Going through different stages of life and relationships is never easy. It’s easy to break down, fall apart or become numb and completely lose yourself along the way. Lisa Bilyeu has experience with navigating change and transitioning from a traditional supportive housewife to being the badass CEO and Co-founder of Impact Theory she now is. In this episode, Lisa and Tom reflect and share the lessons they’ve stumbled through along the way over the last 19 years of marriage to support Lisa’s awakening. Join them as they deep dive into how to get beyond the surface level arguments, discover the value of your frame of reference, and what it truly means to evolve together to be supportive. The trip is bumpy, a little messy, not as graceful as you may imagine or believe, but the way they are honest and committed to each other makes it successful and worthwhile every time. Check Out Relationship Theory for solid relationship advice at every stage: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtHuUTWVRHUXVjmRrvS8WYg 

SHOW NOTES:

0:00 | Introduction Lisa Bilyeu

2:36 | Why Love Isn’t Enough

3:24 | The Gap Between Love & Divorce

4:43 | Change Impacting Relationships

6:03 | Not Understanding Each Other

7:16 | Surface Level Arguments

10:15 | Find the Frame of Reference

16:46 | Preparing for Disruptive Changes

22:04 | Self Soothing Through Change

23:06 | Embracing Change Together

30:42 | Evolving Plans Call for Change

31:58 | When Personality Changes

39:02 | Making The Transitions Work

42:02 | Pivot from CEO To Cuddly Wife

45:23 | What You Need vs. Want

48:35 | Power In Being Needed

52:18 | Why You Have To Communicate

57:18 | Emphasis of Feelings

1:01:28 | Own Your Triggers & Insecurities 

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