A Narcissist doesn't like rejection or abandonment. Despite the fact that they are the main reason for it happening in the relationship. They're going to work overtime to smear your image and hurt you in any way possible. The good news is, there is hope for you and a light at the end of the tunnel. However, you must play your cards right. Start off by shutting up! DO NOT let them know anything else about you. Kill them with kindness. Start playing Chess and not Checkers.