The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver

In this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, interviews stepmom Jane. Jane has been blending for over seven years, has one stepdaughter, and two ours kids. Jane's stepdaughter's bio mom was diagnosed with cancer and didn't make it, unfortunately. However, something amazing happened while bio mom was ill.

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Things change when stepmom gets pregnant

• Bio mom gets cancer

• Bio mom passed away

• Stepmom steps up for bio mom

• Feeling unsafe around your stepkid

Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story:

"When I first heard of Nacho Parents, I thought it was crazy. It was the opposite of everything we had heard about stepfamilies. We got to the point a few years later when we were not doing well. In fact, we were talking about living separately. I heard Lori say on her podcast that living separately doesn't fix things and you will have stepfamily challenges even after the kids move out. So I talked to my wife and she agreed to give it a try. Six months later and we are happier than we have ever been!" J.D.

In this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, interviews David Shubert. David has experienced parental alienation and decided to write a book titled "Parental Alienation Is Abuse" to share his story with others. It is heartbreaking to hear what he, as an alienated parent, has gone through.

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Wife took his kids out of the country and didn't come back

• The family court system/contempt

• The White House said they would help

• Drinking to dull the pain

• Brief reunification

• Check out David's YouTube channel

Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story:

"I wish I would have found the Nacho Academy sooner. It has made a tremendous improvement in our blend! If you are on the fence about joining the Academy, do it now, you won't regret it!" K.F.

In this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, interviews stepmom Michelle who was a stepkid herself. Being a child of three divorces, she feels she can be an ally instead of an enemy to her stepkids. Blending for eight years, she has three stepkids and no bio kids. Straight out of the gate she realized this was different from the blends she grew up in because she never treated her stepmoms the way stepdaughter was treating her.

** Disclaimer: Mention of suicidal thoughts. **

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Begin misunderstood in your role as a stepparent.

• Being treated with disdain and disrespect

• They are Nacho Kids

• Don't take it personally

• Relationships can change like the wind

Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story:

"Six months ago I was in tears. Today, I am also in tears but for a different reason. Today's tears are tears of happiness. My blend is blending and happy! I can't believe it! Working with David and Lori was the best thing we could have ever done. It was immediately obvious David and Lori truly cared about helping blended families and wanted us to succeed as much as we wanted to succeed. They helped us through some rough waters and if it wasn't for them, I would have jumped ship after hiding all the life buoys!"

In this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori Sims interviews a stepmom who is going through IVF. Blending for over three years, having been married a year and a half, this stepmom has a five-year-old stepdaughter whose husband has full custody.

*** Disclaimer: Mention of alcoholism in this podcast episode ***

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Childless full-time stepmom going through IVF

• High-conflict bio mom with addiction issues

• Having supportive in-laws

• Guardian Ad Litems

• Adding an "ours" baby

Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story:

"My husband wouldn't stop parenting my kid. I hated it. He was constantly on my kid about performing chores. Which would be fine; however, he never told his kid to do anything. He'd take away my son's electronics as punishment for my son not being ready to walk out the door the minute he was supposed to in the mornings. If it was his daughter running late, it was no issue. I couldn't take it any longer. I had already started looking at housing options for my son and me. After looking into this Nacho stuff after hearing a podcast, I realized this might could help us. I told my husband, "I can't take the stress anymore and need you to please try this for 30 days for the sake of our marriage." A week later, he agreed. 30 days later, and we are better than we have ever been. It has not been perfectly smooth sailing, but the improvement is astonishing! We even decided to stay longer in the Academy to take another one of the challenges! Nacho Parenting saved our marriage!" E.H.

In this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori, co-founder of Nacho, interviews a stepmom who is a Christian counselor. She has two adult stepkids and two bio kids. She met the stepkids when they were 20 & 22 years old. Her relationship with the stepkids changed after the bio mom passed away.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Not forcing relationships

• Adult stepkids

• When a bio parent passes away

• Walking away from toxicity

• Being blocked/unfriended on Facebook

Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story:

"I debated joining the Nacho Kids Academy for several months. Honestly, I didn't want to pay for it. Then I realized a divorce would cost me a lot more and I didn't want our "ours" kid growing up in a split home. I started with the Nacho Kids Boot Camp. It was not easy, but I stuck with it. I was determined to work on our blend for 30 days then I'd reassess things. Within the first two weeks, my partner noticed positive changes with me and with their kids! We were in awe of how quickly we saw results when I started Nachoing properly! I chose to stay in the Academy to do the other challenges and to continue to have the support of the community! Thank you, Lori and David, for helping stepfamilies and teaching them the tools to better their blend!" ~ J.Q.

** DISCLAIMER ** This episode contains mention of suicide and abortion.

On this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori interviews a guest who shares their experience with the challenges of blended families. From managing schedules and family dynamics, to personal struggles with mental health, the guest provides valuable insights and advice for navigating difficult situations. Tune in to hear how they've learned to let go of control in certain areas and prioritize their own well-being while still being a supportive member of their blended family.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Mental health in the blend

• Camp Counselor mode

• Letting the bio parent cook and care for their kids

• Boundaries

• Being a stepkid then a stepmom

Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story:

Before discovering the Nacho Kids Academy, our stepfamily was facing numerous challenges that seemed insurmountable. The constant conflicts, misunderstandings, and lack of harmony were tearing us apart, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and hopeless. It felt like we were trapped in a never-ending cycle of frustration and resentment.

But then, like a ray of hope, we stumbled upon the Nacho Kids website and saw the link to the Academy and everything changed. From the very first moment, we knew we had found a lifeline that would help us navigate the complexities of our stepfamily dynamics. The guidance, resources, and support provided by Lori & David turned out to be the key ingredients in rebuilding our bonds and creating a loving and united family unit.

