The Powerful Man Show

Episode #92

What happens when therapy doesn't work?

For most men, there has been a lot of negative connotations around going to therapy, whether it's couples therapy, marriage counseling, or therapy on their own.

Some men that come through The Powerful Man say their therapy wasn't successful because the therapist is a woman and they can't rely on her to will really understand what they're going through.

Other men believe the stigma that being in therapy indicates that there is something wrong with them.

Oftentimes, therapy doesn't work for men because men try to compartmentalize their lives that affect almost every area of their lives, their businesses, their marriages, their health, their finances, and personal happiness.

If therapy doesn't work for you...try something else!

The truth is, you are not put on this world to struggle. You've just been using the wrong system or the wrong roadmap.

If you're given the right roadmap and you're willing to do the work, then a particular result happens.

Do something.

Don't be in therapy if you're experiencing no results and you aren't doing anything about it.

Don't be afraid to pivot.

Don't be afraid to make a change.

Know when perseverance is starting to work against you & don't be afraid to try something different.

Make that call.

What you will learn in this episode:

1. What to do when therapy doesn't work.
2. The importance of having the right therapy.
3. The importance of not settling.
4. The importance of taking action when you're not seeing any results.

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Episode #91

Knowing who we are and what we want will give us the foundation and direction as we go on with our lives. If you are confident of who you are, there will be no need to put up a front just to prove yourself to other people. Be authentic. Be the man you're capable of being. Stop seeking validation from people around you. 

If you are secure with yourself and steadfast, things will wash over you. If our foundation is strong, you don't easily succumb to any conflict that you encounter.

If you discover who you are and be confident about it, people will see you as someone who can lead them and whom they can give their trust. People tend to invest their emotions and trust in a person who they know is stable and secure. 

Not knowing who you mean not knowing what you want. If you don't figure out who you are, you will forever be living somebody else's dreams and desires and you will never feel content.

What you will learn in this episode:

1. Figuring out who you are and what you want
2. Importance of being present with the people that we love
3. Letting our loved ones feel that sense of security
4. Being confident of who you are without the need for validation from other people

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Episode #91

Knowing who we are and what we want will give us the foundation and direction as we go on with our lives. If you are confident of who you are, there will be no need to put up a front just to prove yourself to other people. Be authentic. Be the man you're capable of being. Stop seeking validation from people around you.

If you are secure with yourself and steadfast, things will wash over you. If our foundation is strong, you don't easily succumb to any conflict that you encounter.

If you discover who you are and be confident about it, people will see you as someone who can lead them and whom they can give their trust. People tend to invest their emotions and trust in a person who they know is stable and secure.

Not knowing who you mean not knowing what you want. If you don't figure out who you are, you will forever be living somebody else's dreams and desires and you will never feel content.

What you will learn in this episode:

1. Figuring out who you are and what you want
2. Importance of being present with the people that we love
3. Letting our loved ones feel that sense of security
4. Being confident of who you are without the need for validation from other people

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Hungry for more?

Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #90

In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss Tim's conversation with one of the men from the brotherhood. He shared that this particular man has been hiding or living just to get by for the past several months after becoming a better man as a result of joining the brotherhood.

For the past 12 months, this guy achieved phenomenal things. To name a few, he landed a 6-figure deal in his business which is the largest in his company's history, he reunited with his family, lost weight, is now picking up his kids from school and now has control over all aspects of his life.

Yet...over the past month or so, he has been doing 'just enough' to get by. He has been making promises but then not following through, especially in his business. His company has been receiving negative reviews for its poor customer service which Tim believes is a reflection of him not being there to provide presence and leadership.

Most men, if not all, experience this situation.

In business, for example, we are so used to hustling and grinding our way until we reach our business goals. And then when we reach those goals, we just stop working.

We take our foot off the gas. We settle. And two or three months go by, and suddenly we lose a client, and another client, and another client. By the time we take to look at it, the business is already burning down.

So we start to take action again, step on the gas again, hustle and grind until we build the business back up again. And then we settle again and then we burn it again and then build it back up and then settle again. The pattern goes on and on.

Until you figure out why you do this, why that pattern keeps on happening, where's the source of it, you will be trapped inside this loop.

Get very clear with yourself. Are you being the man you know you can be? Don't get stuck in the patterns that don't serve you.

What you will learn in this episode:

• What is Upper Limiting
• What is Unconcious Commitment
• What to do when you reach your threshold
• The importance of recognizing the patterns that don't serve you

Episode #90

In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss Tim's conversation with one of the men from the brotherhood. He shared that this particular man has been hiding or living just to get by for the past several months after becoming a better man as a result of joining the brotherhood.

For the past 12 months, this guy achieved phenomenal things. To name a few, he landed a 6-figure deal in his business which is the largest in his company's history, he reunited with his family, lost weight, is now picking up his kids from school and now has control over all aspects of his life.

Yet...over the past month or so, he has been doing 'just enough' to get by. He has been making promises but then not following through, especially in his business. His company has been receiving negative reviews for its poor customer service which Tim believes is a reflection of him not being there to provide presence and leadership.

Most men, if not all, experience this situation.

In business, for example, we are so used to hustling and grinding our way until we reach our business goals. And then when we reach those goals, we just stop working.

We take our foot off the gas. We settle. And two or three months go by, and suddenly we lose a client, and another client, and another client. By the time we take to look at it, the business is already burning down.

