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This episode starts our Yuletide saga with the invitation to explore all your puzzle pieces, instead of self-developing yourself away.

A series of 5 storytelling episodes over 10 days. Keeping you warm through the Holidays and reminding you of your wild heart. What if you could have everything you long for? What if 2025 could be that year..?

Let me be your Morpheus, breaking you out from your gorgeous creation of fear and protection while celebrating the fuck out of it.

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 A song to listen to with this episode: Björnen, by Sarah Parkman

Related episodes:
Ep170: Yuletide Tales: This Year’s Love Better Last

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A series of 5 storytelling episodes over 10 days. Keeping you warm through the Holidays and reminding you of your wild heart. What if you could have everything you long for? What if 2025 could be that year..?

Let me be your Morpheus, breaking you out from your gorgeous creation of fear and protection while celebrating the fuck out of it. Show you that BEING you is your greatest piece of art. That BEING the relationships you longed for is what’s always been waiting for you.

This episode introduces our Yuletide saga and connects you with the love you’ve been longing for.

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The song I’m referring to: This Year’s Love, by David Gray

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What got my clients that experienced deep foundational shifts to their reactive patterns there? Moving through the pillars in my program Alchemy and the turn-on framework in my program Being Me, of course. But there are a few things that I see the clients who are getting the deepest shifts have in common.

In this episode, I share three mindset shifts that will help you get the results you look for and experience peace, playfulness and more self-expression where there used to be people-pleasing, protection and loud reactions.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep168: From protection and hurt to leading from love in relationships
Ep152: From overcomplicating inner work to embodied shifts
Ep139: 3 common obstacles when shifting reactive patterns (and how to get past them)
Ep163: Activating deeper trust with yourself, your partner, and life itself

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As you heal emotional wounds and shift your reactive patterns at the root, there’s more freedom. While before you’ve been operating from protection and fear and automatically reacting to situations in your relationships - you now have other options.

In this episode, I’m giving you examples of a different way of moving through conflict, friction and differences in relationships and how to get there.

Instead of reacting, collapsing in hurt, blaming the other person, withdrawing, giving the silent treatment or getting the hell out of there - here’s how to lead from love.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep166: Grow your capacity to have the relationship you want
Ep164: A different look at anxious and avoidant attachment
Ep154: Turn your relationship pain into your spiritual journey
Ep163: Activating deeper trust with yourself, your partner, and life itself

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Have you also tried to fix your physical and emotional pain through exercise and inner work, felt hopeless, given up, or settled for a restricted way of being and moving?

In this episode, we explore the freedom and aliveness that’s possible when we change how we relate to tension and pain. Listen to find out how you can melt decades of physical and emotional pain.

Meytal Blanaru is a dancer, Feldenkrais practitioner and a guest teacher in Being Me 2025. She will share Fathom High movement sessions (based on the Feldenkrais® method) which brings you into your body, regulates your nervous system and melts physical and emotional tension held in your body. You'll experience more freedom in moving and being, and a new relationship with your body.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep118: From heaviness and despair to love - conversation with Irene and Shannon
Ep124: There’s no-one you need to become - with Chris Bale
Ep166: Grow your capacity to have the relationship you want
Ep163: Activating deeper trust with yourself, your partner, and life itself

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Many of us have a list of qualities and experiences that we want in relationships - but not many of us dare to look at our own capacity to BE or BRING that which we want.

Becoming an inner leader, also in relationships, means shifting out of victimhood and growing your capacity to have what you want. To become that which you long for OR - the match for that.

In this episode, we explore how you can bridge that gap between your desire and your capacity to have the nourishing relationship you want.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep147: Holding goodness in relationships (part 1)
Ep148: Holding goodness in relationships (part 2)
Ep163: Activating deeper trust with yourself, your partner, and life itself
Ep117: The turn-on between your feminine and masculine archetypes
Ep131: 3 less-talked-about mistakes that keep your relationship stuck – and how to shift them

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As you’re learning about the importance of feeling your emotions and allowing that in yourself - you’d like to be witnessed in your emotional depths. But what to do when your partner or loved one is unwilling or unable to listen to your emotional experience? When they shut down, check out, or belittle what you share? They might support you in doing the work - but “do you have to talk so much about it with them”?

It hurts when your partner is unwilling to meet you and touches a core wound that had you cover up and manage your emotions to begin with. So how do you continue doing the inner work and honor your desire to share your feelings with them - when they don’t want to?

In this episode, we look at your half, your partner's half, and three things to focus on when a partner or loved one gets stressed when you share your emotions.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep164: A different look at anxious and avoidant attachment
Ep138: How to create emotional intimacy (when it hasn’t worked before)
Ep129: 4 signs of an immature relationship with emotions
Ep161: “Am I tolerating someone’s bad behavior by working on myself?”
Ep159: What about the other person’s half?

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Understanding how the attachment style that you developed growing up, is impacting your relationships today, can be very helpful. But as the use of attachment theory in the relationship or dating scene is becoming more popular - so are the misconceptions and conceptualizations that pull us away from the actual experience. Meaning - we are theorizing a very embodied process…

In this episode, I want to bring you into your body and nervous system to understand the response behind what’s commonly called anxious or avoidant attachment. So we can bring more compassion to BOTH responses and embodied ways of loving on them. And I hope to bust some misconceptions about the holy grail of secure attachment.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep163: Activating deeper trust with yourself, your partner, and life itself
Ep162: 3 ways your trauma shows up in relationships
Ep153: Understanding and practicing honesty
Ep147: Holding goodness in relationships

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When you live your life from a conditioned idea of right or wrong - the mind judges what’s happening as good or bad, and you react compulsively to it. On top of that, the ego mind is convinced it’s in charge of keeping us safe, figuring things out, and finding the right path to our healed, amazing life and relationship.

What gets lost in this exhausting approach is a sense of trust. You don’t trust yourself to move through what’s painful, your partner to show up for you or do what they said they would, or life to carry you where you need to go. With this sense of internal mistrust, you create more of the experience you least desire.

In this episode, I talk about trust and how to activate it to carry you through ups and downs in relationships and life. To feel the ocean of trust underneath the waves of everyday life.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep84: The hidden structure behind mistrusting others
Ep66: Do you trust yourself to get the shifts you want?
Ep68: Affirmations of trust and ease
Ep154: Turn your relationship pain into your spiritual journey
Ep110: Making suffering your ally

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Most of us have trauma. Unprocessed emotional wounds. They show up in our relationships to BE processed, but they will look like a big problem unless we’re aware and have the tools to meet them. I truly believe that this is important work of our generation and lifetime.

That’s why, in this episode, I talk about three common ways that trauma shows up in our relationships, and how we can navigate them in a way that heals instead of re-enforcing the trauma, and all the beliefs and habits that come with it.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep142: How your reactive patterns keep you from becoming YOU
Ep161: “Am I tolerating someone’s bad behavior by working on myself?”
Ep137: 3 comforting truths about your relationship reactions
Ep134: 3 things to do when triggered in relationships

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You find show notes in this post on my website

Now enrolling for the fall:

My yearlong mentorship into secure relating and leading from love:
The Embodied Relationship Academy (ERA)
2 days in person Sep 30-Oct 1 included!

Next coaching training cohort starts in October.
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Registration open for 2027 power journey:
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