What does it actually look like when the Church gets it right for survivors of abuse?

In this powerful episode of Hey Tabi, licensed trauma therapist and coercive control expert Tabitha Westbrook sits down with Dawn Jones, founder of Restored to Thrive, a church-based ministry supporting women healing from domestic abuse/coercive control, and relational trauma.

So often, abuse survivors experience silence, minimization, or spiritual bypassing in church spaces. But this conversation offers something different: a real-life example of a church that chose survivors over systems—and the healing that followed.

Together, Tabitha and Dawn talk openly about:

• How coercive control and emotional abuse show up in Christian marriages
• Why traditional marriage counseling can be dangerous in abusive relationships
• What abuse survivors actually need from pastors and church leaders
• How safe, trauma-informed church communities foster real healing
• The life-saving impact of being believed, supported, and protected

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

• Leslie Vernick – The Emotionally Destructive Marriage, https://leslievernick.com/
• Called to Peace Ministries, https://calledtopeace.org/
• National Domestic Violence Hotline (U.S.): 1-800-799-7233

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 This book is for every Christian woman who has been harmed sexually, whether that happened in childhood, adulthood, or even within your coercive controlling marriage, and you're longing to feel safe in your body again. We talk about the hard stuff, shame, desire, faith, and even questions like, is this sin or is this trauma?

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