Todd and Cathy discussed highlights from their recent Zen Parenting Conference, including various topics such as generational slang, societal challenges for boys and girls, and the importance of open communication with children. They reflected on the conference’s success, emphasizing the interactive nature of the event, the impact of guest speakers, and the significance of human connections. Todd also shared personal experiences and insights from the conference, expressing gratitude towards family, friends, and supporters while acknowledging the need for continued growth and adaptation in their initiatives.

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Exploring Generational Slang Evolution
Todd and Kathy discussed their top 10 best moments from their recent Zen Parenting Conference, also known as Zen Con 25. They shared various slang terms used by different generations, including “no cap,” “busen,” “slay,” “glaze,” “8,” “locked in,” “aura,” “bet,” “cooked,” “mogging,” “sigma,” “gang,” “take the L,” “unk,” “facts,” and “finna.” Todd also shared his experience with his daughters, Skylar and Jc, and how they use these terms differently. The discussion aimed to help listeners understand the current slang used by different generations and how it has evolved over time.

Zen Parenting Conference Success and Future
Todd discussed the success of the Zen Parenting Conference, highlighting the interactive nature of the event, including the use of cards on the tables for speakers and a “Good Intentions” wall. He expressed his gratitude towards the conference’s sponsors and attendees, emphasizing the positive impact they have on the world. Todd also mentioned the team Zen get-together, which has become a yearly tradition for many attendees, fostering strong friendships and connections. He suggested the possibility of organizing a smaller, more intimate event in the future, possibly at a retreat center.

Todd’s Conference Experience and Discussion
Todd shared his experiences from a recent conference, highlighting the social aspects and the importance of human connections. He also mentioned a special moment dedicated to Millie, who was unable to attend due to health issues. Todd then discussed the format of the conference, emphasizing the need for more interaction and space for questions. He shared his experience of a session with Dr. John Duffy, where they discussed their respective books and the questions they received from the audience. Todd expressed satisfaction with the session, noting that it went beyond the initial topic and allowed for a more engaging and interactive discussion.

Adaptation and Leadership in Changing World
Todd and John discussed the challenges faced by girls and boys in adapting to a changing world. They emphasized the importance of adaptability, particularly for girls who have had to continuously adapt to a world predominantly run by men. They also discussed the need for boys to adapt to a culture that requires more compassion and understanding. Todd suggested that boys could adapt to new roles in industries such as teaching and social work, which are currently underrepresented. The conversation also touched on the role of parenting and leadership in shaping the next generation’s perspectives and behaviors. Todd and John encouraged parents to engage in conversations with their children about the messages they receive from various sources, rather than shutting them down.

Navigating Beauty Standards and Media Influence
Todd discussed the complexities of societal beauty standards and the influence of media on individuals, particularly young girls. He highlighted the confusion and pressure girls face due to the portrayal of beauty in media, such as makeup and clothing. Todd also touched on the importance of understanding the history of oppression faced by women and girls, and the need to adapt and overcome these challenges. He suggested that parents should engage in open and honest conversations with their children about these issues, rather than demonizing certain aspects of society. Todd also mentioned the need to balance discussions about body image and societal expectations for both boys and girls.

Addressing Podcast Host Criticisms
Todd discusses receiving feedback from listeners who express concern that he doesn’t speak enough on the podcast or that his co-host overpowers him. He clarifies that this is not the case, emphasizing that he has ample opportunities to contribute and that their dynamic works well. Todd also mentions feeling nervous about speaking without notes during a live presentation, but his co-host encouraged him to be more spontaneous. The conversation touches on the different pressures and criticisms faced by podcast hosts, particularly noting that Todd’s co-host experiences more scrutiny.

Balancing Seriousness and Levity in Groups
Todd discussed his approach to different social settings, acknowledging the need to balance his serious demeanor in men’s groups with a lighter, more lighthearted approach. He also considered adding a new suggestion to the men living group, focusing on levity. Todd and his partner, Kathy, also discussed their approach to their podcast, emphasizing the importance of feeling and not forcing things. The conversation also touched on the importance of grassroots leadership and the role of mentors in personal growth. Todd shared his appreciation for a talk by Jay Alvarez and Brittany Egan about being an ally to the LGBTQ+ community, and he highlighted the importance of mentorship in their lives.

Personal Growth, Movies, and Music
Todd discussed the previous CEO of Men Living, Tony Schmidt, and their work in personal growth and law enforcement. He praised Dr. Alexandra Solomon’s keynote speech on healthy conflict and vulnerability mapping. Todd also mentioned the importance of movies and music in setting the tone for their events, using clips from movies and TV shows to engage the audience. He shared a personal anecdote about an argument with a friend about Natalie Merchant’s concert setlist, which was resolved when Glenn Phillips from Toad the Wet Sprocket listened to their podcast and played a song from it during their event. Todd expressed his appreciation for the guest speakers and the overall experience of the event.

Todd’s Gratitude and Conference Update
Todd expressed his gratitude towards his family and friends for their unwavering support and encouragement. He highlighted the importance of their presence at the Zen Parenting Conference, which he described as a party. Todd also mentioned that the conference was a significant event for him and his family, with his daughter missing a speech event to attend. He acknowledged the need for a break after the conference but assured that they would continue with their initiatives. Todd also encouraged those who attended the conference to continue supporting them and thanked Jeremy Kraft for his contributions.