What I Love About Sex

Most couples don’t need fewer 'fights'. They need to get better at what happens right after them.

In this episode, I’m breaking down one of the most important and underrated skills for a great relationship and sex life: repair.

Repair is how you keep one bad moment from becoming a bigger story about your partner, your relationship, or yourself.

I share a real example from a recent trip with Andrew where a small moment of irritation turned into tension and how we repaired it quickly instead of letting it become resentment.

I also give you a few simple repair phrases you can start using immediately.

Because a great relationship isn’t one where nothing ever goes wrong.

It’s one where you both trust: when something does go wrong, we know how to come back together.

And that trust changes your sex life.

If you’re serious about building your skill of repair, fill out an application to work with me and let’s see if we’re a good fit.

Apply for 1:1 coaching: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching/

Free guide if you're overthinking your sex life: https://stephanie-ganowski-coaching.kit.com/839b5aea82

Ronan, my app for guided solo practice: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ronan/id6760799274

If you’ve ever wondered whether your woman is still as attracted to you as she used to be, or why your sex life doesn’t feel as exciting anymore, this episode is for you.

Chemistry isn’t something you either have or you don’t. And it doesn’t have to disappear just because the honeymoon phase is over.

In this episode, I break down the three things that help create chemistry in a long-term relationship. I also explain the difference between loving connection and sexual desire

Apply for 1:1 coaching: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching/

Ronan, my app for guided solo practice: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ronan/id6760799274

If you know something in your sex life isn’t working, waiting usually doesn’t make it easier to address. It makes the conversation heavier. You start thinking about it more. You become more frustrated. More meaning gets attached to every initiation, rejection, good night, bad night, or stretch without sex. And eventually, something that could have been a short, honest conversation starts feeling like a massive relationship problem. If you love your partner and want a better sex life with her, you don’t need to sit in frustration or avoidance.

But you do need to stop waiting.

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When you decide to stop waiting and want someone you trust to hold you accountable:
Apply for 1:1 coaching: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching/

If you feel like you have more control when you masturbate but lose that control when you're highly aroused with a partner, porn may be playing a bigger role than you realize.

In this episode, I break down how the way you use porn can train your brain and body to rely on visual stimulation, instead of learning how to stay present in your physical pleasure and regulate your arousal.

This isn't about making porn the enemy or telling you that you need to quit forever. It's about understanding what you're training your body to do.

If you want more control during sex, the goal isn't to avoid getting turned on. It's learning how to stay connected to your body while you're turned on.

In this episode, we talk about porn, arousal, sexual control, staying present during sex, and how to retrain the habits that may be working against you in the bedroom.

If you want to start practicing this on your own, Ronan is the best place to start: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ronan/id6760799274

Yes, I’m a sexologist. And yes, I’ve had moments during sex that made me want to disappear in the moment, but I made it fun anyway- because I get to. 😂

In this episode, I’m sharing three of my favorite embarrassing sex stories—including an anal mishap, an unexpected request, and a backyard adventure with a very awkward morning after.

Sex can be messy, surprising, and hilarious. If you’ve ever had an awkward moment and thought, “Please tell me I’m not the only one,” this episode is for you!

If you're overthinking your sex life (free guide): https://stephanie-ganowski-coaching.kit.com/839b5aea82

Apply for 1:1 coaching: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching/

Ronan, my app for guided solo practice: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ronan/id6760799274

What if confidence isn’t about always knowing the right thing to say, but knowing who you want to be, even when you get it wrong?

In this episode, I share the perspective of how to stop chasing perfection and start acting with agency in your relationships and sex life. You can’t control every outcome, but you can choose how you show up, respond to mistakes, and take your next step.

You don’t need a flawless conversation to build connection. You need a clear sense of the man you want to be, the willingness to act in alignment with that, and the courage to get back on track when you don’t.

When you are willing to take this a step further, Apply for 1:1 coaching

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What you'll learn in this episode:

You get along, care about each other, and rarely fight...but how close are you really ?

In this episode, I explore the difference between a pleasant relationship and a close one, and how keeping things comfortable can leave important desires unspoken.

Let’s talk about honesty, vulnerability, and the conversations that help you feel more connected in your relationship ... which yes, impacts your sex life!

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Want to join The 100-Man Project?

In this episode, I'm giving you my raw thoughts on the first 25 conversations I've had with men for the 100 Man Project. I haven't organized my notes yet, so this is really me, for the first time, putting thoughts together on

• The patterns that have come up
• The situations these men are in 
• What they really want for their sex life
• Where I believe their challenges are really stemming from
• How to work toward getting what they want 

Want to learn more about your body sexually, so you can rely on yourself instead of porn?
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Most men have never actually talked about their sex life out loud. Not to their woman, not to their friends, not to a doctor/therapist. They've been carrying it alone for years, convinced they're the only one dealing with what they're dealing with. I want to help change that!

Between now and December 31, I'm having 100 free, private, 15-minute conversations with men about their sex lives. No sales pitch and no judgment, just an honest conversation about what's really going on with you and a step to take.

 
In this episode you will learn:
 • Why I'm doing this, and what I expect to hear

 • What men tell me keeps them up at night around sex

 • Why 15 minutes is enough for you to shift something 

 • Why sharing 'explicit' info on a call responsibly with me is very different than "being a perv".

 • How to apply, and what happens after you do

If you're a woman listening and you know your man would benefit from this, send them this episode! It might be the thing that gets him talking and ready to take the next step.

I'm Stephanie Ganowski, a clinical sexologist and sex coach who works with men. 

In this episode,

• I give examples of what it means for you to "play it safe" with your woman. 
• Why you play it safe 
• What it sounds like to stop playing it safe, and why this is so important for your connection and sex life!

Do you resonate with this and you're ready to do something about it?
Apply for a Sex Audit. Let's see if we're a good fit to work together. I'd love to help you!