In this episode, Melissa is back with her Minnesota organizing besties (Missi, Cori, and Kielyn) for an honest conversation about fear, authenticity, mistakes, and doing business scared anyway.

If you've ever:

• Frozen because you were afraid to make the wrong decision

• Stayed in a bad situation because you feared a bad review

• Wondered if you're "professional enough" to be yourself

• Procrastinated something small but important (👀 invoices, SEO, phone calls…)

…we FEEL YOU!

This episode is part mindset reset, part business strategy, part group therapy—with a lot of laughs and very honest moments along the way.

Stay tuned: More episodes (and something brand new for team builders 👀) are coming this week.

🎧 Listen in, and remember: you don't have to be fearless—you just have to keep moving.

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What happens when four professional organizers (who are also actual IRL dear friends) finally manage to get on the same schedule… before 2031? 😅

In this episode, Melissa brings on her Minnesota organizing crew—Missi, Cori, and Kielyn—for the start of a longer, multi-part conversation packed with business talk, mindset shifts, team leadership, and the kind of honesty you only get from friends who've seen each other's mail piles.

You'll hear about:

• Why community is non-negotiable as a professional organizer (and how to find "your people")

• Type A vs. Type B energy… and why "organizing isn't an emergency"

• What actually keeps you excited about this work when you've been doing it for a while

• The "woo" side of goal-setting (manifesting, affirmations) and the practical brain science behind it

• How to lead a team without doing all the things (and why letting go of control is the hardest part)

• Building a business by hiring people who are smarter/better than you at certain things (yes please)

Plus: a New Heights-style intro, professional athlete clients, ADHD-friendly systems, and one organizer whose inbox is so empty it's basically offensive. 😂

Stay tuned: This is part one—more episodes with the full conversation are coming next.

Mentioned in this episode

• Soundtracks by Jon Acuff--one of Melissa's favorite books!

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Timestamps:

01:43 The Importance of Community 02:23 Spotlight on Kielyn and Missi 04:31 Spotlight on Cori 06:37 Organizing Styles and Personalities 09:25 Finding Excitement in Organizing 11:42 Manifestation and Mindset 14:16 The Power of Affirmations: A 30-Day Experiment 14:54 Personal Success Stories: Life-Changing Results 15:26 The Science Behind Writing and Speaking Goals 15:47 Daily Affirmations: A Personal Practice 16:58 The Importance of Positive Self-Talk 18:12 Mental Clutter and the Entrepreneurial Mind 19:31 The Psychological Aspect of Organizing 20:53 Customizing Systems for Clients 22:24 The Role of Teamwork in Organizing 25:23 Trusting Your Own Voice in Business 26:41 Embracing Team Input and Ideas 29:28 Conclusion: Letting Go of Control

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Goal setting doesn't have to feel overwhelming—or soul-sucking.

In this episode, Melissa shares a powerful goal-setting workshop from inside the Inspired Organizer community, led by Cabri. Together, they walk through how to reflect on last year, set goals that actually fit your life and business, and create a plan you'll stick with—without burnout, guilt, or arbitrary pressure.

You'll hear real examples from organizers setting goals around delegation, growth, visibility, and major transitions, plus practical strategies for breaking big goals into doable action.

Whether you love big audacious goals or prefer a safer, steady approach, this episode will help you find a goal-setting style that works for your brain—and your season of life.

Slides referenced in the episode are available at proorganizerstudio.com/links.

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Recap 00:42 Goal Setting Workshop Introduction 03:00 Visualization Exercise and Reflecting on the Past Year 06:34 Setting and Crafting Effective Goals 17:18 Sharing and Discussing Goals 19:40 Mapping the Path to Achieve Goals 23:10 Creating Vision Boards for Motivation 27:33 Personal Reflections and Key People 28:11 Creating and Using Vision Boards 28:29 Tracking and Managing Goals 29:57 Quarterly Planning and Goal Setting 33:04 Staying Focused and Motivated 35:39 Sharing and Encouraging Goals 37:33 Practical Tips and Strategies 51:57 Leveraging AI for Goal Management 53:26 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

This is part 3 of my convo with Kim--if you missed the first two, they're up for you to go back--but in this one, we're talking about how you can (really, you can)--think about your obligations and your electronic life.

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Navigating Business and Personal Challenges: A Conversation with Kim - Part 3

In the third part of this conversation with Kim, the discussion delves into the concept of obligation and the pressures of societal expectations. Kim and Melissa explore various aspects of personal and professional life, including the impact of feeling obligated to do things simply because one is capable of doing them.

They discuss the importance of questioning these obligations and the societal norms that dictate them. The conversation touches on the pressures business owners face, especially around the holiday season, and how it is important to listen to oneself and make decisions that align with personal well-being.

Kim shares her personal experiences and struggles with feeling unfulfilled despite having a seemingly good life and the impact of negative feelings on mental health. They also discuss the adverse effects of social media and the importance of setting personal guidelines. The episode is a candid exploration of personal boundaries, mental health, and the importance of self-awareness and self-care in both business and personal life.

00:31 The Burden of Obligation 02:41 Questioning Life Choices 04:54 Struggles and Realizations 08:40 Finding Balance and Setting Boundaries 17:37 Reflecting on the Past Year 21:54 Family Dynamics and Social Media 22:46 Struggles with Social Media Addiction 23:39 Content Creation Pressure 25:22 The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health 29:15 Navigating Business Without Social Media 32:39 Personal Growth and Reflection 39:39 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

This is part 2 of my conversation with Kim Snodgrass of Rustic Home Organizing--in this episode, we talk about her realizing she needed to make major changes and how she did it.

