In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses why men tend to have a higher sex drive than women in long-term relationships—and how biology, emotional patterns, and relationship dynamics all play a role. 00:41 Research and Misconceptions Dr. Brandon breaks down how common beliefs about equal sex drives aren't backed by actual research. 01:56 Impact of Relationship Duration She explains how women's sex drive often drops in long-term relationships, even if it was high early on. 04:36 Dual Control Model of Sexual Desire The model shows how desire depends on a balance between what turns someone on and what shuts them down. 05:49 Inhibitory and Excitatory Factors Women tend to have more things that reduce desire and fewer that boost it—especially over time. 11:37 Understanding and Improving Intimacy Dr. Brandon emphasizes that couples aren't stuck—understanding these dynamics can help rebuild connection. Resources: Bancroft, J., & Janssen, E. (2000). The dual control model of male sexual response: A theoretical approach to centrally mediated erectile dysfunction. Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews, 24(5), 571–579. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0149-7634(00)00024-5 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexDriveDifferences #LongTermRelationships #SexualDesireUnderstanding

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about the hidden sexism in how we view male sexual dysfunction—and why showing more compassion and understanding could be the key to healthier intimacy and human connection. 00:25 – Understanding Erectile Dysfunction Dr. Brandon explains why we shame men for something biological, while ignoring how crucial arousal is to their ability to even participate in sex. 02:31 – Premature Ejaculation: A Double Standard She calls out the unfairness—when women orgasm quickly, it's praised; when men do, they're blamed. 03:40 – Delayed Ejaculation: Misconceptions and Bias Dr. Brandon highlights how men struggling to orgasm are judged harshly, while women in the same situation are offered empathy and space. 04:56 – The Impact of Sexism on Men's Mental Health She shows how these double standards fuel shame, anxiety, and avoidance in men, often pushing them further into isolation. 05:44 – The Role of Sex Tech in Modern Relationships With tech offering pleasure without judgment, Dr. Brandon warns that if we don't change the conversation, human connection might lose the race. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MaleSexualDysfunction #SexismInSexuality #SexTech

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about the controversy and complexity behind compulsive sexual behavior disorder—why it's hard to define, what fuels it, and why personalized treatment is key to real healing. 00:13 – Controversy and Definitions Dr. Brandon unpacks why even experts can't agree on what to call compulsive sexual behavior—and why that really matters for those seeking help. 00:56 – Defining Compulsive Behavior She tackles the tricky question: how much is too much when it comes to sex, porn, or masturbation? 01:46 – Pornography and Masturbation Statistics Dr. Brandon shares surprising stats that reveal just how common these behaviors are—and why that complicates the conversation. 02:55 – Underlying Causes of Compulsive Behavior She breaks down the real drivers behind compulsive sexual behavior—from depression and ADHD to personality traits and emotional avoidance. 05:46 – Treatment Approaches and Challenges Dr. Brandon explains why treatment isn't one-size-fits-all—healing often means digging deep, finding the root causes, and combining therapy with medication. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #CompulsiveSexualBehavior #SexualHealthAwareness #MentalHealthTreatment

With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how women can create sexual tension by showing up with openness and confidence—because great sex needs that balance of strength and vulnerability. 00:03 – The Strength in Vulnerability Dr. Brandon explains that true vulnerability isn't weakness—it's a powerful way to connect and feel more in tune with your body. 00:07 – Cultivating Openness: Practical Tips She encourages women to explore what openness feels like and find safe, simple ways to reconnect with that part of themselves. 00:13 – Exploring Hip Opener Poses Using yoga hip-opener poses is one tool she recommends to physically and emotionally practice being open and relaxed. 00:42 – Practicing Vulnerability Alone Dr. Brandon suggests practicing this kind of openness alone first, so it feels more natural and enjoyable with a partner. 00:52 – Conclusion: Manifesting Sensual Openness She closes by saying the goal is to bring that sensual, open energy into your daily life—not just in bed—to build real intimacy. #SexualTension #RelationshipAdvice #WomenEmpowerment

With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how women in long-term relationships can reignite desire by getting in tune with their bodies and putting in small, daily effort—because waiting for it to magically come back usually doesn't work. 00:42 – Common Concerns and Initial Solutions Dr. Brandon explains that many women love their partner but feel a lack of desire, and suggests checking hormones or trying medication as a first step. 01:24 – Understanding Human Nature and Desire She shares that losing desire over time is normal—our biology isn't wired for lifelong passion with one partner. 02:37 – Practical Tips to Rekindle Desire To spark desire, she recommends exploring what turns you on and giving your body daily reminders of sex in a fun, low-pressure way. 03:46 – Effort and Mindfulness in Sexual Desire Dr. Brandon emphasizes that reigniting desire takes time and effort—mindfulness can help you stay connected during sex. 05:27 – Conclusion and Encouragement She encourages women to let go of guilt, embrace the process, and see desire as something worth investing in for themselves and their relationships. #SexualDesire #LongTermRelationships #RekindlingPassion

