In this episode, the hosts welcome Marcella Hill, an author and advocate for sexual empowerment who recently went viral on TikTok for sharing her journey from a suppressed religious background to becoming an advocate for her own sexual wellbeing. Marcella discusses her new book, Wake Her Up, and shares how she went from a low libido to a heightened sex drive. 

[00:04:06] Religious beliefs and shame.

[06:13:00] Shame around sexuality.

[00:08:15] Suppression around sexuality.

[00:14:29] Pleasure in Sexual Relationship.

[00:16:33] Enjoying oral sex and blowjobs.

[00:23:35] Hormone therapy and libido.

[00:24:16] Sexual exploration and discovery.

[00:30:10] The heart below.

[00:32:09] Orgasm and meditation.

[00:35:47] Pleasure as self-discovery.

[00:40:25] Women deserve pleasure.

[00:44:13] Hormones and sex education.

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Instagram: @beingmarcellahill

Website: https://marcellahill.com/

Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/785908958415961/?ref=share

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In this episode, the hosts interview Kevin Patterson, a polyamory educator and author. They discuss the concept of toxic monogamy and how it affects romantic relationships. Patterson discusses the need to divorce oneself from the idea of possessiveness in relationships, as well as the impact of racism and systematic oppression on the way people date and become intimate. He also addresses the idea that polyamory is exclusively for affluent people and aims to normalize this relationship structure.

[00:01:22] Toxic Monogamy.

[00:04:52] Polyamorous relationships.

[00:11:22] Race and polyamory.

[00:11:39] Lack of diversity in events.

[00:16:26] Examining our mindset.

[00:19:05] Celebrity politics and societal progress.

[00:23:23] Polyamory course and resources.

Stay Connected with Kevin Patterson

Instagram: @polyrolemodels

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In this episode:

[00:03:30] Sacred Sexuality Coaching.

[00:04:13] Patriarchal sex culture.

[00:07:58] Internalized slut shaming.

[00:11:32] Bringing emotions to the space.

[00:16:34] Self love vs. self lust.

[00:18:51] Sexual objectification of women.

[00:23:59] Entitlement in relationships.

[00:26:34] Self objectification.

[00:32:03] Women's beauty standards throughout history.

[00:33:09] Sexual Worthiness and Pleasure.

[00:38:14] Committing to self-love.

[00:40:06] Forgiveness and self-love.

[00:44:18] Emotion as sensation.

[00:47:50] Normalizing vulnerability.

Stay Connected with Michelle Martinez

Instagram: @themichellemartinez

Website: https://michelle-martinez.net

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Have you ever wondered what it was like inside a swingers club? Are you curious about the swinger, open or poly relationship models? Don't know where to start? Well today we have some guests that might have you “swinging,” from the chandelier by the end of the episode. 

They are the creators of the OpenLove101 lifestyle organization and Podcast. Together this power couple has over 35 years combined experience in consensual non monogamy and for over a decade they have coached hundreds of couples in educating them in the swinger lifestyle. Please welcome Jackie and John of Open Love101!

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Throwback to the time we went to a sex party... as a cast... for research, of course. We've come so far in our sexual empowerment journey. Blast back to the past with us as we recount our experience of going to a sex party.

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Visit our Website | https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/ 

Subscribe to our YouTube Channel | https://www.youtube.com/c/ClitTalk 

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Join Sugar for 5 days of pure pleasure on the Big Island of Hawaii for the PLEASURE PURPOSE POWER Retreat. Visit pleasurepositiveliving.com/retreat to learn more. 

We recorded this episode a year and a half ago… it has remained in the archives… until today… mwahaha. Lindsey and Sugar went as single ladies to a sex party and they explicitly shared about the highlights from their epic night out. This episode is a party in and of itself. 

In this episode:

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Where are all our readers out there? This podcast started as a book club reading Regena Thomashauer’s Pussy: A Reclamation and we have another great author on here today, Jessica Graham! In her book, Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out, she teaches us about intimacy, love, fucking, compassion and our own hearts and minds, encouraging us to live our most authentic lives in and out of the bedroom. She started as a meditation teacher, actor and works with individual clients as well as couples. 

In this episode you will learn about:

Stay connected with Jessica Graham:
Website
Instagram
YouTube
Facebook
Twitter

Jessica Graham’s Book: Order Good Sex

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You’ve heard of an Early Bird Sale. Well, this is a Naughty Night Owl Sale - we wanted to take a moment to reward procrastination!

That’s right… 

Registration for the Sex & Empowerment Signature Masterclass ended but we decided to open the door back up only until 9pm Tuesday, March 14th.

So there’s a final chance to join us this year! 

We get you’re busy, you’ve got a lot going on and you may or may not have been procrastinating on your pleasure and signing up for this badass pleasure filled course. 

SO we wanted to really reward you for that and give you our Naughty Night Owl exclusive discount for the Sex & Empowerment Signature Masterclass.

You can get started for just $134.

Click here to learn more or sign up. 

What do you get?

• The Program: Our Entire Sex and Empowerment Signature Masterclass (valued at $2,997)
  • 7 Lesson Modules, Filled with our Best Expert Tips, Tricks, & Skills
  • Weekly LIVE virtual classrooms
  • Additional Video, Audio, and PDF Guides
  • Direct Coaching with Katie, Lindsey & Madison
  • Weekly Q&A sessions
  • Access to private community

How will this change your life?

• You will have the tools and confidence to have the conversations you have been avoiding (both with yourself and others) when it comes to your sex and empowerment.
• You’ll have a  crystal clear vision and step-by-step guide to turn all your deepest desires into a reality. 
• You will be able to let go of anything from your past that is holding you back from having the best sex of your life.
• You’ll have greater intimacy in all your current and/or future relationships on a physical, mental and emotional level.
• And you will have a new level of appreciation for just how beautiful and amazing you are and be able to sustain that newfound unconditional love.

But hurry, your exclusive registration window is closing on Tuesday, March 14th at 9pm PST. 

The next live classroom is Thursday, March 16th at 5:30pm PST.

https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/naughty 

Join Sugar for 5 days of pure pleasure on the Big Island of Hawaii for the PLEASURE PURPOSE POWER Retreat. Visit pleasurepositiveliving.com/retreat to learn more. 

You’ve heard of an Early Bird Sale. Well, this is a Naughty Night Owl Sale- we wanted to take a moment to reward procrastination!

That’s right… 

Registration for the Sex & Empowerment Signature Masterclass ended but we decided to open the door back up only until  9pm Tuesday, March 14th.

So there’s a final chance to join us this year! 

We get you’re busy, you’ve got a lot going on and you may or may not have been procrastinating on your pleasure and signing up for this badass pleasure filled course. 

SO we wanted to really reward you for that and give you our Naughty Night Owl exclusive discount for the Sex & Empowerment Signature Masterclass.

You can get started for just $134.

Click here to learn more or sign up. 

What do you get?

Get started for $134 today.

How will this change your life?

But hurry, your exclusive registration window is closing on Tuesday, March 14th at 9pm PST. 

The next live classroom is Thursday, March 16th at 5:30pm PST.

https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/naugh

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