This episode breaks down why monogamy can be tough for some folks and reminds us how important it is to keep talking with your partner along the way. 00:40 Genetic Factors in Monogamy Some research suggests our comfort with monogamy might be partly wired into our genes, like it is with certain animals. 01:33 Personality Traits and Monogamy Traits like being extroverted, super agreeable, or thrill-seeking can make sticking to one partner more challenging for some people. 02:42 Environmental Influences on Monogamy Being surrounded by attractive people—like in certain jobs—can make staying monogamous take more effort. 03:29 Living Life to the Fullest: A Challenge to Monogamy Some people struggle with monogamy simply because they want to explore life and all its experiences while they can. 04:15 Communication and Problem Solving in Monogamy Having honest, regular conversations with your partner is key to keeping monogamy strong and avoiding future problems. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MonogamyChallenges #RelationshipCommunication #GeneticsAndPersonalityTraits

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler get real about what makes someone a great lover—and it's not about perfection, it's about being present, giving, and actually feeling connected in your body and with your partner. 00:19 The Concept of a Great Lover Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler kick things off by asking, "Would you want to make love to yourself?"—and unpack what it really means to be a great lover. 04:13 Challenges and Misunderstandings in Sexual Relationships They dive into common issues couples face in bed, from mixed signals to unmet needs, and how much of it comes down to miscommunication. 12:36 Understanding the Male Perspective Dr. Morgentaler opens up about how many men want to be great lovers but feel lost when nothing they try seems to work. 15:49 The Importance of Embodiment The doctors talk about how being "in your body" (not just your head) is key to great sex—and how tech and stress are pulling people away from that. 21:21 Practical Tips for Better Intimacy They share real, doable ways for both men and women to reconnect with their bodies and each other—including touch, movement, and slowing down. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexualCommunication #EmbodiedIntimacy #RelationshipAdvice

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon talks about how technology is moving fast—but reminds us that real love, connection, and kindness are things only humans can truly offer, and it's time we focus on doing more of that every day. 00:45 The Role of Technology in Relationships Dr. Brandon explores how technology now mimics love and intimacy, competing with real emotional and sexual connection. 01:33 Human Connection vs. Technological Interaction She warns that if we're not mindful, we may let machines replace the depth and beauty of human relationships. 01:59 Embracing Authentic Human Love Dr. Brandon reminds us that unlike tech, we have the power to love deeply and meaningfully—emotionally and physically. 02:56 Acts of Love in Everyday Life Simple gestures—like listening, smiling, or being present—can be powerful acts of love that strengthen real human bonds. 03:34 Preparing the Next Generation She stresses the importance of talking to kids about sex, porn, and tech so they grow up informed and grounded. 05:18 Conclusion: Cultivating Human Acts of Love Dr. Brandon closes by urging us all to take responsibility for keeping love human—through kindness, presence, and daily connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TechnologyImpact #HumanConnection #RealLove

In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down the real reasons behind porn-related erectile dysfunction, explaining why the problem often starts with anxiety—not porn. 00:00 – Does Porn Cause Erectile Dysfunction? Dr. Brandon opens with a common question from clients—does porn actually cause ED?—and sets out to clear the air. 00:27 – Understanding Erectile Dysfunction and Research Quality She explains why not all studies are created equal, and how bad research online can lead to big misunderstandings. 01:33 – The Chicken and Egg Dilemma Often, ED came first—guys already dealing with anxiety or shame may just blame porn because it's easier to point the finger. 02:20 – Emotional and Psychological Factors From body image to relationship stress, Dr. Brandon breaks down how emotional baggage can quietly mess with arousal. 04:16 – Impact of Masturbation Habits Getting used to porn and solo routines can throw you off when it comes to real-life intimacy with a partner. 05:51 – Conclusion and Advice If something feels off, don't jump to conclusions—understanding the real cause is the first step toward fixing it. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ErectileDysfunction #PornAndSexualHealth #UnderstandingArousalIssues

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about why fewer people are getting into relationships, touching on politics, independence, and the rise of AI as a substitute for real connection. 01:34 – The Impact of Political Differences on Relationships Dating today feels harder because politics are turning potential partners into enemies before we even get to know them. 09:52 – AI and the Future of Relationships With AI chatbots offering comfort on demand, more people are turning to screens instead of real human connection—and it's changing everything. 13:17 – The Importance of Human Connection Even though relationships take work, nothing replaces the emotional, physical, and soul-level support that comes from being truly seen by another person. 14:51 – Combating Loneliness and Depression The more we isolate, the more we spiral—loneliness feeds depression, and the only real way out is reaching out to someone who cares. 20:48 – Balancing Masculinity and Femininity in Relationships For relationships to feel alive and exciting, we need to embrace our differences—strength, softness, backbone, and tenderness all have a place. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #RelationshipAvoidance #DigitalLoneliness #RealIntimacy

