In this Coaching Q&A episode, I’m answering the question: “What if I don’t know what I want yet?”
Many people hesitate to seek coaching because they feel unclear about their goals or next steps. But that’s exactly where coaching can make a difference.

Drawing from my coaching experience, I share how we work together to create clarity, uncover your goals, and map out actionable steps—whether you’re a career pivoter, a leader, or building a business. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure, this episode is here to help you move forward with confidence and a plan.

Key Takeaways:

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to the Coaching Q&A Series
01:00 What If I Don’t Know What I Want Yet?
02:00 Coaching vs. Consulting: Finding Clarity Without Dictating Solutions
03:00 Self-Guided Discovery: Uncovering Values and Patterns
05:00 Leadership Feedback: Turning “Executive Presence” Into Actionable Goals
06:30 Creating a Clear Path Forward: How Coaching Works
08:00 Real-Life Examples: Career, Leadership, and Business Coaching Outcomes

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In episode 74, I sit down with Paige, one of my inspiring clients, to dive into her transformative journey. From years in retail management to pursuing her creative passions, Paige shares how she moved past the fear of change, reclaimed her artistic confidence, and created a life aligned with her values.

Paige opens up about the challenges of being a first-generation college graduate, the importance of community support, and the mindset shifts that helped her embrace her identity as a performer, artist, and leader. Her story is a testament to the power of trusting your intuition, leaning on your community, and creating a career on your own terms.

Key Takeaways:

Chapters:

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Paige is a colorful creative born and raised in Chicago, IL. She holds a BFA in Acting Performance from Cincinnati's College-Conservatory of Music and recently made her professional theatre debut in February of 2024. You can also catch her prancing around the city as a burlesque performer! Some of her favorite hobbies include studying astrology and tarot, learning about exoplanets, and yoga at the beach. Learn more about her work and performances here.

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In episode 73, we’re tackling how to show up for your interviews prepared, confident, and ready to shine. If interviews have ever felt overwhelming or if you’ve struggled to communicate your value, this episode will change the game.

You’ll learn how to turn job descriptions into a roadmap for impactful storytelling, helping you anticipate questions and craft thoughtful answers. I’ll also share strategies for researching companies and interviewers, allowing you to align your goals and values with theirs seamlessly. And if you’ve ever hesitated to take credit for your accomplishments, we’ll cover the power of using “I” statements to own your impact and leadership with confidence.

Whether you’re making a career pivot, stepping into leadership, or aiming for a stretch role, this episode will empower you to approach interviews with clarity, authenticity, and the tools to make a lasting impression.

Key Takeaways:

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction: Confidence and Clarity in Interviews
03:00 Turning Job Descriptions into Stories
08:00 Researching Companies and Interviewers
12:30 Structuring Your Answers with Metrics and Examples
19:00 Using “I” Statements to Highlight Leadership
23:30 Final Takeaways: Practice and Preparation

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In episode 72, I’m sitting down with Rui, one of my amazing clients, to talk about her journey from feeling stuck in a tough job search to stepping confidently into leadership and starting her own purpose-driven business.

Rui shares how she aligned her career moves with her values, overcame challenges as a first-time leader, and started building a freelance business to support women of color founders. Together, we explore:

Chapters
00:00 Intro to Rui and Her Career Journey
06:00 Job Search Challenges and Choosing Alignment
12:00 Building Leadership Confidence and Stepping Into Leadership
18:00 Launching a Purpose-Driven Business to Support Women of Color Entrepreneurs
24:00 Reflections on Coaching and Key Takeaways

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Rui is on a mission to help founders build sustainable, values-driven businesses. Learn more about her work and connect with her here.

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In this bonus episode of the Coaching Q&A Series, I’m addressing a big question: “Is coaching too expensive?” This mini-series is designed to clear up common misconceptions about coaching and share practical insights around the coaching process.

Today, I explore finances, risk assessment, and decision-making when it comes to making an investment—whether it’s coaching or something else. I share my personal journey from growing up in a low-income household with limited financial literacy to becoming confident in managing and investing my money.

If you’ve ever wondered whether coaching is “worth it,” this episode will give you a framework to make confident financial decisions that align with your goals, values, and risk tolerance.

