Why do women over 40 disappear from our screens? This week, Dr Naomi Potter is joined by actress, writer, and producer Sally Lindsay to unpack why midlife women — and their real experiences with menopause, motherhood, and ageing — are still invisible in TV and film.

You might know Sally best from her role as Michelle in The Royle Family, or Shelley Unwin in Coronation Street, or even Piella Bakewell in Wallace and Gromit! But most recently, she's been starring, writing and producing the Madame Blanc Mysteries, in which Sally plays antique dealer Jean White. Sally talks about how important this job is to her – how she's putting midlife women in the limelight – and how women can bring far more to the table both on camera and behind the scenes compared to men.

This is an empowering, funny, and honest conversation reminding us that women in midlife deserve to be seen — and heard.

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00:00 – Welcome & introduction

02:02 – Why TV still prefers men in key roles

03:01 – The struggle to get female-led dramas made

04:34 – Where are all the female writers in TV?

05:42 – Motherhood, childcare & losing women in the industry

07:05 – Midlife women and missing roles on screen

08:33 – Why Sally writes roles for women over 50

10:05 – The reality of casting women in midlife

11:04 – Bringing menopause and hot flushes to TV

12:32 – The power (and freedom) of menopause

14:09 – Sally’s personal perimenopause journey

16:02 – Brain fog, anxiety & the fear of losing yourself

18:03 – The life-changing impact of HRT

20:02 – Managing anxiety during menopause

22:04 – The battle women face getting HRT

24:03 – Sally’s experience starting HRT

26:03 – Travelling with HRT & the stress of access

28:04 – If men went through this, it would be everywhere

30:05 – Why has progress on menopause care stalled?

32:02 – Support (or lack of) from friends who didn’t struggle

33:04 – Listener question: Balancing career & family life

36:02 – Listener question: Anxiety, brain fog & confidence at work

39:01 – Final thoughts & where to find support

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