The Sex Doctors

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what it means when you still want sex—but not with your partner—and how honesty, biology, and effort can help bring the spark back. 02:21 – The Monogamy Problem Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain how our biology craves variety, making lifelong monogamy a challenge for many couples. 06:36 – Revitalizing Desire in Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain that rebuilding desire takes honesty, effort, and a willingness from both partners to grow. 13:26 – Engaging in Relationship Activities They encourage couples to do fun, shared activities together to strengthen their emotional and physical connection. 15:48 – Understanding Mammalian Sexual Behavior Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain how human sexuality is driven by primal instincts—and how couples can tap into that to reignite intimacy. 20:30 – Addressing Sexual Disinterest and Jealousy They explore how disinterest can shift when partners communicate clearly—and even how jealousy can help spark desire again. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexlessMarriages #RekindlingDesire #CommunicationInRelationships

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how women can reconnect with their desire by exploring touch, fantasy, and understanding that female arousal often kicks in even when the brain isn't fully on board. 00:39 – Touch and Self-Discovery Dr. Brandon encourages women to spend time alone, reconnecting with their bodies through gentle, intentional touch. 01:01 – Experimenting with Sex Toys She recommends trying different types of vibrators to explore what feels good and reawaken physical pleasure. 01:55 – The Role of Fantasy in Arousal Dr. Brandon shares that many women lose interest in their usual fantasies, and encourages exploring new ones without judgment. 03:12 – Understanding Female Arousal Research She explains research showing that women's bodies often respond to a wide range of stimuli—even those they don't mentally find sexy. 05:45 – Applying Research to Personal Experience Dr. Brandon suggests focusing on what your body feels—not what your brain thinks—to help rediscover desire. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #FemaleSexualHealth #SelfDiscovery #ExploringFantasy

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss the emotional and physical misunderstandings men often have about women's sexuality, and how clearer communication, confidence, and slowing down can lead to deeper connection and better sex. 00:49 Understanding the Double Binds in Sexual Dynamics Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler unpack the mixed messages men receive when asked to lead, yet told they're doing it wrong. 03:23 The Importance of Nonverbal Communication They explain how tone, touch, and subtle cues often speak louder than words during intimacy. 06:06 Empowering Men in the Bedroom They highlight how confidence, posture, and emotional presence help men reconnect with their sexual power. 09:12 Sexual Rules and Boundaries They explore how sexual "rules" can reflect disconnection and frustration—and how couples can work through them. 18:10 Practical Tips for Improving Sexual Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler offer actionable advice to slow down, build safety, and foster deeper intimacy between partners. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #UnderstandingFemaleSexuality #ImprovingIntimacy #ModernDatingChallenges

In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses three powerful books that help you grow emotionally, deepen connection, and ultimately become a better lover—because great sex starts with self-awareness. 00:07 The Importance of Emotional Self-Awareness Dr. Brandon explains how understanding your own emotions helps you connect more deeply with your partner. 01:18 Book 1: On Self-Hatred by The School of Life A short, powerful read that explores self-criticism, people-pleasing, and how it impacts intimacy. 03:00 Book 2: Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life by James Hollis A thoughtful guide full of wisdom and journaling prompts to help navigate personal growth at any age. 04:06 Book 3: A Billion Wicked Thoughts A fascinating look at sexual desires and fantasies, showing just how diverse and normal they really are. 06:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Dr. Brandon encourages listeners to read, reflect, and share these books as tools for better relationships and self-understanding. Resources On Self-Hatred – The School of Life Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life – James Hollis A Billion Wicked Thoughts – Ogi Ogas & Sai Gaddam With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfUnderstanding #PersonalGrowth

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler break down the myth that testosterone therapy causes blood clots and explain why the science says it doesn't. 00:05 Media Interaction on Testosterone Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about reviewing a media graphic on testosterone benefits and risks. 00:47 Understanding Erythrocytosis and Clots They explain how high red blood cell counts don't always mean higher risk for clots. 02:10 Testosterone Therapy and Red Blood Cell Count Testosterone can raise red blood cells—but that doesn't mean it causes harm. 03:26 Debating the Risks of Testosterone They share how major studies show testosterone does not raise clot or heart risks. 16:51 Conclusion and Takeaways The big takeaway: testosterone therapy does not cause blood clots. Resources: Mayo Clinic Proceedings Article: Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., ... Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 TRAVERSE Study (NEJM): Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., ... Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #BloodClotMyths #HealthMisunderstandings

