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  • how I think about spending money

    Sometimes the hardest thing about money can be learning HOW to spend it.

    Whether you grew up frugal AF (like me!) and get in your head about not getting a good deal - or you keep it simple and spend your money as soon as you get it - we all have money stories that shape our spending patterns.

    This week, I dive into the value systems that drive certain spending patterns, my approach to spending as a frugal bitch who makes a lot of money, and a BTS look at what's going through my mind when I spend money on things like my dream car, furniture, and fashion.

    I dive into:

    • What I'm really thinking about when I make a purchasing decision (big and small)
    • How your value system might be affecting your spending patterns
    • Consumer economics and using different financial tools to your advantage
    • How growing up frugal affects my money mindset
    • A BTS looks at my real-life spending patterns (investments, cars, fashion, and more)
    • And more

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    58 min
  • the one where Tonja channels for me

    This week my client Tonja channels for me, live on the show! We talk about wealth energy & embracing abundance, community building, and some of the fears coming up in this next iteration of my business. It was SO GOOD!! It was so pure, expanding, and inspiring - you don't want to miss it.

    We dive into:

    • ALL the juiciness of a live channeling by Master Intuitive Channeler Tonja Mills
    • Holding abundance while the world is burning
    • Doing it messy & leaning into a gentle pace
    • Money goals - do we need them to push forward?
    • And more

    Connect with Tonja:

    W: https://www.tonjamills.com/

    IG: https://www.instagram.com/tonjamills.energyqueen/

    FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=707544112

    FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sacredsoulspace

    Welcome to The Pussy-Verse! Join my new FB group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thepverse

    Come play with me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@juliamothereffingwells

    Send me a DM on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/juliamothereffingwells/

    44 min
  • what's your money attachment style?

    You're gonna show up differently in your business depending on your money attachment style.

    And whether you're a Frantic Felicia or an Avoidant Ashley - both sides of money discomfort can burn you out to where you don't want to keep playing the game.

    This week, I'm diving into common money scenarios from 3 different perspectives - anxious you, avoidant you & (the ideal) secure you. Want to explore your money attachment style & figure out how to show up for money in your business in a new way? Join me.

    I dive into:

    • Cultivating a secure relationship with your money & your business
    • The 3 money attachment archetypes - which one are you?
    • Buzzing vs. Freezing, looking at money from both sides of the intensity spectrum
    • 4 common money scenarios and how anxious, avoidant & secure you might handle them
    • And more

    Welcome to The Pussy-Verse! Join my new FB group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thepverse

    Come play with me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@juliamothereffingwells

    Send me a DM on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/juliamothereffingwells/

    37 min
  • how to sell in the DMs

    You probably just need a different approach if you don't think you can sell in the DMs.

    Translating your sales skills into DM sales isn't just possible, it's a legitimate way to increase your path to conversion.

    In this week's eppy, I'm diving into selling in the DMs - how to stop making it weird, the components that will actually help you convert, and finding a flow that works for YOU and your unique flavor.

    Now, let's go and sell some shit.

    I dive into:

    • How to translate sales into the DMs to convert with ease
    • Figuring out a starting point that works for YOU
    • Dealing with weirdness, flattery, and authenticity (no one loves a cold pitch, right?!)
    • A practice for finding your DM sales flow
    • How to create a clear & custom pitch for the DMs that converts
    • And more

    Welcome to The Pussy-Verse! Join my new FB group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thepverse

    Come play with me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@juliamothereffingwells

    Send me a DM on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/juliamothereffingwells/

    20 min
  • how I get shit done when I suck at executing

    If you want to run your business with ease and show up and consistently execute - you have to find YOUR way to do this business thing. It's all that fucking matters.

    In this episode, I share how the "letting it be easy" belief system breaks down in my business, why I can execute even though I suck at it, and the practical ways you can tweak your content creation, turn on events, and other biz activities to make them work FOR you.

    I dive into:

    • How I get shit done when I suck at executing - and how this will help you with whatever is feeling hard in your biz right now!
    • How I teach content creation (posts, modules, etc.) so you actually want to do it
    • Why you might want to try writing social media posts like THIS
    • And more

    Welcome to The Pussy-Verse! Join my new FB group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thepverse

    Come play with me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@juliamothereffingwells

    Send me a DM on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/juliamothereffingwells/

    29 min
  • what's happening behind the scenes over here!

