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The Relationship Sabotage Loop (and how to break it)


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If you’ve ever felt like the harder you try with a man, the further he seems to pull away—you’re not imagining it. In this episode, I’m breaking down The Sabotage Loop: the unconscious pattern that keeps high-achieving women chasing men instead of choosing them.

You’ll hear why chasing creates distance, how it keeps you stuck in what I call Problem Structure, and the exact mindset shift to move into Creation Structure—where you become magnetic to emotionally available men who actually want to invest in you.

What You’ll Learn:

  • The real reason chasing creates emotional distance (and it’s not about playing games).
  • The hidden ways high-functioning women “chase” without realizing it.
  • How Problem Structure keeps you looping in the same unsatisfying patterns.
  • What Creation Structure is and why it’s the key to creating the relationship you truly want.
  • The simple shift that stops the loop and puts you back in your power as the chooser.

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Available with Anabell IngletonBy Anabell Ingleton | Feminine Leadership Coach helping women undo masculine patterns & master their femininity.

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