Their Nacho Academy not only provided us with invaluable knowledge about the unique challenges of blended families but also empowered us with practical strategies to address those challenges head-on. The courses were comprehensive, well-structured, and tailored to our specific needs. We learned how to deal with difficult ex-partners, manage conflicts, and most importantly, to stop reacting and start responding.

One of the most transformative aspects of the Nacho Kids Academy was the emphasis on self-care and personal growth. Through their guidance, we discovered the importance of taking care of ourselves and nurturing our own mental and emotional well-being. This newfound self-awareness allowed us to approach our stepfamily dynamics with more empathy, understanding, and patience. It enabled us to break free from the negative patterns of the past and create a healthier and happier environment for everyone involved.

The supportive community of like-minded individuals within the Academy was another incredible asset. We connected with other stepfamilies who were going through similar challenges, shared our experiences, and gained valuable insights. The sense of camaraderie and encouragement we received from this community was truly uplifting and provided us with the strength to persevere during the most challenging times.

Today, thanks to the Nacho Kids Academy, we can proudly say that we have rebuilt the bonds within our stepfamily. Our home is filled with love, respect, and understanding. We have learned to embrace our unique family dynamics, celebrating our differences and cherishing the beautiful relationships we have built. The transformation we have experienced is nothing short of remarkable, and it is all thanks to the exceptional guidance and support we received from Lori and David.

If you are a struggling stepfamily, feeling lost and hopeless, we wholeheartedly recommend the Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting Method and the Nacho Kids Academy. It is a beacon of hope in a sea of challenges, offering the tools and support needed to transform your stepfamily dynamics. With their guidance, you too can rebuild your bonds, create a harmonious environment, and thrive in the blend. Nachoing changed our lives, and we are forever grateful for the positive impact it has had on our stepfamily journey. ~ G.S.

On this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori is joined by guest Ginger Gentile, a filmmaker who focuses on issues related to parental alienation. The podcast focuses on practical strategies that parents can use to reconnect with their estranged children, including changing their mindset, practicing unconditional love, and prioritizing their children's well-being. The episode highlights the need for greater awareness of parental alienation.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Erasing Dad & Erasing Family Documentaries

• Don't give up

• Reversing parental alienation

• Thinking more positively

• Unconditional love

To watch Ginger's documentary for free: www.erasingfamily.org

For Ginger's coaching programs and courses: www.reversingparentalalienation.com

Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story:

"I'm only writing this because I can't believe it and want to tell others what this Nacho Parenting did to our family. My wife signed up for the Academy one night when she was crying in bed and feeling hopeless. I knew nothing about it but thought it sounded stupid. The next night she came to me and said she finally had hope! Over the next 3 months, our lives changed tremendously! We had a few hiccups along the way, so she reached out on the Q & A calls and community and got help directly from the creators of the method. Things are so much better now! She no longer cries at night or walks around with a distraught look. The cloud over our house is gone. Everyone is so much better! I no longer think it's stupid. Thank you both for helping us!" T.P.

On this episode of Nacho Kids, Lori talks with stepmom who was struggling to find her footing raising her partner's children. She shares the challenges of balancing being a caregiver and maintaining her own mental health, including the burnout she experienced and how she overcame it. We also hear about the difficulties of co-parenting with a controlling ex and navigating the boundaries between bio and step-parenting.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Sharing parenting of your kid with your partner

• Co-parenting with a controlling ex

• Boundaries

• Different parenting styles

• Guilty Parent Syndrome

Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story:

"I grew up in a stepfamily so I thought I would know what to do and how to do it when I became a stepdad. Man, was I wrong! I didn't understand why her kids didn't like me. I had a great stepdad growing up. In fact, I refer to him as Dad. I did fatherly things with and for these stepkids but they still seemed to reject me. My wife suggested I look into this taco, I mean nacho thing. I told her I would not join a Facebook group to get help from a bunch of strangers who are only there because they have the same problem you do, so their advice is mute. She laughed and said I was in luck, there was an Academy. So, I figured what the heck, it can't hurt to see what it's about and we truly needed help. It was the best decision I ever made! My wife talks about how much happier I am now, and it's true. My stress level went down drastically. I am happier than I have been in a long time! ! She's happier now, and so are the kids! I'll never look at taco, I mean nachos the same again! Thanks Lori & Dave" ~ C.C.

*** DISCLAIMER: Mention of addiction

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, interviews a bio mom who is a certified parent coach. She has been blending for over 30 years. Her relationship with her ex has been a bit challenging, to say the least.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Dealing with a narcissistic ex

• The family court system

• Expectations of the stepparent

• Relationship between bio mom and stepmom

• Transition days

Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story:

"Thank you so much for everything. The work you do is so important and life-changing!" ~ A.M.

DISCLAIMER: Mention of sexual abuse

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, interviews a stepmom from England. This stepmom has been blending for a little over five years, and has two stepkids and one ours kid. Like many stepmoms, her blended journey hasn't been butterflies and unicorns. Dealing with a high-conflict bio mom and toxic in-laws has made her blend very challenging. Her best advice is "Nacho!".

In this episode, we discuss:

• Dealing with a high-conflict bio mom

• Dealing with toxic in-laws

• Stepparent alienation

• Wrongful accusations against stepmom

Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story:

"I finally decided to join the Nacho Academy instead of trying to weed through bad advice for how to properly Nacho in the Facebook group. I was floored by all the content and resources in the Academy! The Boot Camp was amazing, and the Change Your Stinking Thinking challenge truly changed my life! I intend to stay a member in order to have these resources to fall back on and to keep being a part of the Q & A calls. They are extremely helpful! I honestly believe if I hadn't joined the Academy and did the challenges, I would be divorced. If you are on the fence about joining the Academy for help, do it! You won't regret it!" ~ J.W.