Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

What's Really Holding you Back in Love It's Time to Face your Fears


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Summary:

In this episode, Lisa Shield addresses the fundamental fears that hold people back from finding true love. She emphasizes the importance of facing these fears head-on rather than running from them. Lisa draws from her own experiences and provides practical suggestions and tools, including her "emotionally naked dating" approach, to help listeners work through their fears and gain confidence in their dating lives. She also discusses how fear can manifest in various ways, such as fear of rejection, fear of intimacy, and not feeling good enough, and offers ways to reframe these fears as opportunities for growth.

Highlights:

Personal Reflection:

  • Lisa shares a personal story about dealing with her anxiety and fears while her husband was away.
  • Emphasizes the importance of sitting with one's feelings and working through them.

Impact of Fear in Personal Lives:

  • Discusses how fears like rejection, intimacy, and being truly seen can impact relationships.
  • Stresses that running from fear keeps one stuck, while facing it moves one forward.

Practical Steps to Face Fear:

  • Lisa shares stories from her life, including her divorce, to illustrate how facing fears is essential for growth.
  • Suggests the importance of naming one’s fears as the first step to take control.

Emotionally Naked Dating Approach:

  • Advocates for vulnerability and being real as foundations of connection.
  • Discusses how fear in dating shows up as perfectionism, playing it cool, or hiding parts of oneself.

Building Confidence:

  • Lisa describes how addressing her weight helped her gain confidence and how small, brave steps can lead to significant changes.
  • Encourages listeners to tackle one area of dissatisfaction in their lives to build confidence.

Handling Fear of Rejection:

  • Offers tips on navigating online dating and dealing with fear of rejection by engaging proactively.
  • Reframes rejection as an opportunity for learning and growth.

Final Advice:

  • Lisa urges listeners to think about one fear they have been avoiding and take a brave step to face it.
  • Highlights the importance of becoming ready for a genuine relationship through personal growth.

Call to Action:

  • Invites listeners to visit her website to watch a free presentation on emotionally naked dating.
  • Encourages booking a call with her team for those ready to transform their love lives.
  • Promotes her broadcast with her husband, "Getting Inside the Right Male Mind", for male perspectives on dating.

 

Here are just a few highlights you won’t want to miss:

  • What’s really on a man’s relationship checklist.
  • Why kindness, empathy, and positivity matter more than you think.
  • How respect can mean more to a man than love—and how to show it.
  • The powerful role of femininity in attracting the right man.
  • How to acknowledge a man’s efforts and create positive, lasting connections.

This conversation is packed with insights that can transform how you approach dating and relationships. Whether you’re single and searching or looking to deepen your current relationship, this episode is full of valuable perspectives and actionable advice.

 

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