Merry Christmas! Happy Boxing Day! Happy Kwanzaa! Erica & Molly talk about "Experience Gifts", how to go outside your comfort zone to meet men, and how to try and balance friends & family during the holiday season. They breakdown The Rule "Show up even when you don't feel like it" and accept the challenge to go out alone. 

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Lev Fer from the “Yung Daddy” podcast joins Erica and Molly to give a man’s perspective on: what gifts to buy your guy, how to communicate what you want in bed, what will really make a guy notice you, and much more.

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*FIRST GUEST ALERT* HANNAH BERNER from Bravo TVs "Summer House"

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HAPPY THANKSGIVING! Erica gives a herpes disclosure update. The girls discuss the 'Don't name the puppy theory", and how to not jinx your future relationship. They also breakdown the 3 C's "Chemistry, Compatibility & Communication" along with the "Relationship Stages" from the book "Getting to I Do" by Dr. Patricia Allen. When should you define the relationship? What comes after the honeymoon phase? Should women date as if they don't have a biological clock? 

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Erica and Molly recap some missed shots from the weekend. They discuss the difference between being the masculine vs. feminine energy of a relationship from the book "Getting to I Do" by Dr. Patricia Allen. They end with a new segment & special guest: Questions with Marv.

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Erica and Molly have both unintentionally been "the other woman" and talk about how they handled the situation.  Molly messages the girlfriend of a cheating man to let her know what he's really been up to. Erica receives an apology from the man that gave her herpes. The girls cover "The Rules" #23 Don't Date a Married Man, and reasons to "pull a Molly". They answer the following questions; Can you truly be friends with an ex? Should you give a cheater a second chance? Does speaking up about a man's infidelity have a time limit? A listener shares a condom buying nightmare and we end this week with another DM corner segment.

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Erica and Molly get into CNN's latest article "STDs are Sexist and Women are the Losers". They tell some chlamydia tales, talk about the "3 Condom Rule", the effect of STDs on your mental health, and introduce the new DM Corner segment.

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Erica reads the letter she sent her parents about having herpes a few weeks before the podcast officially came out and how they handled the news. She also forgot to tell her sister before her secret was public. Whoops.

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Happy Halloween Shooters! Molly and Erica dive into the Costumes vs Clothing chapter of the book "Never Sleep Alone" by Dr. Alex Schiller. They breakdown the "4 types of people everyone wants to sleep with" for both men and women, and some tricks and tips for what to wear on a date. Join them in this week's challenge to wear a "costume" everyday, for one week, whenever you leave the house.