Do you keep getting in the way of your own success? If the answer is a big fat yes, then you are in the right place today! I know you; I was you! You want to be a wealthy CEO, have freedom in your life and business, grow and scale your business at a rapid rate, and you can see yourself doing it but… You repeatedly fall into the vicious cycle of habits and behaviour patterns that don’t support you in stepping into the higher version of yourself.

It's your subconscious mind that's holding you back from unlocking your full potential. It doesn’t let you take the action that you KNOW you need to take if you want to achieve those big income goals you set for yourself. Because it doesn't matter if you know you can achieve something if you are not actually doing the things to achieve it. So let’s talk about the four biggest reasons why you keep getting in the way of your success and what you can do to finally step into your higher self, baby!

Topics covered on Getting in the Way of Your Own Success:

• What is achievement anxiety, and how can it hold you back from your success?
• What can you do to overcome achievement anxiety and embrace the success you desire?
• My struggle with achievement anxiety and how I handle it when it comes up again.
• A powerful exercise to embody your expertise and overcome imposter syndrome when stepping into the higher self.
• Judgment jitters and strategies you can use to overcome the fear of judgment and focus on taking action.
• What is failure fright, and how can it hold you back from your success?
• Reframing failure and developing resilience in the face of potential setbacks.
• How to identify which one of the four reasons keeps getting in the way of your success?

Connect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_. For full show notes and more resources, visit the website.

There is a big difference between operating your business based on your identity and defining your identity based on the performance of your business. Your business has needs, you have needs and they aren’t always the same. If you’re constantly attaching your self worth to the results you’re seeing in your business, you will burn out.

In today’s episode join Bec as she explores the consequences of constantly attaching your value and identity to your business outcomes and the potential burnout, criticism, and overthinking it can lead to. 

She teaches you how to shift the narrative from self-blame to growth-oriented thinking, understanding that business failures and setbacks do not define your worth as an individual and being able to detach for bigger and better results. 

Your mindset blocks aren’t you. Your business failures aren’t you. Your flopped launch doesn’t doesn’t make you an unworthy person.

Your work, your impact, your voice - it all matters.

Connect with Bec:

• Apply to work with me
• Let’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_
• Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & Hypnotist
• Catch me on YouTube: Rebecca Haydon

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“There is a big difference between operating your business based on your identity and defining your identity based on the performance of your business”  - Rebecca Haydon

More about Higher Self & I:

Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Finding the balance between gratitude and ambition is a challenge that many of my clients, myself included, struggle with. I remember how I used to tell myself, "When I make X amount of money, then I'll finally be happy and enjoy my life." Yeah, sure!

As soon as you reach the amount of money in your bank account, the number of clients in your business, or the number of people signing up for your freebie, you'll move on to chasing an even bigger goal. Eventually, you'll reach a point where you feel like you're doing something wrong because no matter what goal you achieve, it never feels enough. It becomes this constant loop of never feeling satisfied and always wanting more.

That's why in today's podcast episode, I want to help you to find the balance between gratitude and ambition! Instead of being impatient and focusing on "where you are not," I want you to look at "everything you have achieved" over the last couple of months. Join me as I talk about why gratitude is so important in your life, a gratitude exercise that will help you appreciate the present moment, how to release the pressure of "shoulds," and more!

Topics covered on The Balance Between Gratitude and Ambition:

• How to find the balance between being content with your current life and still having the drive for future goals?
• The constant loop of never feeling satisfied and always wanting more.
• My personal experience of constantly striving for the next bigger goal while feeling unfulfilled.
• Why is gratitude so important in your life and business?
• A gratitude exercise to boost your confidence in tackling new, bigger goals.
• How neutrality towards your dream life allows you to manifest your dreams.
• Releasing the pressure of where you believe you "should" be by now.
• A story of my client who was so focused on financial goals that she forgot to enjoy the journey.
• Why it's crucial to remain open to new possibilities and recalibrate our ambitions.
• Embracing the balance between gratitude and ambition.

Connect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_. For full show notes and more resources, visit the website.

When Beckie’s clients come to her, they often feel like procrastination is just part of who they are at this point, and they often feel ashamed for struggling with it. “I am committed to my goals, I want to do the work, I’m ready to put in the effort… so why can’t I just do the damn thing?!!”

They feel frustrated with themselves but you know what, everyone procrastinates, but the beauty of subconscious reprogramming is that anyone can overcome it. Procrastination is NOT part of your identity, it’s a habit you’ve formed that’s rooted in how you deal with your thoughts.

To break free from this cycle, Bec encourages you to cultivate self-awareness and reprogram your subconscious minds. Embracing progress over perfection, challenging limiting beliefs through self-reflection and seeking support, and developing effective time management strategies are vital steps toward overcoming procrastination.

