Think you have low sexual desire or low libido? Or do your think your partner's sex drive is too high (or too low)?  Does this cause all kinds of challenges in your relationship?  Desire discrepancy is one of the most common challenges I work with in my sex therapy practice.  More often than not it is women who have been labeled as not being as sexual as men, or as having the "lower desire".  And women have been labeled as sexually dysfunctional because of it.  But the truth is that there is more than one way to get the flames of desire going . In this episode I share with you the two forms of desire and how they are different.  When you understand how your desire actually works you will learn you are not dysfunctional at all, and that the idea of "low desire" is merely another myth of women's sexuality.  Now you can stop just waiting for "the mood" to strike and take control over your libido once and for all.