The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver

In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about stepfamily vacations. If you have ever been on a blended family vacation, you know how stressful they can be! Lori & David talk about challenges and tips to help have a good blended family vacation.

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Preparing for stepfamily vacations

• Expectations

• Separate vacations with kids

• Separate vacations adults only

• Length matters

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"I love Lori and David! You can tell they truly care about you and your blend. They want you to succeed! They cheer you on and support you through your journey. I've never felt like someone cared about me so much. Their caring made me want to work harder because I felt like I had someone in my corner!" ~ N.W.

In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to stepcouple Jenn and Zeb. They have been blending for three years, and married six months. The hardest part of the blend for Zeb is establishing and maintaining stepmom's role within the blend and Jenn's hardest part is figuring out her place and role within the blend.

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• What's the stepparent role

• Who is responsible for the stepkid

• Stepkid calling stepmom "Mom"

• Feeling pushed out of your bio kid's life

• When the stepkid gets an arrow through his head

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"I was skeptical of how much this Academy would benefit me/us. I was willing to put the work in, but my partner was against it. I did the bootcamp and within two weeks, my partner was on board because she could not deny the positive changes that were occurring. We love Nacho!" ~ R.S.

In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, answer some Nacho questions. You have questions, we have answers! Please note, these are top level answers to questions and in the Nacho Kids Academy Lori and David delve deeper into the questions you may have and provide guidance to help you Nacho properly.

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Triggers

• Nasty Stepkids

• Summertime stepkids

• Stepparent responsibilities

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"This Nacho stuff is gold! I wish we would have found it sooner. My husband and I decided to join because we were really struggling in our blend. Something had to give. This was the best decision we could have made! We have started healing from our past hurts, and are rebuilding our blended relationships every day! Thank you Dave and Lori! You saved our marriage!" ~ J.F.

In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to bio dad Chris. Chris has experienced parental alienation with his daughter. Chris shares his story and because of his alienation is working to help other alienated parents.

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Parental alienation

• Boundaries

• Legal issue versus mental health issue

• Divorced parents and school

• Psychological abuse

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"I had decided to leave my partner. A friend at work was watching the Guilty Parent Syndrome course in the Nacho Academy during our lunch break and I heard something that clicked with me. I asked him what he was listening to and he told me it was one of the video courses in the Nacho Parenting Academy. I immediately signed up and have decided my relationship is worth working for and that I'd rather make things work with my partner than to start over with someone else." ~ M.W.

*** DISCLAIMER *** Mention of attempted suicide in this episode.

In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to stepmom Jo and bio dad Ben! They have been blending for five years and married two. Ben has two bio kids, one of which lives with him full-time and wants Jo to be his mom! Jo pushed for the oldest stepson to come live with them full-time and feels she has emotionally adopted him. Jo and Ben's journey has not been easy, in fact there was a time where Jo attempted suicide.

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• The importance of getting help

• Stepmom burnout

• Emotional adoption

• Setting boundaries with bio mom

• Having a "golden child" stepkid

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"I don't normally write reviews, but I had to because I want others to know there truly is help out there! This Nacho Academy stuff is gold! Even if you aren't in a stepfamily, it teaches you tools you can use in everyday life to help lower your stress. I recommend it for everyone!" ~ L.J.

In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, and Claudette Chenevert ~ The Stepmom Coach, talk about ruminating. Rumination is something everyone does. It's natural . But is it healthy?

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Ruminating

• Setting Boundaries as a stepmom/stepdad… heck, as a person

• 7 Sins of Memory

• How to handle rumination if it is affecting you negatively

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

***** 100+ STARS *****

This Nacho stuff works guys! I was ready to walk away. I was losing my mind. I was grumpy all the time. I was not happy!. One morning on the way to work I was thinking about going ahead and signing the lease on this apartment I had looked at the previous week. But I got this weird feeling, and felt something was telling me to just wait until Monday since it was already late Friday. Walking into work and clocking in, I heard two co-workers talking and one said, "Yeah girl, my therapist told me to join this Nacho Academy" and they started laughing.When I got to my desk, I googled Nacho school. Nothing came up, Then I remembered she said Nacho Academy. I found it and read some of the blogs and testimonials, and I cried. These people were me! So, if people like me were improving their lives with this Nacho thing, I was willing to give it a try. LET ME TELL YOU! By day 15 my partner asked me if I was high because I was so relaxed. I laughed and told him that I was trying to do some self-development stuff. He told me he knew something was up. If this is what da 15 feels like, I can't wait to finish the bootcamp and start the next challenge!"

In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to a guest who was on the Nacho podcast before. This guest, the Canadian Stepmom was on episode 109 if you'd like to listen to it prior to this one. We reached out to Canadian Stepmom to get an update from her after a few years. She has three stepsons and four bio sons. Yep, all boys!

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Having triplets and father is not home 95% of the time

• Being a boy mom/stepmom

• Things change with bio mom

• Sharing Nachoing with bio mom

Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting Academy Success Story:

"I have listened to your podcast for years. I never thought I'd need the Nacho Parenting Academy, but one day I heard a podcast with someone who had been in the academy. I decided to join to see if it would help me with some of the issues I was having. I had just received my tax money and decided to spend $100 of on two months of the Nacho Kids school as an investment to my marriage and myself. The money I saved from drinking alcohol after the first month of being a nacho member was enough for me to buy another month membership! My husband has even said he'd pay for two more months for me for Valentine's Day. This Nacho stuff works!" ~ N.B.

In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about things she would have done differently in regards to how she reacted when the stepkids angered her. This episode was inspired by one of Lori's stepkids asking her this question recently.

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Feeling your bio child is bullied by the stepkids

• Wanting to beat up your stepkid

• Yoohoo gate

• Vacations

• Accuracy of memories

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"I hated my life. I actually had thought about ending my life several times. I felt everyone was against me. My husband and I fought all the time, my stepkids hated me, my in-laws hated me. I figured everyone would be better off without me until one day I heard the Nacho Kids Podcast a friend was listening to. I started crying and realized I wasn't alone! Hearing Lori telling another stepmom not to give up and helping her through some of her challenges made me realize I needed help. I joined the Nacho Kids Academy that day during my lunch and I can honestly say it's the best decision I ever made! Thank you Lori for everything you do for stepfamilies!" ~ K.G.

In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to stepmom Chyna. Chyna has been blending for two years, she has two stepkids and two bio kids. Her partner adopted her bio kids that she brought into the relationship. The hardest part of blending for her is dealing with bio mom. Her best advice is to let it come naturally.

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Being assaulted by bio mom

• Differences in stepkid relationships

• Calling your stepkid your own

• Court order not allowing stepkid to call stepmom "mom"

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"I just joined the Nacho Academy three days ago and have been binge watching the courses. They are helping me so much. I no longer feel like I'm evil for not loving my stepkids as my own and I no longer feel alone! Thank you Lori and David for doing all you do to help people like me!" ~ J.V.

In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about different fears in a blended family experience. Not only do stepparents experience fears, so do the bio parents, and the kids.

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Fears of a bio parent in a blended family

• Fears of a stepparent in a blended family

• Fears of a bio kid in a blended family

• Fears of a stepkid in a blended family

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"I started the Nacho Academy two months ago. I am not kidding you when I tell you it changed my life! I no longer avoid going home when the stepkids are there. I don't have anxiety days before I know they are coming. My partner and I no longer fight about the kids. Lori and David aren't kidding when they say Life Is Good When You Nacho! It really is!" ~ C.S.