Join your host Rebecca Haydon as she uncovers the secrets behind the procrastination paradox and provides actionable insights to help female entrepreneurs overcome procrastination and unlock their full potential.

Topics covered on Procrastination in Business:

• Perfectionism and fear of failure as a burden on female entrepreneurs
• The role of fear of making mistakes and the desire for approval in perpetuating procrastination
• Limiting beliefs and self-doubt as underlying factors in female entrepreneurs' procrastination
• Identifying common limiting beliefs such as "I'm not good enough" or "I don't deserve success"
• Understanding how these beliefs erode confidence and contribute to a cycle of self-doubt and procrastination
• The importance of self-reflection, seeking support, and reframing limiting beliefs for overcoming procrastination
• Overwhelm and lack of prioritisation as challenges for female entrepreneurs
• Discussing the juggling act and multiple responsibilities faced by female entrepreneurs
• Exploring the feeling of overwhelm and its impact on decision-making and productivity
• Strategies for effective time management, goal setting, and prioritisation to combat overwhelm and reduce procrastination
• The power of self-awareness and reprogramming the subconscious mind to break free from the procrastination cycle

Connect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_. For full show notes and more resources, visit the website.

As humans, we LOVE overcomplicating things for no reason. Many business owners crave ease, flow, and simplicity, yet they still fall into the trap of overcomplicating things. It's almost as if when showing up in your business comes easily to you, and clients are drawn to you just by your personality shining through, it somehow feels wrong.

Most of us were raised in a world where we were told things like "you should work hard for your money, nobody likes their job, but you need to pay bills." And so, subconsciously, you make things difficult for yourself. You try new strategies, new coaches, and new programs, pushing yourself to a point where your business no longer brings you happiness. You start procrastinating, feeling resentful towards your clients, experiencing burnout—misaligned in one word.

As you can see, today's podcast episode is going to be a spicy one. But my intention is not to rip you to pieces; it's to bring awareness to why you may be feeling so misaligned right now. Join me as I talk about 3 reasons why you are overcomplicating things in your business, how to stop it, and instead start operating from a place that feels good to you and aligns with your CEO archetype.

Topics covered on Overcomplicating Things in Your Business: 

• When do we most often tend to overcomplicate things in business
• How did my client achieve success by embracing her authentic self
• What happens when you start replicating someone else’s style instead of embracing your own uniqueness
• How to break free from the cycle of making things more difficult for yourself
• Why do I adapt my approach to each of my clients individually
• Simplistic strategies that work for you as a human and your CEO archetype
• This is why I call to my 1:1 packages as 'mentorship'
• The problem of constantly working with a coach or enrolling into another program
• You don’t have to overcomplicate things in your business to be successful
• How do I differentiate my coaching style from other coaches out there

Connect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_. For full show notes and more resources, visit the website.

In the online space, it's not as common as it should be to run a business based on how you operate as a human and CEO. Many business owners doubt themselves because none of the strategies they've tried seem to work. So when they hear about the latest strategy that some coach is raving about, they are excited to try it out! At first, things go well, but eventually, they realize they just can't stick with it. No matter how hard they try. And so, they start to beat themselves up, thinking, "It must be me. I must be doing something wrong.”

Listen to me. If a strategy isn't working for you, it's just not the right fit!

Let go of the "shoulds" and "hot" strategies that big-name coaches and social media gurus promote. Instead, join me in today’s podcast episode as I share how to determine if your current strategy is really working, how I help my clients create the perfect strategy based on how they operate as a human and CEO, what can happen when you show up for your business in a way that doesn't align with your values, and much more!

Topics covered on How You Operate as a Human and CEO:

• Is your current strategy the perfect fit for you
• How to customize someone else's strategy to fit your style as CEO
• Different strategies my clients use in their businesses
• The negative consequences of trying to fit into a strategy box that doesn't align with your values
• Identifying how you operate as a human and CEO in your business
• The big changes I had to make in my business to honor my values
• Resistance is your sign to start looking inside yourself
• Why you should stop listening to everyone’s advice right now

Connect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_. For full show notes and more resources, visit the website.

Do you struggle with self-discipline? You’re not alone. Many of my clients often start their week feeling super motivated, ready to tackle a huge list of tasks and new habits they want to create. But by the end of the day, their excitement fades away, and the list doesn’t seem to be getting any shorter. Can you relate? I know I sure can!

The reason for this is related to your subconscious mind. When you overwhelm your subconscious with too many changes or new habits, your mind goes: “Holy, Mother of God! There is a lot that you want to change, and it feels unsafe and out of our comfort zone, so let’s do everything we can to prevent you from doing that.”

The good news is that self-discipline is like a muscle. With enough practice and effort, it will get stronger, and it will become easier to take on new habits or complete tasks. Join me in today’s podcast episode where I share several ways to trick your mind and grow your self-discipline so you can step into that unstoppable, powerful higher version of yourself!

