The Sex Doctors

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some women cheat through an evolutionary lens, how parenting can dull desire, and simple ways couples can rekindle passion while staying connected. 00:09 Discussing the Article: Why Women Cheat: They talk about a study on why some women cheat. 00:49 Evolutionary Perspective on Cheating: From a science view, some marry "good dads" but seek excitement elsewhere. 02:47 Parenting and Sexual Dynamics: Raising kids can make life less romantic and lower desire. 05:33 Rekindling Passion in Long-Term Relationships: Make space, try new things, and rebuild closeness step by step. 15:29 Conclusion and Recommendations: Most women still prefer their partner; talk openly and try the tips. Resources: Murphy, M., Phillips, C. A., & Blake, K. R. (2024). Why women cheat: Testing evolutionary hypotheses for female infidelity in a multinational sample. Evolution and Human Behavior, 45(5), 106595. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2024.106595 Brandon, M. (2014). Unlocking the sexy in surrender: Using the neuroscience of power to recharge your sex life [Kindle eBook]. Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HS9FNMQ With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #EvolutionaryPsychology #RelationshipPassion #InfidelityStudies

In this episode Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the Match.com Singles in America survey with the Kinsey Institute, exploring how modern singles view sex, porn, love, and relationships across generations. 00:14 Match.com Survey Insights — Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss key findings from the Singles in America survey with over 75,000 participants. 06:02 Singles' Beliefs and Relationship Expectations — They explore statistics on porn use, emotional disconnects, and the belief in "one true love." 12:49 Rising Trends in Marriage and Singlehood — The doctors highlight how rates of never-married adults and sexless marriages are reshaping social norms. 17:21 The Role of Sexual Chemistry and Cultural Shifts — They reflect on why 90% of singles prioritize chemistry and how media and porn influence expectations. 20:12 Gen Z's Unique Perspectives on Relationships — They unpack Gen Z's conservative stance on sex, intentional celibacy, and uncertainty about long-term commitments. Resources: Match and The Kinsey Institute (2025). Singles in America: 14th annual study. Match Group. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DatingTrends #RelationshipInsights #SexualBehaviorSurvey

In this episode Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about whether the time of day really matters for testosterone testing, challenging the old "only in the morning" rule and showing how real-world evidence proves it makes little difference. 00:43 Debating Testosterone Testing Times – The doctors question the long-standing rule that testosterone must be tested in the morning. 04:56 Research Findings and Implications – A large study shows no real difference between morning and afternoon testosterone levels. 14:36 Understanding Testosterone Levels and Libido – They explain that libido doesn't rise and fall with small shifts in testosterone throughout the day. 15:20 Challenges with Testosterone Testing Protocols – Insurance rules forcing two morning tests create unnecessary hurdles for patients. 18:02 Debunking Myths and Practical Advice – The doctors stress that symptoms and context matter more than rigid numbers on a lab sheet. Resources: Novaes, L. F., Flores, J. M., Benfante, N., Schofield, E., Katz, D. J., Nelson, C. J., & Mulhall, J. P. (2024). Analysis of diurnal variation in serum testosterone levels in men with symptoms of testosterone deficiency. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 21(5), 408–413. https://doi.org/10.1093/jsxmed/qdae026 Crawford, E. D. (1997). Prostate Cancer Awareness Week: September 22 to 28, 1997. CA: A Cancer Journal for Clinicians, 47(5), 288–296. https://doi.org/10.3322/canjclin.47.5.288 Mulhall, J. P., Trost, L. W., Brannigan, R. E., Kurtz, E. G., Redmon, J. B., Chiles, K. A., Lightner, D. J., Miner, M. M., Murad, M. H., Nelson, C. J., Platz, E. A., Ramanathan, L. V., & Lewis, R. W. (2018; valid through 2024). Evaluation and management of testosterone deficiency: AUA guideline. The Journal of Urology, 200, 423. https://www.auanet.org/guidelines-and-quality/guidelines/testosterone-deficiency-guideline Morgentaler, A., et al. (2015). Fundamental concepts regarding testosterone deficiency and treatment: International expert consensus. Mayo Clinic Proceedings. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTesting #DiurnalVariation #HealthInsuranceRules

