TILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

TPP 335: Amanda Diekman Dropping Demands, Restoring Calm, and Finding Connection with Your Uniquely Wired Child


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I’ve gotten to know today’s guest, Amanda Diekman, over the past year after I participated in her Low Demand Parenting Summit, which I know many of you attended, and more recently, read her new book, Low-demand Parenting: Dropping Demands, Restoring Calm, and Finding Connection With Your Uniquely Wired Child. 

Because low-demand parenting can be such an effective approach to supporting differently wired kids, especially kids who fall under the PDA profile of autism, I invited Amanda to join the show for a conversation about what this parenting approach looks like. An autistic adult, parent coach, and author in the neurodiversity space, Amanda has become a leading voice in the movement for low demand parenting practice. She runs a successful coaching practice for parents of neurodivergent children including online courses and a vibrant membership community. During this episode, we talk about what low demand parenting is, why it’s different than what might be referred to as “permissive” parenting, why it’s so effective for kids with PDA, and how she helps parents loosen up the mindset around non-negotiables. 

About Amanda Diekman

Amanda Diekman is an autistic adult, parent coach, and author in the neurodiversity space. Amanda has become a leading voice in the movement for low demand parenting practices, with her book Low Demand Parenting to be published July 2023. Amanda runs a successful coaching practice for parents of neurodivergent children including online courses and a vibrant membership community. 

Things you'll learn from this episode

  • What led Amanda to implement low-demand parenting in her family
  • What low demand parenting is, and why it’s often misconstrued as permissive
  • The relationship between PDA and low-demand parenting
  • Examples of big demands and tiny demands, and how shifting the focus can reduce stress for kids
  • How Amanda helps parents in loosening their mindset about what they define as non-negotiables
  • Ideas for practicing low-demand parenting in regard to our kids’ relationship with technology and screens
  • How Amanda and her co-parenting partner came to work together using low-demand parenting
  • Resources mentioned:

    • Amanda Diekman’s website
    • Low-demand Parenting: Dropping Demands, Restoring Calm, and Finding Connection With Your Uniquely Wired Child by Amanda Diekman
    • Amanda Diekman on Instagram
    • The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children by Dr. Ross Greene
    • Akilah Richards on Raising Free People (Tilt Parenting Podcast)
    • Raising Free People: Unschooling as Liberation and Healing Work by Akilah Richards

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