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What We Learn About Love Before We’re 10 (How We're Raised with Will Guidara)


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This episode is part of our new series, How We’re Raised — conversations about how the homes we grew up in shape the way we lead, love, and parent today. Dr. Becky sits down with restaurateur and author Will Guidara to explore how being deeply seen as a child shaped the way he builds culture — in restaurants and at home.Will shares what it was like growing up with a mother who became quadriplegic after brain cancer, the quiet power of full presence, and how those early experiences led him to build a career around “unreasonable hospitality” — not in pursuit of product, but in pursuit of people.Together, they talk about:

  • Why feeling seen matters more than being impressive
  • The gift — and cost — of being the person who cares for everyone
  • Why holding your child can matter more than fixing their problem
  • And how to bring more intention into your home life
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