested in improving your marriage, it’s easy to feel lonely, frustrated, and discouraged. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell responds to a listener’s heartfelt question about what happens when one partner is eager to grow while the other seems resistant. She explores the “teenager attitude” that can emerge in relationships, explains why pushing for change often creates more resistance, and offers practical ways to foster deeper connection without pressure. Through personal stories, coaching insights, and compassionate guidance, Alexandra shares how choosing your own growth can positively transform your marriage—even if your partner isn’t ready to join you yet.
Resources Mentioned:
What To Do When You’re Outgrowing Your Partner:
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/how-to-handle-growth-differences/
When Your Partner Isn’t Into Personal Growth:
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/102-when-your-partner-isnt-into-personal-growth-the-intimate-marriage-podcast/
The Intimate Connection App: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/app
Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:
Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify
Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:
Website | LinkedIn | Instagram
Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl
Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, Uncompromising Intimacy, here:
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage
Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
23 min - 289. How to Reignite Desire After Having Children | with Cordelia Kent
When children become the center of family life, it's easy for intimacy to fade into the background. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Cordelia Kent share a heartfelt conversation about how to reignite desire, deepen emotional connection, and return to one another as loving partners.
About Cordelia Kent
Cordelia Kent writes evocative love stories where desire tells the truth. Her contemporary romances are known for their emotional intelligence and unapologetic heat: in her worlds sex is transformation, intimacy is courage, and every happily-ever-after starts with radical vulnerability. She lives in a storybook Tudor in Kansas City with her dreamboat husband, two small wonders, and a backyard full of bunnies.
Connect with Cordelia Kent:
https://www.cordeliakent.com/
https://amzn.to/4a583Gb
https://www.instagram.com/cordeliakentauthor
https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/29131546.Cordelia_Kent
https://www.facebook.com/cordeliakentauthor/
https://freebie.cordeliakent.com
Resources Mentioned:
Emily Nagoski’s “Come As You Are” https://amzn.to/3MjOBfx
Certified Sexological Bodywork Trainings throughout the world: https://sexologicalbodyworkers.org/schools
Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:
Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify
Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:
Website | Linkedin | Instagram
Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl
Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com
Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
35 min - 288. Marriage Communication That Builds Intimacy | Text Like Lovers, Not Roommates
Marriage communication is shaped by the small moments you create every day, including the texts you send. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares simple, heartfelt ways to bring more playfulness, intimacy, and authentic relationship communication into your messages so you can nurture a marriage that feels warm, connected, and fully alive.
Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:
Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify
Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:
Website | Linkedin | Instagram
Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl
Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com
Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
13 min - 287. How Small Moments Build Extraordinary Marriages | 30 Years of Choosing Intimacy
Intimacy in marriage is not something you find. It's something you create through everyday moments of connection, vulnerability, and care. In this live talk, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares the simple yet powerful practice of choosing emotional intimacy, deepening communication, and creating a passionate, fulfilling relationship that grows stronger with time.
Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:
Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify
Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:
Website | Linkedin | Instagram
Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl
Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com
Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
12 min - 286. The Male Loneliness Epidemic: What It Means for Relationships and Connection | Sean Harvey
Male loneliness affects more than just men. Join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Sean Harvey for a compassionate conversation about why so many men struggle with loneliness, disconnection, and belonging, and how a deeper understanding of men's inner lives strengthens intimacy, communication, and connection in your relationship.
About Sean Harvey
Sean Harvey is a men's engagement strategist and founder of the Warrior Compassion Institute. He works across high intensity and hyper masculine systems to engage men, strengthen leaders, and transform cultures. His statewide efforts focus on engaging the hardest to reach men in the hardest to access systems to model approaches relevant for all men.
He is the co-founder of Project Compassion, a national initiative advancing compassion in policing. Sean is the author of Warrior Compassion, a fellow at American University's PERIL, and speaks nationally on men, masculinity, and disrupting the quiet crisis in organizational systems.
Learn more:
https://warriorcompassion.com
https://linkedin.com/in/seanharvey
https://dudepsychology.substack.com
https://www.warriorcompassion.com/accelerator
Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:
Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify
Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:
Website | Linkedin | Instagram
Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl
Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com
Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
26 min - 285. Why Most Couples Never Reach Their Sexual Potential
Most couples are accessing only a small fraction of what is possible in their sexual intimacy. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the difference between impact-oriented sex and sensually authentic sex, and why understanding that distinction deepens sexual intimacy, awakens erotic vitality, and creates a more nourishing and fulfilling experience of marriage.
Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:
Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify
Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:
Website | Linkedin | Instagram
Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl
Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com
Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
14 min
About The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Doctor Alexandra Stockwell, MD
From the publisher's feed
Welcome to "The Intimate Marriage Podcast," the podcast where we explore the secrets to cultivating passionate and intimate relationships. I'm your host, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, aka "The Intimacy Doctor," an experienced intimacy coach and marriage expert.
In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy.
During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship.
As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage.
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Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book
If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more.
Join my email list to stay connected—it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe
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WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO?
An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy.
Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.
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