In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down how men can become more compelling to women—not through money or looks, but by mastering presence, eye contact, body posture, and speaking with grounded intention to build deep emotional and sexual connection. 00:31 – The Power of Presence and Attention: Dr. Brandon explains how just being fully present and focused can make a man way more attractive to women. 01:08 – Mastering Eye Contact and Body Language: Learn how to stand strong, stay grounded, and use eye contact that makes her feel truly seen. 02:40 – Deep Communication: Speaking from Within: Instead of talking from your head, Dr. Brandon shows how to speak with energy from deep in your body—she'll feel the difference. 03:22 – Practicing and Refining Your Skills: This stuff takes practice, but you can try it anywhere—even just standing in front of a mirror. 04:41 – The Importance of Human Connection: As AI grows, Dr. Brandon reminds us why real human connection and intimacy matter now more than ever. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #RelationshipAdvice #AttractingWomen #ImprovingIntimacy

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about the complexity of human desire, the conflict between what we think we should want versus what our bodies actually crave, and how sex tech is reshaping intimacy and relationships. 00:01 The Struggle Between Desire and Expectations – People often feel torn between what they think they should want and what actually excites them. 00:47 The Reality of Human Sexuality – Attraction doesn't always follow the rules we expect, which can create real challenges in relationships. 01:06 The Dessert Analogy: Understanding Bodily Desires – Just like craving chocolate cake over fruit, we can't control what turns us on, even if we choose differently. 02:35 Sex Tech: Personalization and Its Implications – Sex tech can be customized in ways human partners can't, which makes it powerful but also complicated. 04:06 The Future of Sex and Technology – As tech keeps evolving, we need to think about how it fits into our lives and relationships. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #HumanSexuality #SexTechImpact #IntimacyAndTechnology

In this episode, Dr. Brandon explores whether people can fall in love with sex tech, discussing how technology can fulfill emotional and physical needs in ways that challenge traditional human relationships. 00:00 Can We Love Our Sex Tech? – Dr. Brandon questions whether people can truly fall in love with chatbots, avatars, and sex robots. 00:33 Changing Perspectives on Love and Technology – Initially skeptical, Dr. Brandon now believes love for tech is possible based on evolving human connections. 00:44 Understanding Love: Neurochemicals and Emotions – Love is driven by brain chemistry, and if tech can trigger those same feelings, attachment is inevitable. 01:10 Tech as a Companion: Meeting Unmet Needs – Sex tech isn't just about pleasure; it can provide emotional support and companionship where human relationships fall short. 02:47 Human Partners vs. Tech: The Misconceptions – While most may still prefer human relationships, tech offers convenience, consistency, and a different kind of fulfillment. 05:04 Mindfulness and the Future of Love with Tech – As tech advances, we must be intentional about how we engage with it and prioritize real human connections. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexTech #EmotionalAttachments #HumanVsTechRelationships

In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses how to make sex in long-term relationships "worth wanting" by focusing on body awareness, emotional connection, variety, and vulnerability to keep passion alive. 00:00 Is Your Sex Worth Wanting? – Dr. Brandon challenges the idea of low libido, asking whether the sex itself is fulfilling and worth desiring. 00:28 Building a Connection with Your Body – Feeling present in your body through mindfulness, yoga, or meditation is key to enjoying a satisfying sex life. 01:29 Maintaining a Loving Relationship – Treating your partner with kindness, respect, and gratitude daily strengthens intimacy and passion over time. 02:14 Bringing New Energy to the Bedroom – Changing up sexual energy—whether loving, intense, or sensual—keeps things fresh and exciting. 03:45 Embracing Vulnerability – Being open and emotionally exposed in intimate moments helps deepen connection and enhance passion. 05:41 Tips for Men and Women – Women can practice vulnerability through body openness, while men can increase passion by expressing desire through eye contact. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexualHealth #LongTermRelationships #SexualSatisfaction

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about sex differences and whether they are shaped by biology or socialization, exploring a fascinating study that even questions if roosters and hens are "socialized" differently. 00:06 Favorite Study: Nature vs. Nurture – Dr. Brandon shares her excitement about a study exploring whether sex differences come from biology or socialization. 00:58 Study Methodology and Examples – The study surveyed participants on whether traits in men, women, boys, girls, and even animals were shaped by nature or nurture. 02:35 Chickens and Roosters: A Hilarious Insight – Some participants hilariously applied socialization theories to roosters and hens, despite clear biological differences. 07:04 Sex Differences in Humans – Dr. Morgentaler explains how testosterone and biology influence male and female behavior, especially in relationships and sex. 17:32 Parenting and Cultivating Traits – Parents often try to balance gender traits, but overcorrecting can lead to challenges in romantic relationships later in life. Resources: Geher, G., & Gambacorta, D. (2010). Evolution is not relevant to sex differences in humans because I want it that way! Evidence for the politicization of human evolutionary psychology. EvoS Journal. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexDifferences #NatureVsNurture #GenderRoles