Dom Sub Devotion

Topping From The Bottom: Understanding and Addressing the Control Mechanisms of submissives


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In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of 'topping from the bottom' in a 24/7 DS marriage. We explore how this concept, where the submissive tries to control the Dominant using her submission as the means of control, aligns with the submissive’s use of voice and expression of feelings within a power exchange relationship.

We discuss the challenges of balancing submission and the need to speak up, the importance of emotional safety, and the inner emotional journeys both the dominant and the submissive experience in pursuit of authentic submission, where she feels safe enough to let go and not feel the need to control.

Join us as we unpack the transformative potential of overcoming control patterns and building deeper trust and love in a committed DS relationship.

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00:33 Understanding Topping from the Bottom

01:13 Balancing Submission and Voice

04:06 The Role of Safety in Submission

05:55 Dominant's Perspective on Safety

07:23 Challenges in Shifting Dynamics

09:47 Navigating Fear and Control

18:05 Advice for Submissives

32:55 Exploring Internal Muscles and Belief

33:39 Dissolving Trauma in Relationships

34:25 Understanding Fear and Control

34:46 Topping from the Bottom: Myth or Reality?

37:36 Navigating Emotional Reactions

39:35 The Role of Dominance and Submission

41:43 Building Trust and Integrity

44:11 Handling Emotional Reactions

56:28 Journaling and Self-Reflection

01:01:39 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies

01:03:01 Embracing Chaos and Submission

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