Erica and Molly dive back into one of the books that inspired the podcast, "Getting To I Do" by Dr. Patricia Allen and Sandra Harmon. The girls discuss Chapter 16: How to Keep a Sexual Relationship from Turning into an Obsessive Addiction. They talk about the compulsive behaviors that can kick in when it feels like you're losing control of your relationship, the moments that they've become obsessive, how to not lose control of your emotions when a relationship starts to go off the rails, and more.

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LINDSEY METSELAAR (We Met At Acme Podcast) has made her list and checked it twice -- her list of rules for men that is. Lindsey hops on the mic with Erica and Molly to talk about her dating rules, how to get a second date, not catching feelings for a friends with benefits, when she’s broken her own rules, and more. She also shares her own story of how she shot her shot to get her now boyfriend’s attention.

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Erica and Molly crack back open the fan favorite book "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov. The girls talk about why it's important to remain an independent thinker when in a relationship, not giving your time and attention to people who don't give you their respect, how not to be a "yes" woman, and to never believe in a man more than you believe in yourself. And just when you thought you'd heard it all from these two, Molly shares an update on Space Jam that's a pod first!

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HANNA DICKINSON (Don’t Tell Mom podcast) joins Erica and Molly and shares her herpes story. They discuss what it’s like getting diagnosed with herpes in the Covid-era, fears about getting back into the dating world with a lifelong STD, common misconceptions and myths about the virus, when and when not to disclose to new or potential partners, and more.

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Molly and Erica dive into the book "The Girl's Guide to Depravity: How to Get Laid Without Getting Screwed." To no one's surprise, they disagree with the author on most points and share some girl guides of their own. They question why women are pigeonholed into either being explicit, sexual demons or virginal queens holding out for the ring. They also wonder: is cheating more normalized than herpes? And are men more interested in women they can't have?

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GIULIO GALLAROTTI (Oops! The Podcast) joins Molly and Erica to talk that dirty talk. They survey Giulio on dirty talk phrases to get a "Man's Opinion" of what's hot and what's not.  They also discuss; their dirty talk failures, why dirty talk is more likely to improve your sex life, how to initiate talking dirty with your partner, and more!

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Dirty Talk articles and examples:

https://astroglide.com/blog/talk-dirty-to-me-the-complete-guide-to-talking-dirty

https://badgirlsbible.com/dirty-things-to-say-to-a-guy

https://badgirlsbible.com/dirty-talk-examples

DANIELLE PEREZ joins us to talk about dating while being a wheelchair user. First we answer a fan email about someone hiding their wheelchair on their dating profile. We discuss; the dating myths and stereotypes about wheelchair users, questions you should never ask a disabled person, what it's like to be newly disabled in the dating pool, Acrotomophilia, and how being disabled affects your sex life. 

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Molly and Erica take the Myers Briggs personality test. They discuss the five aspects that define your Myers Briggs personality type: Mind, Energy, Nature, Tactics, and Identity, and how this affects your relationships. The acronym breaks down to: Extraverted vs. Introverted, Observant vs. Intuitive, Thinking vs. Feeling, and Judging vs. Prospecting. Erica also gets confronted by a former "Ghost" from 4 years ago. 

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DR. MEERA SHAH CMO of Planned Parenthood Hudson Peconic joins Molly and Erica to talk all about abortion.  They discuss; the myths about abortion and Planned Parenthood, what it's like to be a doctor that performs abortions, the dangers of fake health care centers, the different types of abortion, advice for someone considering abortion, and how Roe v. Wade being overturned can affect abortion access, 

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Dr. Meera Shah's Book: You're the Only One I've Told: The Stories Behind Abortion

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VINAY CHADHA from Netflix "Indian Matchmaking" joins Molly and Erica to talk all about Ghosting. Vinay tells his side of the story, after the world assumed he publicly ghosted Nadia on the hit show. They discuss; why Vinay went on the show, the process of using a matchmaker, what exactly constitutes as ghosting, and what it's like to date after being shown as a villain. They end the round with playing a rapid fire "Is this Ghosting?" game. 

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