    When my business blew up the first time, it was fast and messy. And the people who watched me do it? Well, they ended up with a masterclass on building a brand quick & dirty.

    This week, I'm sharing a BTS look as I birth my new body of work in a commitment to share all the biz lessons & goodness with as many of you as I can this time around. If you need to get messy in this next phase of your business or you're ready to roll out a new body of work, this one's for you.

    I dive into:

    • A BTS look at this next phase of my business
    • Helpful messy vs. unhelpful messy
    • Lessons I learned in the early days of my business
    • Launching my FB group and turning it into a membership
    • And more

    Welcome to The Pussy-Verse! Join my new FB group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thepverse

    Come play with me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@juliamothereffingwells

    Send me a DM on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/juliamothereffingwells/

    25 min
  • VIP days part 2

    I'm back for part 2 of VIP days!

    This week, I'm diving into all the pricing, marketing, selling & mindset tools you need to craft/uplevel your VIP offer. I share how to price and market your unique offer, soothe your fears around VIP day disappointment & roadblocks, and build a deep dive experience with you that you can start selling right now.

    I dive into:

    • Part 2: the pricing, marketing, selling & mindset of your VIP day offer
    • How to get clear on what your client wants - and give it to them!
    • Pricing your 1st VIP offer (trade, current client add-on, etc.)
    • Pivoting on the actual day & dealing with disappointment or roadblocks
    • And more

    Welcome to The Pussy-Verse! Join my new FB group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thepverse

    Come play with me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@juliamothereffingwells

    Send me a DM on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/juliamothereffingwells/

    39 min
  • VIP days part 1

    Curious about VIP days?!

    In this week's episode, I'm diving into the logistics of setting up a successful & chill VIP day. Join me for all the juiciest tips on picking a location, creating customization, protecting your energy & accommodating your comfort so you can craft up a VIP offer that feels so fucking good for you and your clients that they are begging for more (and you actually want to give it)!

    I dive into:

    • Part 1: the LOGISTICS of crafting your VIP day
    • The evolution of my VIP days, and a little look at what I hated about my 1st one
    • Juicy ideas for location
    • Customizing your day to each person
    • Breaking up the day for energy breaks and integration
    • Preparation: building in prep time, accommodating your own comfort level, getting familiar with the area
    • And more

    Welcome to The Pussy-Verse! Join my new FB group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thepverse

    Come play with me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@juliamothereffingwells

    Send me a DM on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/juliamothereffingwells/

    29 min
  • everything's working affirmations

    Say it with me - everything is working.

    Join me for some quickie affirmations to come back to again and again when you need a reminder that you know what works, you are not fucking this up, and you are safe & MF powerful.

    Come play with me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@juliamothereffingwells

    Send me a DM on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/juliamothereffingwells/

    15 min
  • pleasure baselines, deficits, and expansion - what they are & what to do about them

    I'm just out here recommitting to pleasure.

    And I'm making all kinds of pleasure plans for 2024… wanna join me?

    This week, I'm inviting you for a deep pleasure assessment as I recommit to prioritizing pleasure this year in my life & biz. I'm getting into all the goodies around pleasure baselines, deficits, and expansion and why you should choose pleasure even when it feels like the last fucking thing you want to do.

    I dive into:

    • The sexy & sustainable energy source you need for building a business and life you love
    • Evaluating your pleasure deficit, baseline & expansion
    • What to do when your pleasure deficit just isn't working for you anymore
    • Reaching for more turn-on when you have a very high pleasure baseline
    • Comfort vs. pleasure - which one are you experiencing?
    • And more

    Come play with me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@juliamothereffingwells

    Send me a DM on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/juliamothereffingwells/

    19 min

About Wait...WTF

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This podcast is for boss ass bitches who are looking for an alternative to hustle, burnout, hiding parts of who they are, and playing by rules created by men for men. Some fabulous guests and I will teach you each week about your super power as a woman (pussy - both physical + energetic) and how to use it to create more pleasure and profit in business and a life that's legit better IRL than on IG. The truth is, pussy always creates more profit.

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