The growing popularity of social media has provided a means for people to reach large, global audiences, and Internet celebrities have taken over Facebook, Instagram, TikTok and YouTube. The grassroots movement was once seen as a way to empower people to get around gatekeepers but now it has come under criticism for its impact on people. Giovanna Silvestre is a social media influencer, has her own yoga clothing line, is a travel blogger and is the author of a recent book "Confused Girl" and she sees a better way to have a positive impact on the lives of others.

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Join me as I continue my conversation with Jennifer Santanello, whose daughter, 20-year-old Layla Santanello went missing in Kingsport, Tennesse on June 26, 2023. As the investigation moves at breakneck speed, rabbit holes and clues begin to emerge, including a bizarre string of messages asking for money for Layla's safe return.

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132. The Disappearance of Layla Santanello and Inequity in Appalachia with Jennifer Santanello, Part 1 of 2 - Silver Linings Handbook

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The day of Monday, June 26, 2023, seemed to be a confusing one for Layla Santanello. After an argument with her boyfriend's family, she was staying at the Americourt Extended Stay Hotel in Kingsport, Tennessee, with a friend. Her now thin frame, her bleached blonde hair, her wry smile and a long-sleeved shirt with "FU" on it that captured her spunk, were all in the last known image of her, caught on a security camera in a warehouse parking lot. Layla's mother, Jennifer, who joins us in this episode, has been searching for her since in a case that has all the elements of a true crime mystery but has not gotten much attention.

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The shoe goes on the other foot in this episode where I am interviewed by A.J. Daulerio, the editor of The Small Bow and former of editor of Gawker. We talk addiction, recovery, scandal, getting over yourself, getting the help you need and helping others. We talk the tools - among them, the little bows and arrows -- that make all the difference in living a better life.

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https://www.thesmallbow.com/podcast

The check out our earlier episodes together:

130. How to Live with the Past with A.J. Daulerio, Part 1

https://silverliningshandbook.com/2025/03/21/130-how-to-live-with-the-past-with-aj-daulerio-part-1-of-2/

131. How to Live with the Past with A.J. Daulerio, Part 2

https://silverliningshandbook.com/2025/03/25/2025-03-25-131-how-to-live-with-the-past-with-aj-daulerio-part-2-of-2/

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A.J. Daulerio, the former of editor of Gawker, and my kindred spirit in a journalistic scandal and I continue our discussion about how you learn from, let go of and live with your past.

This is the second of two episodes.

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https://inboxcollective.com/a-surprising-gift-how-a-j-daulerio-turned-the-worst-time-in-his-life-into-something-beautiful/

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How do you learn to live with your past? Looking back and regretting your past mistakes is a healthy thing for everyone to do, but what happens when it goes to far or the mistake is so big that it is hard to get it out of your mind. Former Gawker editor A.J. Daulerio - my kindred spirit in massive journalistic scandals -- joins me to discuss learning from, letting go of and learning to live with your past. This is part of one of two episodes with A.J.

This is the first of two episodes.

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https://inboxcollective.com/a-surprising-gift-how-a-j-daulerio-turned-the-worst-time-in-his-life-into-something-beautiful/

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Brett Talley and Alice LaCour of The Prosecutors join Julia Cowley of The Consult and me to discuss ethics in true crime and more.

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We continue our discussion with Jason Usry, the host of the new podcast "Inconceivable: The Temujin Kensu Story" about the 1986 murder of Scott Macklem in Port Huron, Michigan and conviction of Kensu, who was alibied by several witnesses hundreds of miles away before and after the crime. For 37 years, Kensu has made a pretty persuasive case for his innocence yet he is still in prison. Why? We explore the answers and why Jason views the most important thing for him to do is find out what happened to Scott.

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After being convicted of the 1986 murder of 20-year-old college student Scott Macklem in a college parking lot in Michigan, Temujun Kensu yelled "They got the wrong man. I'll beat them on appeal" as court officers took him away. More than three decades later, Temujin is still waiting. Why? Jason Usry, the host of the new podcast Inconceivable: The Temujin Kensu Story, joins to discuss what his investigation has begun to uncover.

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We return to our conversation with Lisa Brat Martinez, the advocate for Pablo Velez Jr., whose murder conviction is the most egregious case of wrongful conviction that I have ever seen. This is Part 2 of Pablo and Lisa's story where we dive more into the case, the things about our justice system that makes it difficult to reverse convictions and hope for Pablo.

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