So we start to take action again, step on the gas again, hustle and grind until we build the business back up again. And then we settle again and then we burn it again and then build it back up and then settle again. The pattern goes on and on.

Until you figure out why you do this, why that pattern keeps on happening, where's the source of it, you will be trapped inside this loop.

Get very clear with yourself. Are you being the man you know you can be? Don't get stuck in the patterns that don't serve you.

What you will learn in this episode:

• What is Upper Limiting
• What is Unconcious Commitment
• What to do when you reach your threshold
• The importance of recognizing the patterns that don't serve you

Hungry for more?

Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #89

Have you ever witness someone destroying other people just to gain more in their own life or business? 

Has that person ever been you? 

It's not uncommon to see someone taking advantage of others to grow their own business. Typically these are people who are not satisfied with where they are, what they have, and who they are?

These people feel disconnected to themselves, finding themselves in broken relationships. 

Has that person ever been you?

In this episode, we talk about the power of knowing who you are, connecting with yourself, and knowing what really matters to you.

If you relate to the person described above....we guide you in HOW you can take steps to make a change and a transformation. HOW you can reconnect with who you are and have a life that have been craving  

Do it for yourself.

Your business will grow exponentially as a result of leveling up without the need to screw other people. What you do and how you perform and how you treat other people is a complete reflection of yourself.

Be a person with integrity while leveling up your game.

What you will learn in this episode:

• The importance of integrity
• The importance of being satisfied with yourself and your relationships
• The importance of knowing yourself and asking for help when things aren't working out
• How to level up your game without hurting other people

Episode #89

Have you ever witness someone destroying other people just to gain more in their own life or business?

Has that person ever been you?

It's not uncommon to see someone taking advantage of others to grow their own business. Typically these are people who are not satisfied with where they are, what they have, and who they are?

These people feel disconnected to themselves, finding themselves in broken relationships.

Has that person ever been you?

In this episode, we talk about the power of knowing who you are, connecting with yourself, and knowing what really matters to you.

If you relate to the person described above....we guide you in HOW you can take steps to make a change and a transformation. HOW you can reconnect with who you are and have a life that have been craving

Do it for yourself.

Your business will grow exponentially as a result of leveling up without the need to screw other people. What you do and how you perform and how you treat other people is a complete reflection of yourself.

Be a person with integrity while leveling up your game.

What you will learn in this episode:

• The importance of integrity
• The importance of being satisfied with yourself and your relationships
• The importance of knowing yourself and asking for help when things aren't working out
• How to level up your game without hurting other people

Hungry for more?

Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #88

As men, we are taught that in order to provide for our family we have to work hard. Working hard then leads us to hustle, leaving us to think that we are doing exactly what we are supposed to do....but in reality, we are completely missing the mark.

While you are busy grinding to secure your children's future, you are losing the chance to be with them while they are growing up because there is no energy left for them every time you get home.

You lose the chance to be physically and emotionally present for them and the chance to experience having a great father who can serve as their model when they themselves become fathers.

To be a great father you should have the skillset to understand your children and get into THEIR world. Spend time with them and do your best to not miss important events in their lives.

We often grind so we can give them everything we think they need to be happy but what we don't realize is that spending quality time with them IS what makes them happy.

Know your priorities. Know what really matters to you. If you say it is your children or family, then you have to be PRESENT for them.

Break the pattern and be a father whom your children will look up to.

What you will learn in this episode:

1. How to provide emotionally for your children by being present
2. How to know your priorities and focus on what really matters to you as a father
3. The importance of understanding your children's needs
4. What it means to be a great father

Episode #88

As men, we are taught that in order to provide for our family we have to work hard. Working hard then leads us to hustle, leaving us to think that we are doing exactly what we are supposed to do....but in reality, we are completely missing the mark.

While you are busy grinding to secure your children's future, you are losing the chance to be with them while they are growing up because there is no energy left for them every time you get home.

You lose the chance to be physically and emotionally present for them and the chance to experience having a great father who can serve as their model when they themselves become fathers.

To be a great father you should have the skillset to understand your children and get into THEIR world. Spend time with them and do your best to not miss important events in their lives.

We often grind so we can give them everything we think they need to be happy but what we don't realize is that spending quality time with them IS what makes them happy.

Know your priorities. Know what really matters to you. If you say it is your children or family, then you have to be PRESENT for them.

Break the pattern and be a father whom your children will look up to.

What you will learn in this episode:

1. How to provide emotionally for your children by being present
2. How to know your priorities and focus on what really matters to you as a father
3. The importance of understanding your children's needs
4. What it means to be a great father

Hungry for more?

Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #87

We are taught to believe that when we hustle and grind we will become successful and this will make us happy. This is the idea of success and happiness that was taught to us by society.

But what if you were to identify for yourself what will give you that true happiness and life's meaning? What if you chose to break the rules and just do what you love to do?

Letting yourself experience spontaneous fun and just doing what you love is MORE important than living the way society wants you to.

When we inject fun in all areas of our lives, life starts to become more meaningful, business grows a lot faster while doing less and your relationship starts to have a deeper connection and intimacy.

In this episode you will learn :

1. The importance of injecting fun in all areas of your life
2. How to be successful and happy by doing less
3. How to let yourself find life's meaning by breaking the rules and just doing what you love.

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