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how technology is reshaping intimacy, friendships, and sex, warning that without mindful effort to connect in person, future generations may default to tech over human relationships. 00:07 The Impact of Technology on Human Interaction – They explore how our shift from face-to-face contact to device time is changing the way we relate to each other. 01:07 Screen Time and Human Connection – They share personal stories about shocking screen-time stats and how constant device use is eroding real-life connection. 03:53 Intimacy with Technology – They explain how people are forming emotional and sexual bonds with chatbots and other tech, often feeling lonelier in the long run. 05:30 The Rise of Non-Human Romance – They discuss younger generations' growing preference for fantasy and non-human partners in porn and romance media. 12:55 The Future of Human Relationships – They predict that without mindful action, more people will choose tech-based intimacy over real partners, altering human connection as we know it. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TechImpactOnIntimacy #ShiftInRomanticPreferences #PreservingHumanInteraction

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how testosterone can, in the right patients, be an effective solo treatment for erectile dysfunction despite common medical guidelines saying otherwise. 00:06 Testosterone and Erectile Dysfunction: The Debate – They kick things off by questioning the common belief that testosterone alone can't fix ED. 00:54 Understanding the Traverse Study – They break down why a big study seemed to show testosterone doesn't help erections—and why its results are misleading. 03:20 The Role of Testosterone in Erections – They explain how testosterone, nerves, and blood flow all have to work together for healthy erections. 08:59 Clinical Insights and Patient Experiences – Dr. Morgentaler shares real-world stories of men whose ED improved dramatically once their testosterone levels were restored. 19:43 Conclusion and Final Thoughts – They wrap up by stressing that while guidelines matter, treating each patient as an individual is the real key. Resources - TRAVERSE Study Bhasin, S., Snyder, P. J., Cunningham, G. R., Matsumoto, A. M., Stephens-Shields, A. J., Cauley, J. A., Gill, T. M., Barrett-Connor, E., Swerdloff, R. S., Wang, C., Ensrud, K. E., Lewis, C. E., Budoff, M. J., Cohen, B., Pahor, M., Kenny, A. M., & Ellenberg, S. S. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 The Testosterone Trials (2016) Snyder, P. J., Bhasin, S., Cunningham, G. R., Matsumoto, A. M., Stephens-Shields, A. J., Cauley, J. A., Gill, T. M., Barrett-Connor, E., Swerdloff, R. S., Wang, C., Ensrud, K. E., Lewis, C. E., Hou, X., Hou, X., Budoff, M. J., Ellenberg, S. S., & The Testosterone Trials Investigators. (2016). Effects of testosterone treatment in older men. The New England Journal of Medicine, 374(7), 611–624. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa1506119 2018 American Urological Association Guidelines on Erectile Dysfunction Burnett, A. L., Nehra, A., Breau, R. H., Culkin, D. J., Faraday, M. M., Hakim, L. S., Heidelbaugh, J. J., Khera, M., Kirkby, E., McVary, K. T., Miner, M. M., Nelson, C. J., Sadovsky, R., Seftel, A. D., Shindel, A. W., & SOP Committee. (2018). Erectile dysfunction: AUA guideline. The Journal of Urology, 200(3), 633–641. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.juro.2018.05.004 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneAndED #TestosteroneTherapy #UnderstandingED

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how keeping both tender lovemaking and raw, passionate sex in a relationship is essential for long-term intimacy, excitement, and connection. 00:18 Discussing Creative Sex Life Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explore why variety and creativity keep intimacy exciting over time. 01:23 The Importance of Language in Sex They explain how specific words shape understanding and emotional impact in intimacy. 02:38 Defining Different Types of Sex They break down the differences between lovemaking, sex, and raw, passionate encounters. 08:03 Challenges in Modern Relationships They address how porn and technology can pull primal energy away from partnerships. 15:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts They emphasize that balancing tenderness and passion is key to lasting connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #HealthyIntimacy #RelationshipDynamics #SexualExpression