Key Takeaways:

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to the Coaching Q&A Series
01:00 The Big Question: Is Coaching Too Expensive?
03:00 My Personal Journey: Financial Scarcity to Abundance
06:00 Assessing Risk and Knowing Your Financial Plan
07:30 How to Research Before Making an Investment
09:00 Making Confident Decisions and Overcoming Fear
12:00 Real Client Stories: Career Growth, Relocation, and Leadership Development
15:00 Why Investing in Coaching Can Transform Your Life

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In episode 71, I’m breaking down negotiation—whether it’s for a salary, client contract, or career move. Negotiation is about advocating for yourself, knowing your value, and communicating with confidence.

You’ll learn how to:

Plus, hear real stories of clients who’ve doubled salaries, secured leadership roles, and mastered negotiation.

This episode is here to help you build the skills to advocate for yourself and achieve what you deserve.

Key Takeaways:

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction
02:00 Why Negotiation Matters
05:00 Researching and Setting Your Range
09:00 Communicating Your Value
13:00 Handling Counteroffers
18:00 Client Success Stories
22:00 Final Tips

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In this bonus episode of the Coaching Q&A Series, I’m answering a key question: “Is coaching just giving advice?” This mini-series is designed to clear up common misconceptions about coaching and offer clarity on how it differs from therapy or consulting.

Drawing from my experience as a coach, I explain why coaching is about self-reflection, advocacy, and taking actionable steps—rather than simply being told what to do. Whether you’re considering working with a coach or curious about the process, this episode will give you a better understanding of what coaching truly offers.

Key Takeaways:

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to the Coaching Q&A Series
01:00 Is Coaching Just Giving Advice?
02:00 Coaching vs. Consulting: The Key Differences
03:00 Coaching vs. Therapy: How Coaching Looks Ahead
04:30 Self-Reflection and Advocacy: The Foundation of Coaching
05:30 Avoiding External Noise: Building Self-Trust
07:00 Long-Lasting Impact: Why Coaching Helps You Take Action

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In episode 70,  I’m sitting down with Xiaosu, one of my inspiring former clients, to talk about her leadership journey and what it really takes to transition from individual contributor to people manager—and eventually director.

Xiaosu shares her story of pivoting from a biochemistry major to a nonprofit leader, her love for managing people, and her commitment to bringing joy to her work and team. Together, we dive into the strategies she used to:

Chapters
00:00 Intro to Xiaosu and Her Career Journey
06:00 Transitioning from Individual Contributor to People Manager
12:00 The Power of Setting Boundaries and Leading by Example
18:00 Why Joy Is at the Center of Leadership
24:00 Trusting Your Team and Asking the Right Questions
28:00 The Role of Coaching in Building Confidence

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In this bonus episode of the Coaching Q&A Series, I’m tackling one of the most common questions: “How do I vet a coach?” This mini-series is designed to clear up misconceptions about coaching while helping you confidently choose a coach who aligns with your goals and values.

Drawing from my experience as both a coach and a client, I share essential insights to evaluate a coach’s mission, expertise, and style. Whether you’re considering working with me or another coach, this episode equips you with the tools to make an informed investment in your personal and professional growth.

Key Takeaways:

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to the Coaching Q&A Series
01:00 Mission and Values: The Foundation of a Good Fit
03:30 Experience and Expertise: What to Look For
06:00 Continuous Growth: How Great Coaches Evolve
08:00 Previewing Resources: Blogs, Podcasts, and More
10:30 Feeling Heard: The Importance of Space and Connection
12:00 Evaluating Credentials: What Matters Most

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In episode 69, I’m getting real about a question I hear all the time: “How do I actually create a career plan that works for me?”

Here’s the deal—your career plan isn’t your company’s responsibility; it’s yours. Whether you’re aiming for a promotion, making a pivot, or building something entirely your own, it’s time to step up and take control.

I’m breaking it all down: how to set clear goals, figure out what skills you actually need, and build the relationships that’ll get you where you want to go. And yes, I’m also spilling on why keeping “success receipts” will save you when things get messy in the middle (because they always do).

This episode is here to remind you: no one’s going to plan your career for you—so let’s make it happen.

Key Takeaways:

Chapters:
00:00 Taking Ownership of Your Career Plan
02:00 Why No One Else Will Do This for You
05:00 Setting Goals and Timelines that Actually Work
08:00 Identifying Key Skills and Relationships
12:00 Building a Career Plan You Can Stick To
15:00 Tracking Wins and Pushing Through the Messy Middle
20:00 Staying Flexible While Moving Forward

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