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Resetting Your Nervous System and Embracing Slow Living: A Conversation with Kim Snodgrass (Part 2)

In this episode, Melissa continues her conversation with Kim Snodgrass, delving into the concepts of dopamine detox and nervous system reset.

They discuss the challenges of disconnecting from technology, the importance of listening to one's body, and discovering personal methods to find calm and simplicity. Kim shares personal anecdotes about embracing slow living activities such as making sourdough, watching cheesy movies, and finding joy in everyday tasks.

Both Melissa and Kim emphasize the importance of not feeling obligated to act according to societal pressures or norms and encourage listeners to creatively carve out a lifestyle that aligns with their personal needs and desires.

00:00 Introduction and Recap 00:52 Dopamine Detox and Personal Journey 03:09 Disconnecting from Technology 05:03 Embracing Slow Living 07:46 Reevaluating Priorities and Self-Care 13:14 Rediscovering Passion for Organizing 13:43 Rediscovering the Love for Organizing 15:33 Balancing Personal and Professional Life 16:44 Permission to Be Creative with Your Life 19:15 Navigating Public Opinion and Personal Choices 21:41 Simplifying Organizing and Business Practices 26:11 The Trap of Obligation

There are few epsiodes each year that get more feedback than when I talk to my friend Kim of Rustic Home Organizing. She's back to kick off 2026 with us and is telling us about her 4th year of organizing, which brought challenges she never envisioned. She has so much to say and I'm excited for you to hear it! ________________________________________________________________________ Navigating Through Trauma and Overwhelm: A Journey with Kim Snodgrass As they kick off the fourth installment of their annual series, Kim shares the intense personal and professional challenges she faced in 2025. Kim opens up about the emotional rollercoaster she experienced, the toll of overcommitting, the impact of social media and electronic influences, and the importance of listening to one's nervous system. The episode concludes with Kim's transformative journey to Montana for a dopamine detox, as she begins to reset her life and business. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview 00:38 Meet Kim Snodgrass: From Baby Organizer to Pro 01:27 Kim's Life-Changing Year 04:24 The Struggles of Organizing a Major Event 07:00 Facing Personal and Professional Challenges 13:19 The Mental Toll of Overthinking 17:56 The Overwhelming Influence of Technology 18:58 The Rollercoaster of Event Planning 20:53 Diving into New Ventures 22:09 The Struggle with Overwhelm 23:41 Meltdown and Recovery 26:04 A Traumatic October 28:50 A Much-Needed Reset in Montana 32:45 Learning to Reset the Nervous System

This podcast is a real one. Cabri and Melissa are talking about burnout, how our phones are making life really hard for everyone, boundaries for 2026, and so much more. We hope this podcast helps you know you're not alone!

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Reflections on 2025: Burnout, Balance, and the Quest for Happiness Melissa shares a reflective and candid podcast discussion about the challenges of 2025, specifically highlighting feelings of burnout and the fast-paced nature of the year. She and her co-host, Cabri, delve into the pressures of modern life, particularly the impact of social media and the struggle to maintain balance. They touch on topics such as setting realistic goals, the importance of self-care, and the need for boundaries. Despite the chaotic year, they stress the importance of leaving room for unexpected opportunities and maintaining a sense of magic in life. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview 01:34 Reflecting on a Challenging Year 02:26 The Pressure of Accomplishments 03:08 Balancing Life and Work 03:54 The Spoon Theory and Mental Load 06:27 Social Media and Perceptions 10:57 Struggles with Self-Care 17:03 Digital Detox and Moderation 24:52 Exploring the Concept of Balance 25:07 Social Media Detox Strategies 25:52 Work-Life Separation Challenges 28:51 Dealing with Burnout 30:50 Setting Boundaries for 2026 37:34 The Importance of Single Tasking 42:02 Reflecting on Goals and Self-Care 46:20 Excitement for the Holidays

The title says it all. It's just 15 minutes of Cabri and me talking about 100 different random things.

Today we have a quick but hopefully impactful episode to help you avoid a common (and expensive) scam in the organizing industry.

Show Notes: The Moving Scam Alert

• [01:07] The Scam Overview

  • Description of the scam email that's been circulating in the organizing industry.
  • Melissa shares her personal experience receiving these emails.

• [01:44] Anatomy of the Scam Email

  • Red flags in the email's language and structure.
  • Overly formal or stilted English, mention of "aesthetic pleasure," and unnecessary state names.

• [03:19] The Emotional Manipulation

  • Scammers claim to be deaf or hearing impaired to avoid phone calls and elicit sympathy.

• [04:26] The Financial Trap

  • The scam involves sending a fraudulent certified check and asking the organizer to pay "movers" or other service providers.

• [05:28] How the Scam Works

  • Explanation of how the organizer ends up losing money after the check bounces.

• [05:41] Increasing Sophistication

  • Scammers are getting more advanced, using real addresses and names found online.

• [06:13] Advice: Ignore and Delete

  • Melissa urges listeners to ignore suspicious emails and not feel obligated to respond.

• [07:07] Trust Your Gut

  • Importance of listening to your instincts, even if it means missing out on a potential client.

• [08:17] Real-Life Example

  • Melissa shares a story about following her gut during a consultation that felt "off."

• [08:53] Don't Feel Guilty

  • It's okay to delete and forget about suspicious inquiries, even if it feels rude.

• [09:25] Business Best Practices

  • Never pay service providers for new clients; only consider it for long-term, trusted clients.

• [09:59] No Shame in Falling for Scams

  • Reassurance for anyone who has been scammed—smart people can fall victim too.

• [10:35] Final Reminders

  • Trust your gut, say no when needed, and don't let scammers win.

• [10:24] Outro

  • Teaser for the next episode and a final message to stay vigilant.

Hey! I'm Melissa...and I have some stuff that will help you.

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