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about low libido in men, and how psychological, physical, and emotional factors can all play a role in a guy's desire—or lack thereof. 00:22 – Understanding Low Libido in Men Low libido means not feeling the urge for sex, even if everything seems physically fine. 10:23 – Psychological and Physical Factors Stress, depression, meds, or low testosterone can all mess with a guy's sex drive. 15:41 – Understanding Delayed Side Effects of Medications Some meds don't kill your libido right away—it can take weeks or even months. 16:54 – Exploring Low Libido and Testosterone Levels Doctors check testosterone if libido's low, but it's not always the full story. 18:30 – Addressing Psychological and Emotional Factors Feeling disconnected, stuck, or unhappy in life can tank your desire without you realizing it. In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about low libido in men, and how psychological, physical, and emotional factors can all play a role in a guy's desire—or lack thereof. 00:22 – Understanding Low Libido in Men Low libido means not feeling the urge for sex, even if everything seems physically fine. 10:23 – Psychological and Physical Factors Stress, depression, meds, or low testosterone can all mess with a guy's sex drive. 15:41 – Understanding Delayed Side Effects of Medications Some meds don't kill your libido right away—it can take weeks or even months. 16:54 – Exploring Low Libido and Testosterone Levels Doctors check testosterone if libido's low, but it's not always the full story. 18:30 – Addressing Psychological and Emotional Factors Feeling disconnected, stuck, or unhappy in life can tank your desire without you realizing it. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some men fake orgasms, what causes it, how common it actually is, and how emotional pressure, physical challenges, and even kindness can all play a role. 00:50 – The Case of the Young Man A young man starts faking orgasms to avoid hurting his girlfriend's feelings when he can't climax during sex. 04:20 – Understanding Male Orgasm Challenges Some men struggle to orgasm during intercourse, even though they can climax through masturbation. 12:40 – Understanding Early Sexual Experiences How a guy learns to masturbate early on can shape how his body responds to sex later in life. 15:48 – The Ethics of Faking Orgasms Faking orgasms might seem harmless, but over time it can damage trust and intimacy in a relationship. 24:03 – The Impact of Technology on Sexual Relationships With rising pressure around sex, more people are turning to tech and sex toys for no-stress satisfaction. In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some men fake orgasms, what causes it, how common it actually is, and how emotional pressure, physical challenges, and even kindness can all play a role. 00:50 – The Case of the Young Man A young man starts faking orgasms to avoid hurting his girlfriend's feelings when he can't climax during sex. 04:20 – Understanding Male Orgasm Challenges Some men struggle to orgasm during intercourse, even though they can climax through masturbation. 12:40 – Understanding Early Sexual Experiences How a guy learns to masturbate early on can shape how his body responds to sex later in life. 15:48 – The Ethics of Faking Orgasms Faking orgasms might seem harmless, but over time it can damage trust and intimacy in a relationship. 24:03 – The Impact of Technology on Sexual Relationships With rising pressure around sex, more people are turning to tech and sex toys for no-stress satisfaction. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler have a special guest, Patience, on their podcast—they talk about how working in gentleman's clubs has shaped her confidence, challenged stereotypes, and revealed the complex ways technology is changing intimacy, connection, and sexuality. 00:00 – Intro and First Guest Announcement Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler introduce Patience, their very first guest, bringing a fresh, personal perspective from inside the gentleman's club world. 00:38 – Patience's Journey into the Gentleman's Club Industry Patience shares how curiosity and a spontaneous audition in London led to a decade-long, empowering career across the U.S. and U.K. 02:30 – Impact of Technology on the Industry She reflects on how tech has made human interactions feel more superficial, changing the energy and dynamics in clubs and dating. 16:53 – Debunking Misconceptions About the Industry Patience challenges the idea that working in clubs is degrading, emphasizing choice, dignity, and the humanity behind the role. 17:43 – Empowerment and Skills Gained She explains how the job taught her communication, patience, emotional intelligence, and self-respect—skills she'll carry for life. 20:30 – Navigating Relationships and Sexuality Patience opens up about owning her sexuality, setting boundaries, and how the job helped her better understand intimacy and emotional connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexIndustryInsights #TechImpactOnDancing #EmpowermentInStripping

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how advances in sex tech are blurring the lines of infidelity, making it harder for couples to agree on what counts as cheating—and why open, ongoing conversations are more important than ever. 00:00 – Intro to Modern Infidelity Dr. Brandon opens the conversation by exploring how technology is complicating traditional views on what it means to be unfaithful. 00:53 – Defining Cheating in the Digital Age She breaks down how behaviors like sexting with chatbots or forming emotional bonds with AI blur the lines of infidelity. 01:31 – The Impact of VR Porn Dr. Brandon explains how VR porn creates a deeper sense of intimacy and physiological response compared to traditional porn. 03:11 – Gender Differences in Perceptions She highlights that men tend to be more lenient than women when it comes to defining cheating through sex tech. 04:06 – The Importance of Communication Dr. Brandon urges couples to have open conversations about boundaries, even if they disagree, to avoid silent assumptions. 05:13 – Finding Compromises and Solutions She encourages couples to explore compromises and possibly integrate sex tech together, fostering connection instead of conflict. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexTech #DigitalInfidelity #RelationshipCommunication