Strong Signs He’s Serious About You And Is Committed To You Commitment looks different when you’re in your midlife years and it’s very different from your 2os and 30s when most people are looking for a spouse and to raise a family. By the time you reach your 40s, 50s and beyond, you have a […]

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Why You Should NEVER Date a Dismissive-Avoidant (Unless This One Thing Is True) We’re talking about love attachment styles today to unpack why it’s tough to have a relationship with a dismissive avoidant and how an anxious person is different from a dismissive avoidant person. If you’re new to love attachment styles, listen in to […]

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Never Date A Man Without This GREEN FLAG So often we focus on the RED FLAGS to avoid when dating but I feel like then we’re always focusing on the negative. And when you always look for negative energy or behaviors, all of a sudden that’s ALL that you can see, which isn’t healthy for […]

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Why Men Shut Down After Loss and Love Feels Impossible For Them Dating seems like an endless merry-go-round where we connect with someone for a short time and then it ends. Then we’re back on the apps before we really dissect what happened and how can we learn from this experience. Ending a relationship is […]

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Men Fall In Love and Bond When… (#1 SECRET) Falling in love is so much deeper than having great chemistry and hormone rushes. When you let lust or limerence set the tone of a relationship, very often you’ll forget to have the deeper conversations to determine if you’re truly aligned with this person. Lets use […]

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Mid-life Love Drought: Why Men & Women Over 45 Are Like, “Single Is Better Than A Bad Relationship” You’ve heard me say the dating world is a mess and even though there’s not a single cause, let’s focus on why we’re so quick to blame the other person for a date or relationship not working […]

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A Man Who Cares About You Will Always DO THIS Take a moment and think about your closest friend in the world. The friend that you can tell anything and know they will have your back. You can share your deepest desires and know they won’t judge you. These are signs of genuine friendship. Now […]

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Ask Men THESE Hard Questions Before Sleeping With Them Guest @LaurelHouse Laurel House is the premier relationship coach at eHarmony and we’re diving into why it’s so important to be upfront with a new guy from the first date. In these midlife years, who wants to waste time getting to know someone only to find […]

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He Gave Me The ICK | Should I KEEP TRYING With Him? When you’re exploring a new relationship, it’s natural to talk about the similarities you have. A big part of my teaching is about making sure you’re aligned in many parts of your lives so you can blend lifestyles easily. But when are the […]

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How To Communicate Your Needs To A Man Without Him Feeling Attacked I’m thrilled to have my friend, Sabrina Rising, as my guest so we can dig into how to communicate with our partners effectively. Communication is so nuanced and can quickly turn into arguments when emotions get the better of us. Sabrina says communication […]

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