Topics covered on Grow Self-Discipline:

• Why flexing your self-discipline muscle is crucial for business owners
• Why do some people grow the self-discipline muscle easier than others
• The reason building self-discipline may feel scary for you
• How do I help clients to flex their self-discipline muscle
• How does a lack of self-discipline manifest in your daily life
• Why entering my higher self version used to scare the hell out of me
• Start taking micro steps to grow your self-discipline
• Different ways to create the path of least resistance to build self-discipline
• The power of knowing your strengths in business

Connect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_.

Something that I repeatedly hear from my community is how much you love it when I call you out because it inspires you to take action. So today's podcast episode won't be any different!

If you have been a loyal listener of Higher Self & I, you've heard me say that 95% of our behavior patterns happen subconsciously. Your subconscious mind may put you in business growth avoidance without you even realizing it, because its goal is to keep you safe. As your future mindset coach, *wink wink*, it's my job to call you out and show you how this pattern can be changed.

Before we dive into the episode, I want to emphasize that I'm not here to shame you or make you feel bad about yourself. My intention is to open your eyes and show you your blind spots, so you can bring yourself out of avoidance and step into multi-5-figure, 6-figure months, and more, with ease.

Tune in as I share 5 signs that you are potentially in business growth avoidance, tips on how to get out of it, how I support my clients to overcome business growth avoidance, and more!

Topics covered on Business Growth Avoidance:

• Why does every business owner need a coach (myself included)
• How do I support my clients to overcome business growth avoidance
• Why do we easily slip into behaviours that don’t support our business growth
• Common avoidance beliefs that undermine business growth
• The negative impact of avoiding finances on your business and how to change it
• Daily mindset practices to take your business to the next level
• The benefits of asking for help when you need it
• How to let go of victim mentality and heal victim wounds
• Strategies to manage excessive scrolling on social media 

Connect with Bec:

• Apply to work with me
• CEO Hypnosis Bundle
• Let’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_
• Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & Hypnotist
• Catch me on YouTube: Rebecca Haydon

For full show notes and more resources visit http://www.rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/5-signs-you-are-in-business-growth-avoidance

You wouldn’t believe how often I see business owners spending thousands and thousand of dollars on masterminds, masterclasses, business coaches, courses - yet the promised results never come. They keep making more and more investments in hopes that they'll finally unlock the secret they've been looking for all this time and explode their business. I know how easy it is to get lost on social media, look at what other people are doing and feel like no matter what you do, no matter what investment you make, you are always one step behind. 

But what if I told you that you already have the magic bullet? That you already know what you need to do to bring abundance to your life and build wealth? The key lies within you! Tune in to today’s podcast episode, where I talk about why is your strategy is not working for you, what you need to change to achieve big results and much more! So don't wait any longer and unlock your power now!

Topics covered on Strategy:

• What important aspects you are missing out on if you are too focused on your business strategy
• Why your business strategy might not be working for you
• Discover how to achieve big results in your business 
• How to build self-trust so that you can step into your next-level business strategy
• The importance of repetition when building self-trust
• What is the consumption ban and how I use it with my clients
• How I’ve grown my business to where it is today
• Why you need to stop comparing yourself with other
• How to create consistency within yourself and your business

Connect with Bec:

• Apply to work with me
• Let’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_
• Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & Hypnotist
• Catch me on YouTube: Rebecca Haydon

For more resources and full show notes go to http://www.rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/3-things-to-consider-if-you-have-lost-yourself-in-your-strategy

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Let’s be honest, not many people like to push themselves out of their comfort zone. It’s called a COMFORT zone for a reason, right? But what if I told you that embracing discomfort could be the key to unlocking your success? A couple of weeks ago, my boyfriend and I moved into our new dream home and I must admit that despite all the excitement and butterflies in my stomach, I felt uncomfortable because I was stepping out of my comfort zone. 

This experience got me thinking about why we consider discomfort a bad thing, when in reality discomfort is the pathway to success! Tune in to today’s episode to learn about why getting out of your comfort zone is actually a good thing, how to work through the fears and any mindset block in the process, how our subconscious mind processes new experiences, understand four stages of learning, and more!

Topics covered on Discomfort Is the Pathway to Success:

• Moving into our dream home!
• Why discomfort is crucial for success
• What fear came up for me as I moved into my new home
• What are the four stages of learning
• If you have these four traits, you’ve got what it takes to be a successful entrepreneur
• Why you should celebrate feelings of discomfort in your business
• How do you know it’s the right time to get out of your comfort zone

Connect with Bec:

• Apply to work with me
• Save your spot in LEAP
• Let’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_
• Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & Hypnotist
• Catch me on YouTube: Rebecca Haydon

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“The moment that we know we're in discomfort is the moment we know we're fucking moving forwards.“

More about Higher Self & I:

Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!