In this episode, Crystal and Laura talk about a trending video where a mother-in-law takes over when the wife is away! They also talk about the self-loathing trap when everyone and everyone encourages you to "just be grateful" for what you've got, even when you notice there might be some room for improvement.

To watch the trending video referenced: ⁠Matty J's Single Mum video⁠

Mentioned in this episode:

Zach Watson of @realzachthinkshare

Clare Brown of @ClaraBelleToks

Set Boundaries Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab

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In this episode, Laura and Crystal share a clip that celebrates all of the things working mothers do and share an email from a follower. The topic: my life is different, but theirs is the same as it always has been.

A link to the video from the episode!

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In this episode, Laura and Crystal take a listener message and discuss what happens when a partner isn't interested in your hobby. We talk about different types of problems in relationships, as well as personal examples of these problems in our own lives.

You can find the Gottman article discussed: Here!

Here's Shar Henley's video!

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In this episode, Crystal and Laura discuss two articles that are VERY different in the way they talk about men and women and childcare (or lack there of). Don't forget to rate and subscribe wherever you listen!

Resources from this Episode:

National Domestic Workers Alliance

Chamber of Mothers

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In this episode, Laura and Crystal take a listener message and share a viral video. The topic: what's the deal with some people having access to rest and others not? Is it fair that one person can step away and the world falls apart and the same isn't true for the other?

You can find the viral video discussed: Here!

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In this week's episode, Laura tells Crystal all about what happened in a bombshell episode of 90 Day Fiance, The Last Resort.

Have you ever made a decision you've kept from a partner? What happened when they found out?

Videos from this episode: Yara's video here and Jovi's video here!

You can watch clips of The Last Resort here!

Download resources and read more from Crystal and Laura here!

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Laura and Crystal talk about hiding out in the bathroom! They do a bit of over-sharing but in the name of discussing the old trope that dads are always hiding out in the bathroom. They also talk about the value of equal autonomous time and the benefits of identity outside of your roles.

"While Daddy Was Pooping" book

Research from Pebble Grey

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This week, Crystal and Laura take a question from a listener who is wondering how to keep herself afloat because her partner isn't interested in changing.

Resources Mentioned:

Books Mentioned on This Episode

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Laura & Crystal discuss a listener's question, where her FATHER-IN-LAW suggests her kids need her to work less...but she and her husband split work evenly. What now?

Resources Mentioned:

Books Mentioned on This Episode

Download resources and read more from Crystal and Laura ⁠here⁠!

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⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠

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Why are we obsessed with divorce? And why did dresses not have pockets until recently?! These answers and more on this week's episode with guest Olivia Dreizen, CEO of Fresh Starts Registry.

Resources Mentioned:

Fresh Starts Registry

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Books Mentioned on This Episode

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Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠

Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠video!

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