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon unpack the myth that eunuchs never get prostate cancer and reveal how powerful stories—not science—shaped decades of medical belief about testosterone. 00:07 – The Story of Testosterone and Prostate Cancer In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how the belief that testosterone causes prostate cancer became so widely accepted—even without real evidence. 01:52 – Understanding Eunuchs and Historical Context They explain who eunuchs were and how their story got tied to prostate cancer in a way that stuck for decades. 05:43 – The Castrati and Misconceptions Dr. Morgentaler shares how the story of the castrati singers was used to support a medical myth, even though there was no real data behind it. 06:56 – Modern Research and Findings They walk through what today's research actually shows, including cases where people with little or no testosterone still developed prostate cancer. 14:19 – Conclusions and Reflections They wrap up by reminding us how powerful stories can shape beliefs—even in medicine—and why it's so important to keep questioning what we think we know. Resources: Morgentaler, A., & Caliber, M. (2019). Safety of testosterone therapy in men with prostate cancer. Expert Opinion on Drug Safety, 18(11), 1065–1076. https://doi.org/10.1080/14740338.2019.1666103​ Gooren, L., & Lips, P. (2014). Conjectures concerning cross-sex hormone treatment of aging transsexual persons. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 11(8), 2012–2019. https://doi.org/10.1111/jsm.12563 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ProstateCancerMyths #TestosteroneAndCancer #MedicalMisconceptions

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how keeping sex exciting isn't just about trying new things—it's about learning the emotional skill of lovemaking and the raw intensity of fucking, and why mastering both can truly transform your relationship. 00:54 – Dual Skills: Love Making and Fucking Dr. Brandon introduces the idea that keeping sex exciting means developing both emotional and physical intimacy as distinct but essential skills. 01:21 – Mastering Love Making She explains how true lovemaking comes from the heart—using emotion, eye contact, and vulnerability to deepen connection. 03:01 – Mastering Fucking She dives into the raw, body-driven side of sex, where showing desire openly becomes its own powerful form of intimacy. 04:18 – Balancing Both for Excitement Dr. Brandon emphasizes that long-term sexual fulfillment comes from practicing and switching between both styles. 07:41 – Practical Tips and Conclusion She offers practical ways to get started, encouraging couples to build comfort slowly, stay emotionally present, and keep things playful. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #CouplesIntimacy #SexualSatisfaction #BalancingLoveAndDesire

In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down why it's time for parents to have honest, compassionate conversations with their kids about porn—because chances are, they've already seen it. 00:31 – Shocking Statistics on Kids and Porn She shares eye-opening stats on just how young—and how often—kids are being exposed to porn, often in places parents least expect. 02:29 – The Impact of Porn on Adolescent Brains Dr. Brandon explains how adolescent brains are rewired by what they see—and why porn can have a deeper impact than you think. 04:45 – Intentional vs. Accidental Exposure She breaks down how much of this exposure is accidental—and why that matters even more than you might assume. 06:38 – Aggressive Content and Its Effects Half the content kids see includes violence or pain, shaping harmful beliefs about what sex "should" look like. 09:03 – Parental Guidance and Taking Action Dr. Brandon urges parents to stop avoiding the topic and gives a first step for starting the porn talk with compassion, not shame. Resources: Robb, M. B., & Mann, S. (2022). Teens and pornography. Common Sense Media. https://www.commonsensemedia.org/research/teens-and-pornography​ With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ParentingAdvice #PornEducation #HealthySexuality

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the FDA finally reversing its stance on testosterone risks, what that means for heart health, and why it's a big win for science—and for patients. 00:07 – FDA's New Stance on Testosterone In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon unpack the FDA's surprising move to ease its warning on testosterone—and why it's such a big deal. 00:46 – Understanding the Black Box Warning They explain what a black box warning really means and how it ended up on testosterone products in the first place. 03:22 – Testosterone and Cardiovascular Health The doctors dive into new research showing testosterone may not just be safe—it could actually help protect the heart. 09:15 – FDA's Role and Influence They explore how the FDA shapes medical decisions, where it gets things right, and where it might be holding us back. 15:53 – Testosterone Treatments for Women Finally, they touch on the frustrating lack of approved testosterone options for women—and why it's time that changed. Resources: Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., Li, X., Yi, T., Huang, B., Pencina, K. M., Travison, T. G., & Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025​ With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #FDAUpdates #HeartHealth

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how age differences in heterosexual relationships—especially when the man is older—can support emotional balance, sexual compatibility, and long-term connection. 00:10 Discussing Age Differences in Relationships Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon dive into why age gaps—especially older man, younger woman—are a hot and often misunderstood topic. 00:48 Personal Experiences with Age Differences Dr. Morgentaler shares how his own happy marriage with a younger partner adds personal insight to the conversation. 02:08 Evolutionary Psychology and Sexual Relevance They explain how biology and societal norms make men stay "sexually relevant" longer, shaping relationship dynamics. 08:53 Leadership Dynamics in Age-Different Relationships Age gaps often create natural leadership roles that help reduce tension and bring clarity to long-term partnerships. 16:55 Conclusion and Subscription Call The doctors wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to subscribe for more real, relatable talk on relationships and sex. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #AgeGapRelationships #RelationshipDynamics #LongTermCompatibility