We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

What do you do when life tries to shrink you, but God keeps calling you to stand tall?

This week, I sat down with my brother‑friend Tim Ross in The Basement for a raw, unfiltered conversation about the parts of my story most people only see in fragments. Tim gave me the space to go there - all the way there - and I didn’t hold back. I opened up about the parts of my story that shaped me, stretched me, and ultimately rebuilt me - not through perfection, but through obedience.

In this episode, we touch on:

Losing a marriage, a home, and financial security - and choosing faithfulness anyway

How art curation unexpectedly prepared me to bring theology to life

Healing after rejection and remembering Jesus as my Kinsman Redeemer

Why my restoration was never tied to a man, a marriage, or money

If you’ve ever felt pressure to shrink, disappear, or carry shame that God never assigned to you, this conversation will breathe courage into your spirit.

Listen now and show Tim some love by tagging us on your socials @upsetthegram and @biancajuarezofficial. Tell us how this episode impacted you -  and don’t forget to share, subscribe, and like the episode. Love you!

See you next week.

B

Resources & Links

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources

Support 

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/ 

WGT Email: [email protected]

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/ 

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If you’ve ever felt the pressure to perform—to be the perfect wife, the most productive worker, the best mom, or even the most devoted Christian—you know the exhausting grip of a performance-based identity. 

In this heart-to-heart episode, I share the difference between the identity you earn and the identity you receive. I unpack how the relentless pursuit of achievement is a spiritual trap that steals our peace and obscures the simple, profound truth of our worth in Christ. This is not about doing less; it's about shifting the why behind your doing. We explore practical, faith-aligned ways to disentangle your self-worth from your external output, embracing the radical rest that comes from knowing your value is settled. 

Tune in for a message that will liberate your heart and draw you back to the truth of grace.

Tag me @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

B

RESOURCES/LINKS

Sound Bite to Share: 

The most exhausting work in the world is trying to maintain a worth that God already secured.

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 | Celebrating 200 Episodes

03:15 | Defining the Trap

05:13 | Breaking the Chains of Perfectionism

07:50 | The Lie of External Metrics

17:20 | Understanding Our Identity in God

19:05 | The Grace-Based Action Plan

22:32 | Practical Steps to Embrace Grace

23:00 | Closing Prayer  

Resources & Links

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources

Support the Podcast

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/ 

WGT Email: [email protected]

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/ 

Thank You to Our Sponsors - We’re Going There is Sponsored by:

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Is Your Strength a Spiritual Gift, or a Survival Tactic? You wear the word "Resilience" like a badge of honor. You have endured, survived, and carried the weight. We celebrate that power.

But what if the very strength that saved you is now the barrier keeping you from what you truly need: healing, rest, and surrender?

This week, we confront the Resilience Paradox: The more you rely on your own ability to bounce back, the less space there is for God's power to carry you through.

It’s time to trade your relentless grit for His grace. Tag me @biancajuarezofficial to share how you are breaking the paradox.

Love you,

B

RESOURCES/LINKS

Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC 

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq 

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So grateful to our sponsors!

We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 50% Off and Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

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Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!

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Are you exhausted from trying to look perfect and polished? I’m diving deep into the chokehold of performance and anxiety that keeps so many of us trapped. I’m calling out the Pharisee Complex—the dangerous lie that says excellence equals worthiness. It’s time to trade in that prison of perfection for the radical freedom found in grace. I’m giving you the keys today, including three practical, one-thing-only steps to embrace wholeness over flawlessness. 

Key Takeaways for a Quick Win

God desires wholeness (telios), not flawlessness. Stop striving to be perfect; start pursuing maturity and completeness.

Perfectionism is a prison that limits our freedom; it’s not a personality type, it's often a protection mechanism.

Radical Repentance is the shift from a life of damage control to a life dependent on God’s grace.

Family, I love you and I’m cheering for you to walk in this new freedom. Don't keep this key to yourself! If this episode broke a chain in your life, you know someone else who needs to hear it. Do a sister a favor and tag me @biancajuarezofficial so we can set more captives free together. 

