Date with Cents

When Men Don't Feel Safe With You


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“He just wants to hang out or keep things casual”


“He doesn’t express how he really feels about me”


“He doesn’t discuss plans for me in his life. He just goes with the flow” 


“He never wants to talk about his past or what’s bothering him”


Many women might see this as an emotionally unavailable man…but I'm not so quick to jump to that conclusion. 


Based upon experience as a love coach…many of these men are emotionally available…but don’t yet feel safe with the women they’re dating. 


In today’s episode, I share how many women aren’t able to emotionally connect with men (and inspire them to commit) because they aren’t providing emotional safety.


HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

  • The truth behind why a man might be really interested in you…and still avoid pursuing you for a real relationship


  • How my clients are attracting quality men who seriously pursue them for relationships…even though they claimed they wanted to “go with the flow”


  • 3 common (yet overlooked) ways men feel unsafe to commit and/or express themselves with the women they date


  • Simple ways to provide emotional safety to a man and make room for his emotions so that he feels safe to share his heart and life with you.


  • My suggestions for how to interact with men without worry, anxiety, or fear that comes along with being attached to a future outcome. 


FEATURED ON THE SHOW

  • Date With Cents Podcast Episode #3: High Connection/Low Attachment


  • How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed

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