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss how self-reflection, emotional honesty, and open conversations about sex and respect can help partners improve their relationships and deepen intimacy. 00:10 Self-Reflection in Relationships Dr. Brandon talks about the importance of asking yourself what kind of partner you really are. 04:08 Challenges and Solutions in Partner Dynamics They explain how trying too hard to please your partner can lead to loss of respect and problems in the relationship. 18:33 Addressing Relationship Dynamics The discussion shows how small issues grow when partners don't speak up about feeling ignored or undervalued. 20:02 Sexual Intimacy in Relationships They break down how to bring up sexual wants in a respectful way that opens the door for better connection. 24:10 Effective Communication in Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler stress that real progress comes from ongoing, honest, and kind conversations. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #RelationshipAdvice #SexualHealth #EmotionalIntimacy

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about open relationships—what they really look like, why some couples explore them, and how strong communication and clear rules can make or break the experience. 00:16 Understanding Open Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what open relationships really are—and how they mean different things to different couples. 00:39 Common Misconceptions and Realities They clear up the idea that open relationships are just about sleeping around, and share what they actually look like for most people. 02:21 Challenges and Dynamics in Open Relationships The doctors talk about how things like gender, expectations, and life experience can shape how people feel about opening up their relationship. 05:37 Exploring Rules and Boundaries They explain how couples often start with small steps, and why it's important for both people—especially the more hesitant one—to feel safe and set clear rules. 19:46 Final Thoughts and Takeaways The episode ends with the reminder that open relationships aren't for everyone, but honest conversations—even playful ones—can bring couples closer. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #OpenRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #GenderDynamics

This episode breaks down why monogamy can be tough for some folks and reminds us how important it is to keep talking with your partner along the way. 00:40 Genetic Factors in Monogamy Some research suggests our comfort with monogamy might be partly wired into our genes, like it is with certain animals. 01:33 Personality Traits and Monogamy Traits like being extroverted, super agreeable, or thrill-seeking can make sticking to one partner more challenging for some people. 02:42 Environmental Influences on Monogamy Being surrounded by attractive people—like in certain jobs—can make staying monogamous take more effort. 03:29 Living Life to the Fullest: A Challenge to Monogamy Some people struggle with monogamy simply because they want to explore life and all its experiences while they can. 04:15 Communication and Problem Solving in Monogamy Having honest, regular conversations with your partner is key to keeping monogamy strong and avoiding future problems. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MonogamyChallenges #RelationshipCommunication #GeneticsAndPersonalityTraits

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler get real about what makes someone a great lover—and it's not about perfection, it's about being present, giving, and actually feeling connected in your body and with your partner. 00:19 The Concept of a Great Lover Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler kick things off by asking, "Would you want to make love to yourself?"—and unpack what it really means to be a great lover. 04:13 Challenges and Misunderstandings in Sexual Relationships They dive into common issues couples face in bed, from mixed signals to unmet needs, and how much of it comes down to miscommunication. 12:36 Understanding the Male Perspective Dr. Morgentaler opens up about how many men want to be great lovers but feel lost when nothing they try seems to work. 15:49 The Importance of Embodiment The doctors talk about how being "in your body" (not just your head) is key to great sex—and how tech and stress are pulling people away from that. 21:21 Practical Tips for Better Intimacy They share real, doable ways for both men and women to reconnect with their bodies and each other—including touch, movement, and slowing down. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexualCommunication #EmbodiedIntimacy #RelationshipAdvice

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon talks about how technology is moving fast—but reminds us that real love, connection, and kindness are things only humans can truly offer, and it's time we focus on doing more of that every day. 00:45 The Role of Technology in Relationships Dr. Brandon explores how technology now mimics love and intimacy, competing with real emotional and sexual connection. 01:33 Human Connection vs. Technological Interaction She warns that if we're not mindful, we may let machines replace the depth and beauty of human relationships. 01:59 Embracing Authentic Human Love Dr. Brandon reminds us that unlike tech, we have the power to love deeply and meaningfully—emotionally and physically. 02:56 Acts of Love in Everyday Life Simple gestures—like listening, smiling, or being present—can be powerful acts of love that strengthen real human bonds. 03:34 Preparing the Next Generation She stresses the importance of talking to kids about sex, porn, and tech so they grow up informed and grounded. 05:18 Conclusion: Cultivating Human Acts of Love Dr. Brandon closes by urging us all to take responsibility for keeping love human—through kindness, presence, and daily connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TechnologyImpact #HumanConnection #RealLove