Love you,

B

Sound Bite to Share: 

Bring it messy, bring it undone.

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Perfectionism

02:47 The Pressure of Perfection

05:37 Understanding the Pharisee Complex

08:42 Signs of Perfectionism (Fear of Judgment, Misunderstanding Scripture, Idol of Control)

11:27 Breaking Free from Perfectionism

14:44 Practical Steps to Freedom

Resources & Links

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources

Support the Podcast

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/ 

WGT Email: [email protected]

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Thank You to Our Sponsors - We’re Going There is Sponsored by:

HomeChef: For a limited time, get 50% off and Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.

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Are you constantly chasing the next achievement, but still feel like it's never enough? Do you know deep down that "high-achieving" hustle is actually wearing you out?

I’m kicking off the New Year, and I'm ready for more! But not more doing—more being. In this first episode of 2026, I'm peeling back the layers on how we, as high-achieving women, often confuse our drive with a deep-seated trauma response. That perfectionism? It's a mask. That performance-based identity? It's a stronghold, and we are dismantling it today! 

I’m sharing my personal journey and the truth I had to face: "High achieving is often a trauma response." 

This year, we are Trading Trauma Response for Trust! It's time to surrender control, trust God. 

Key Takeaways:

Why high achievement can be a coping mechanism.

The power in surrendering control and choosing trust.

Practical ways to align your ambition with your faith.

The antidote to the "perfectionism prism."

Let's stop performing and start living on purpose! Share your biggest takeaway—or even your 'more' journey—and tag me @biancajuarezofficial, so I can cheer you on and witness the fire God is setting in your life! 

Love you,

B

RESOURCES/LINKS

Song

Happily Hidden by Pat Barrett https://open.spotify.com/track/1KSbEDEuafGfz2fuioe5uK?si=b005de5b22584080

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Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC 

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq 

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So grateful to our sponsors!

We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering FIFTY PERCENT OFF and free shipping for your first box PLUS free dessert for life!! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

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Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!

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Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW

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Visit biancajuarezofficial.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources 

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Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/ 

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Do you dare to ask more of God, or are you afraid to sound selfish?

Hey, fam! In this bonus episode I’m dropping bombs on why settling for 'just enough' is not your design! We're talking about that word 'more'—not the greedy kind, but the abundance God literally wired inside you!

Share your abundance mindset shift with me @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

B

RESOURCES/LINKS

Takeaways

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Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC 

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq 

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So grateful to our sponsors!

Antique Candle Co. - Visit antiquecandleco.com and use the code “WGT” for 20% off your next order. https://tinyurl.com/WGTAntiqueCandle

Omaha Steaks - https://tinyurl.com/RONOmahaSteaks

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Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW

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Visit biancajuarezofficial.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources 

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Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/ 

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Friend, are you ready for a seismic shift in your life?

Stop letting the new year happen to you! It's time to get fiercely intentional. In this power-packed episode I break down the life-changing practice of choosing a #WordForTheYear. This isn’t some cute little resolution you'll forget by February—this is your anchor for personal growth, your battle cry for a life lived on purpose!

I dive deep into:

Reflection & Pause: Why looking back is the key to moving forward.

The Blessings List: Fostering that deep-rooted gratitude and positivity.

Emotional Awareness: Identifying your values to craft a word that sings to your soul.

Community & Commitment: Sharing your word to build accountability and get that much-needed support.

Your next level is waiting for you, and it all starts with one word. Listen now and set your soul on fire for the coming year! 

We're building a community of intentional people. Share your word for the year in the comments on Instagram and tag @biancajuarezofficial. 

Celebrating with you!

B

RESOURCES/LINKS

Takeaways

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Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC 

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq 

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So grateful to our sponsors!

