the building will come, but first you need to make sure you're placing the blocks correctly.

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don't assume, find out for yourself.

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look for intimacy from good sources... that's how you build something that's real.

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⁠it was fun while it lasted, but you're done.how do you let someone know that you're no longer interested? the first step is admitting to yourself that you don't want this relationship anymore. the second step is hearing them out.give the other person the closure they deserve. it's the least you can do.sending you all lots of love and peaaaaaaaaaaaaaaace!https://linktr.ee/thezurkieshow

when you realize how quickly life can be taken away, you start to appreciate it a lot more.

we often live like we have all the time in the world, but we don't. that doesn't mean you need to stress yourself out to the point of burn out, but maybe it means that pushing yourself just a little bit harder. you'll be happy you did so.

let this be a sign to get moving in the direction you want to go.

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⁠it's not over.

are things out of your control? yes. does it feel crushing to not see any progress as you try to improve your situation? absolutely. but it doesn't mean you can't change.

be patient, focus on the things you can control. find out what you can change moving forward, DO NOT get stuck ruminating in the past.

that's how you build resentment towards yourself.

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is that as good as it gets?

not at all. we have a lot more control over the "good" moments in our life than we think. and why do we feel to live certain eras of our lives as if that is the "best" time we'll ever get.

a lot of my favorite memories are the ones I was the most present for, not the ones I was told were in "the best years of my life".

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making friends all starts from you.

you have to make the first move. that can be putting yourself in a new situation, such as going to a club meeting or going up to a stranger. the quicker you get out of your comfort zone, the sooner you'll meet the right people for you.

one decision to say hello could get you your best friend. be open and most importantly, be patient.

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there are a ton of hurt people in our generation that decided to wreak havoc on others as a means of coping to what happened to them.

it may have happened to you, but it doesn't mean you should inflict it onto other people. that isn't fair to them, and it isn't fair to you.

being hurt is a two way street. taking accountability means true freedom.

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the end goal shouldn't be to have someone like you.

you should go on the date because you want to, and it's good for you to get out of your comfort zone.

don't let fear suppress your inner desire to be better and search for something good. if you don't try, you'll never know.

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