We’re Going There is sponsored by

HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

Antique Candle Co. - Visit antiquecandleco.com and use the code “WGT” for 20% off your next order. https://tinyurl.com/WGTAntiqueCandle

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Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW

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Visit biancajuarezofficial.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources 

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Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/ 

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Be honest with yourself, friend: Are you managing your life, or is your life managing you? I'm talking about more than just a cute little calendar hack—we’re diving deep into Life Management. This is for the high-performers, the purposeful women (and men), and anyone who’s tired of being "busy" without being productive.

This episode is your call to action to stop scheduling tasks and start aligning your entire life—your time, your coin, and your connections—with your deepest values and your God-given purpose. In This Episode, We’re Breaking Down:

The Purpose Pivot: Why understanding your "why" is the ultimate key to true life management. If your foundation is solid, your house won't shake! (02:44)

Clarity is Power, Periodt! How a laser-focus on your goals simplifies every single decision you have to make. No more confusion, sis! (05:45)

The Accountability Check-In: Why discipline and intentionality are the glow-up ingredients that high performers always keep in their kitchen. (20:07)

Beyond the Grind: We talk about the non-negotiable importance of downtime, self-care, and reflection for true resilience. (30:46)

Money Moves & Meaningful Connections: Aligning your finances (stewardship!) and relationships with your core values. (40:53, 50:22)

Stop letting life happen to you. It's time to be the architect of your destiny. Grab your notes and let’s go get this life!

RESOURCES/LINKS

Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC 

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq 

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So grateful to our sponsors!

We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

We’re Going There is sponsored by Antique Candle Co - You can use the code “WGT” to get a free Gift Set on any order of $40 or more now - Dec 15 at https://tinyurl.com/WGTAntiqueCandle

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Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW

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Visit biancajuarezofficial.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources 

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Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/ 

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Are you truly living free, or are you just talking about it?

Join me and my co-host, Makayla Martinez, in this passionate episode as we dive deep into the real cost of freedom. Get ready to be challenged, encouraged, and empowered to wage war for your freedom. It's worth it!

In this episode, we unpack:

The True Cost of Freedom

Overcoming Shame & Negative Self-Talk

Owning Your Calendar

Desiring More (Biblically)

Embracing Your Voice

Fighting for Your Freedom

Friends, there is a spiritual war waging against our freedom. Let us know how you are finding true freedom in your life today by sharing on socials @biancajuarezofficial and @makayylay.

Love you,

B

RESOURCES/LINKS

Co-Host

Makayla Martinez https://www.instagram.com/makayylay/?hl=en 

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Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC 

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq 

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So grateful to our sponsors!

We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

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Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW

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Visit biancajuarezofficial.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources 

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Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/ 

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Is it possible to date with purpose, passion, and purity—especially when you're serving in ministry?

In this fiery and faith-filled episode, I sit down with pastor Cesar Delgado and Sam Tenney of Revere Church, to unpack the real, raw, and sometimes ridiculous world of dating in the church. From awkward DMs to divine delays, we’re talking about what it means to pursue love while staying rooted in your calling.

Topics we dive into:

Dating while in ministry—what’s sacred, what’s messy, and what’s misunderstood

Why values alignment isn’t just cute—it’s critical

Communication, clarity, and calling: the triple threat for intentional relationships

Boundaries that protect your heart and your holiness

The beauty of waiting, healing, and letting God lead your love story

Whether you’re single, searching, or just spiritually curious, this episode will challenge you to rethink how you date, who you date, and why your relationship with God must come first. It’s spicy, it’s soulful, and it’s straight-up necessary.

Tune in, take notes, and tag your single besties—because this one’s too good to keep to yourself.

Show your appreciation to Sam and Cesar by tagging samuel_10e, @cesar_delgado, and me @biancajuarezofficial.

Love you,

B

RESOURCES/LINKS

Guests

Pastor Cesar Delgado, Associate Pastor, Revere Church

Sam Tenney, Guest Experience Director, Revere Church

Takeaways

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The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/gdq 

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So grateful to our sponsors!

We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

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Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review!

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW

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Visit biancajuarezofficial.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources 

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Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/ 

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WGT email: [email protected]

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